Homesteading: A Woman's Journey

Milestones

09:58, Tuesday, August 5, 2008 .. Posted in The Homestead Kids .. 0 comments .. Link
I love watching the little ones reaching new milestones.  It is such a joy!  The first time they roll over, taking their first steps, these all bring excitement to both parent and child.  Some milestones tug at your heart.  Over the weekend, we had one of these.

Micah has been sleeping in a bassinet next to my side of our bed ever since he came home from the hospital.  At 4 months old, he has now out grown the bassinet.  He is able to scoot around in it to much.  We were given an old portable crib that is adjustable in how high the crib sets up from the floor.  We have it in it's lowest position, about the height of a play pen.  We have had this set up in the living room so that he is close by since our bedroom is in the opposite end of the house.  Over the weekend, we moved the crib into Abigail's room and Micah began sleeping in there at night.  It is so strange to not have him close by.  We have a monitor set up so that we will hear him if he wakes up during the night.

During the upcoming week, I am going to start having Abigail take her naps in the toddler bed instead of her crib.  She still uses the crib and so far has not tried to climb out, but we are wanting to transition her into using the toddler bed before she reaches the age of trying to climb over the crib rails.  Once she has fully transitioned into the toddler bed, using it at night also, we will start having Micah sleep in her crib and tuck the portable one away.  We are prearing their bedroom for her to be using the toddler bed at night.  One thing being to mount a baby gate at the doorway.  With the fact that we heat with wood stoves, I want the reassurance of having a baby gate to prevent her from getting up in the night and being around the stove unattended this winter.

It is so fun watching the little ones make these changes.  Heart tugging because you realise that they are making their first steps towards more independence when you would like to hold them closer for awhile longer.  I am so grateful to be able to watch them make these changes.


Play dough

07:10, Tuesday, July 8, 2008 .. Posted in The Homestead Kids .. 1 comments .. Link

Today, I read in the "Making a Home in Town" blog a Play Dough Recipe that brought back memories.  Years ago, I made this for little ones.  The recipe makes about 8 cups and was perfect for taking to the local Head-Start preschool or to a children's hospital ward as a donation to brighten the kids day.  This is one of the very few recipes that actually has the same texture and consistancy of the store bought play dough.  It also has a long shelf life, unlike many recipes that go bad within a couple of months.

For Abbie, I cut the proportions of the ingredients down to 1/4th of the amount given in the recipe.  It still made enough to fill a plastic marshmallow fluff container.  I use the paste type of food coloring as I find it is the most vibrant.  The results were great!  At 2 yrs. old, Abbie has never played with Play Dough before.  She was uncertain of what to do with it at first and barely poked at it.  We will be getting it out each morning though and I am certain she will figure it out in no time!

I am already planning ahead to helping Abbie make ornaments for Christmas with the dough.  I am going to test it out as I cannot remember if it shrinks or cracks during the drying process.    If it works out, it will be great to use in making the Jesse Tree ornaments.

 

 



Abbie Update!

10:13, Saturday, August 18, 2007 .. Posted in The Homestead Kids .. 0 comments .. Link

Abbie has been making alot of growth in her development.  After a few months of her cruising around furniture & wanting to walk only when holding onto someone's hands or onto furniture, she finally got brave.

She waited until the morning after Joe got home from the truck.  That morning, Joe was sitting in the front room with Abbie standing in front of him.  She saw her toys on the opposite side of the room and wanted to go to them.  She started walking, taking small steps, towards the toys.  As she walked, she held onto Joe's leg as long as possible until her fingertips were sliding across his knee.  Then she took the brave steps into the center of the room.  She turned around and looked at Joe, then walked in a little circle pattern before returning to Joe.  She was so excited.  I was thrilled.  Joe misses so much of Abbie's developments while he is gone.  To watch him as he watched Abbie take those first steps was so exciting to me.  In the 2 weeks since that happened, Abbie has been getting more and more brave.  She actually will walk faster now to where it looks as though she is trying to run alittle. 

This morning, she made another development.  I had put her in her playpen so that I could do something real quick.  When I came back into the room a few minutes later, she had climbed out of the playpen!  The little monkey!!!  So today, I am going to put the playpen away to store until the new baby is able to use it.  In place of hte playpen, I will put a folded comforter on the floor for Abbie to lay on when she is drinking her bottle or having a little snack.

