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delimna and a question on Tiny Tim

07:05 AM, Saturday, December 1, 2007 .. 2 comments .. Link
As some of you may know, ds6, Bug, has the part of Tiny Tim in our homeschool play.  he has really looked forward to rehearsal - his favorite part has always been that he gets to ride on the shoulders of his "father" Bob Cratchet, and also on the shoulders of Scrooge.  The play is next Saturday night.  One week.
Yesterday at rehearsal, he decided he didn't like anyone touching him, not to ride on anyone's shoulder.  and if that wasn't enough, he was refusing to say his lines (which he has had memorized since the beginning - he only has 5: "Merry Christmas" "It will be fine, Mother, honest it will" "The pudding, the pudding, the pudding" and, of course, "God bless us, every one" twice).  then he had a meltdown on the floor and said he doesn't want to be in the play anymore.  we compromised a bit for yesterday, but I am afraid that at the performance he will go on strike again.

any ideas of what I can do to stop that?  If he had the part of a narrator or one of the other Cratchets, he could go on strike and no problem - someone else could take it.  but he is TINY TIM, and you cannot just get rid of him.  And the fact that he agreed to do it, has been excited about it, and he needs to follow through on his commitments.  other people are counting on him.  do you think it is stage fright?  but does he really know what that is so early in this - he has not been in a play before, and we have not been practicing on a stage.

I know one thing - he is getting a nap the day of the play.  If we have to drive to Ogden (45 minutes each way) in order for him to have a sleep, he is getting a nap.  I think that will help.  anyway, let me know if you have any ideas.

Thanks!
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08:11 AM, Saturday, December 1, 2007 .. Posted by Anonymous
I would be "deeply" concerned that all of the sudden he doesn't want to be touched...........

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ah, that is a good point, but based on the situation, I think it was more temper tantrum. Bob Cratchit was trying to physically pull ds6 around the "stage," they were fighting about whether or not Bug could have a chair on which to sit while he waited to go on. Bug is an independent and obstinant child. he has to be led - forcing him is a guaranteed way to cause a temper tantrum. I think by the time the Cratchets met up with Scrooge (we were practicing scenes in different rooms), Bug had had enough and just didn't want to do anything. and that same obstiancy about Bob Cratchet pulling him expanded to the whole play.
but, I think I will go have a chat with Bug anyway about the touching thing....

Edited by morningsunshine on Saturday, December 1, 2007 at 09:25 AM

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11:12 AM, Saturday, December 1, 2007 .. Posted by Kitty
You could pyc him out with things like, "TT is the star of the show", and "they may have to replace you and then the other child will be the star". LOL This is what I would probably do, knowing me. I would be worried, I would also check into them getting and understudy for his part, that way all won't be too lost. JMHO..........Kitty

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