Wanna Be a Steader!

Ya Don't Have to Do Everything!

10:41, 2006-May-18 .. Posted in Homeschooling .. 1 comments .. Link
 

I'm on HSLDA's Homeschool Heartbeat e-mail list, since Christian radio stations around here do not air it.  So they send me the transcripts.  The latest one mentions some great advice by The Old Schoolhouse's own Christine Field!!  She, and HSHeartbeat, confirms something that I tell many and that I talk about a little in my "Homeschooling as a Lifestyle" presentation - and that is:  YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING!!  You DO NOT have to fill up every hour of everyday with STUFF; with field trips, with dance, sports, and other out-of-the-house activities. 

 

Our children want US!!  If you're worried about "gaps" in their education then STOP - it's too late!  There will ALWAYS be gaps, there already are - and that's not necessarily a bad thing.  Look at your own education, aren't there gaps in yours?  Haven't you ever been speaking with someone who went to a school close to where you went, or who grew up in a differnent part of the country or state, and something came up in conversation that let you know that they were taught something that you weren't?  I know once when my oldest daughter was about 9, a friend of hers mentioned something about "nostrils" (I don't EVEN know what the conversation was about), but dd didn't know what they were and her ps friend made her feel like an uneducated idiot because of it.  I just had to explain to my dd that we just call a nose a "nose" - "nostril" is simply a word that doesn't come up in our conversation.  That's all.  ....Well, there's one gap...

 

So, now that I've said all that...here's some great advice from HSLDA's Homeschool Heartbeat:

 

Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<><

 

Slow Down and Enjoy Your Kids

Volume 67, Program 18

5/17/2006

Are you Supermom? Of course not--and your kids don't need you to be.

Today on "Home School Heartbeat," Mike Smith reminds us of what's really important in homeschooling our kids.

Mike Smith:

In her book "Coming Home to Raise Your Children," Christine Field talks about a point in her life when there was an urgency to her mothering. She says, "The kids and I simply had to have certain experiences or do certain activities, or I wouldn't be doing the mother-thing right. I pushed our schedules and over-filled our days when all my children really wanted was my time."

Moms know instinctively that children are fragile. Our little ones need physical, emotional, and spiritual protection. As they grow older, they need guidance through all the phases of maturity so they can learn to participate in the adult world.

Yet, our culture seems to load guilt onto mothers who do not have busy careers, or who are not involved in multiple activities outside the home. In the swirl of events, it's easy to forget that the most important thing we can give our families is time. That was why you chose homeschooling in the first place, remember? You wanted each child to receive the education that best suited his or her needs, and you hoped that your family would grow closer as a result.

If the facts of your life reflect a preoccupation with activities and accomplishments, instead of a purposeful pursuit of your goals, step back and reconsider. Your entire family will reap the rewards.

 

And until next time, I'm Mike Smith.

You can find out more about this topic at www.homeschoolheartbeat.com.

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Hi Kim

11:04, 2006-May-18 .. Posted by CircleZ
Amen!

Blessings!
(Buckeye) Amey
p.s. going to CHEO next month?

Edited by CircleZ on 2006-May-18 at 11:05

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