I am so proud of our daughter.  She is such a delight.  Her giggling and fun attitude makes the time that Joe is gone go by so much faster and easier.  I love watching her as she tries to figure things out.  Joe's Mom has some magnet puzzles on her refrigerator.  Each 2-piece puzzle is a 4 inch square piece with a second geometric shape inside.  Abbie loves playing with magnets.  She started playing with these, at first with Grandma's help, then on her own.  She now, at 16 months of age, is able to sort the shapes out and put the pieces together on her own & rather quickly.  I guess you could say that through her play, her home preschooling has begun.

At home, we get out the finger paints and I let her play with them.  She was very delicate with it at first, but then got it figured out and has enjoyed it.  Now, she will go to where I keep the fingerpaints and fuss alittle to let me know she wants to play with them.

My little baby girl is growing so fast.  We are enjoying every minute of it though.

 



Abigail Update

11:11, Thursday, July 26, 2007 .. Posted in The Homestead Kids .. 2 comments .. Link

I realised tonight that though I write about Abigail in my blogs, I haven't dedicated one just about her for quite awhile.

It is amazing how much she has grown.  Even though she is 16 months old, I am having to make her clothing about size 3T to be sure they last through more than one growth spurt.

Abbie has developed quite a sweet personality.  In the mornings, I hear her wake up and she starts playing with a large pink monkey that Joe got in a crane game.  When I pick her up out of the crib, she always rests her head of my shoulder for a hug.  I usually snuggle her abit and tell her "I love you", to which she replies "I love". 

She has been trying to walk for awhile now.  She knows how, just is gaining the courage to just "take off" on her own without holding onto someone or something.  It will happen soon though.  I can see a steady progress being made.  It just has to take place in her time frame.

Abbie has been enjoying the animals.  She loved watching the chickens when they were in the house in early spring.  Now, I hold her up so she can see over the top of their enclosure and watch them.  Sometimes, I have some cracked corn with us and she helps me to scatter it in to them.  When I get the ewe and goat out of their stable to come out and graze, I have her with me.  She laughs and has fun with them.  I am looking forward to the day when she is old enough and big enough to walk out there to help.  Right now, the ewe and goat are too big and could easily knock her over.  She will have fun with the chickens though, scattering feed or helping to look for eggs.

I have started making little burgers for Abbie that I can cook up while Joe is gone.  Like Joe, she really enjoys eating meat.  Last time Joe was home, we stopped at Fire Mountain Grill.  It is a buffet that has plenty of selection that I can eat vegetarian, while Joe and Abbie have their meat.  The prices there are really good also.  When we last went, Joe shared alittle of his steak with Abbie.  She loved it so much, we got her another one which she ate all by herself.  Ever since then, I have made an extra effort to have meat for her.  Especially since she seems to want it so much when we are out.

Abbie's vocabulary is growing.  She has trouble saying alot of the words clearly, but says then clearly enough that we are understanding much of what she says.  It is cute to watch.  She has such an expressive face.  It will be interesting when her vocabulary is better and she is truly talking and having conversations.  I wonder sometimes as she talks to us, just what thougts are in her mind.

Today, as she was playing with her toys, she heard the ewe and goat outside in the yard as they were grazing.  The ewe would say "maa" and Abbie would say it back as she continued playing. The ewe and Abbie kept doing that back & forth for quite a little while. 

I love playing with Abbie and watching her grow.  She is such a joy in my life.  I usually wake early enough in the morning to have the morning chores done before she awakens, which gives me more time to spend with Abbie.   When she plays, she seems to enjoy playing with toys that have moveable parts or make noises.  She studies them and works it out how to play with them.  

On Wednesdays, she spends the day with Grandma & Grandpa.  We have also gone up there to visit or swim in the afternoons.  Abbie loves the pool.  We got her a little floating raft for babies.  It has a mesh seat that she sits in, with a large colorful raft surrounding her.  She plays and splashes around, enjoying the water.  It will be fun when Joe is home and can go there with us.  He has been looking forward to taking her swimming at the lake.  The pool will be a good option.

 



Abigail Update

05:43, Tuesday, November 21, 2006 .. Posted in The Homestead Kids .. 2 comments .. Link
I am totally amazed as I watch Abbie grow and develop.  It seems as lately, there has been something new happening each day. 

About 2 weeks ago, she crawled for the first time.  Abit timidly, but she did it.  Over the days since  then, she has grown more confident and now is crawling all over the place.   It is fun to watch the way she goes from the timid first attempts to the confident quick movements that she has now. 

Yesterday, she sat up completely on her own for the first time.  What a joy to see her do this.  Today, as I watch her sit in her playpen and play with toys that up until now she hasn't been able to fully enjoy has been such a blessing.  She has reached another milestone.   She is able to sit for quite a long time without any aid. 

While I am thoroughly enjoying these moments, Joe and I are both looking forward to her learning to walk.   She already stands very well, just hasn't realised yet that she is able to do it on her own.  We give very little aid, just having our hands on her enough that she is able to feel us holding her.  The real work of standing, she is doing on her own.

Tomorrow, when Joe returns home for the holiday, he will have to lower the crib mattress.  With as quickly as Abbie is learning these new achievements, we will need to be prepared for the next one.

I thank the Lord each day for this precious blessing of having Abbie in our life.  She is such a joy to us.  Watching her grow and develop is humbling when we realise just how much work a baby has to do to be able to move about as we do. 




Abigail's 1st tooth!

04:29, Friday, October 20, 2006 .. Posted in The Homestead Kids .. 2 comments .. Link
Abbie has been teething for several weeks, nearly a month actually.  Well, yesterday, she was sleeping alot.  She ended up waking only for a diaper change and bottle all day long.  Then, yesterday late afternoon, she was laying in the playpen and sucking on her fingers as she always does.  Instead of using a pacifier, she always uses her middle and ring fingers.  Anyhow, she had her fingers in her mouth and suddenly started crying.  She pulls her fingers out of her mouth and was looking up at me.  I picked her up and checked her hand, then her mouth.  She had 2 tiny little teeth just barely poking out of the gums!  Poor kid, wasn't teething just for one tooth, but 2 of them!  I am totally blown away that she ended up finishing the teething in her sleep!  All in all, she has been in a great mood.  Not alot of crying and fuss like I have seen some kids do. 

My baby girl is feeling much better today.  She slept alot, nearly through the night, last night.  Today though, she is active and back to her playful self again.

I am so proud of her and how well she did with her teething.  We have kept her in prayer that the pain would be as little as possible.  The Lord has been very good to her.



Abigail's teething

04:15, Wednesday, September 20, 2006 .. Posted in The Homestead Kids .. 3 comments .. Link
Abbie has begun teething in earnest the last couple of days.  After weeks of biting down on her fingers and drooling alot, she has now reached the point where she is having trouble going to sleep.  Once asleep, she will sleep for quite awhile.  Only waking once during the night.  The hard part is getting her to sleep in the first place.

Monday night, I had to give her infant Tylenol to give her enough relief to be able to sleep.  Then, again tonight (Tuesday) she needed the medication.   My heart breaks for her when she is hurting.  Poor baby is 6 months old, has no idea why she hurts and is too young to understand it, yet through the pain she must go.  Tonight, unlike Monday night, I had to give her a 2nd dose of the med when she woke up at 3:30am.  Now, an hour later, she is finally settling down and resting in her bed.

I can't remember how long a baby goes through the teething process until the tooth finally pops through.  Right now, you can barely feel the changes in her gums.  Which tells me that she has a ways to go. 

Last Friday, she started saying "Da-Da" quite abit.   Her first word.  Now, as she cries, she sometimes holds her hand in her mouth and keeps saying "Da-Da".  I wonder if she is asking for her Daddy or just vocalizing using the only word she clearly says. 

Joe and I saw last weekend that Abbie is realizing that he leaves for extended time.  When she was awake during the weekend and Joe would step outside to do something, Abbie would watch towards to door and cry or fuss until he came back in.  Once her Daddy was back in the house, she would be fine again.  I have also noticed that when I play Joe's tape that he made for her, she looks around for him.  Joe had made a cassette tape of him reading her books to her.  I play this for her every night.  She also looks around for him when he calls and I hold the phone to her so he can talk to her.

I wish that I could explain things to her so that she understood what was going on.  That the pain from teething will pass.  That even though her Daddy has to be gone during the week working, he always comes back home.  It must be strange to a young baby, all of the changes they must go through.  As a Mom, I wish so much that I could hold her close and help her understand that everything is going to be alright.  When she is hurting, I snuggle in a chair with her and my shawl wrapped around us both.  I sing or talk softly to her and comfort her the best that I can.  I also pray for her while snuggling her to me.  I just feel that maybe there is something more that I can do.  Maybe it is the "Momma" in me.  I know that she must to some extent work through these things on her own.  I can't go through the teething pain for her, or the separation issues either.  I can only be there to hold her and offer whatever comfort that I am able to. 

Seeing a little one go through pain and such makes me wonder why people say that giving birth is hard.  The hard part is watching them go through the growing pains of their life and having no way to remove all of the pain and discomforts from them.



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