First off let me say that my ex husband and I were together for about 18 years. We met when I was 14 and got married when I was 20 and were married for almost 13 before our divorce was final. We had many rough patches and it was a struggle at times, but we stuck with it till a couple of years ago and then things changed......... Anyway I had always asked him to come to church with the kids and I am etc and it broke my heart to think that I was going to heaven and he might not.

Anyway we got divorced last March right before our 13th anniversary. He has been dating a girl and goes to church with her and things and I can see how much he has changed and that he is a better dad now and I think that he is a much better person and will be a great hubby for Chris. I have changed and I am a better person than I was and I take alot of blame for what happened between my hubby and I. Anyway he and Chris are getting married on the 29th of Feb.

My ex called and asked if my hubby and I would go to dinner tonight with he and his soon to be wife to talk and get to know one another and although I am a bit uncomfortable with this for a variety of reasons we have agreeed to go.. I think that it is odd and amazing all in one. God is good. He has opened doors that although Rodney and I are no longer married maybe with our new spouses and us joining the same team and backing up one another we can still give our kids everything and more that they need from us as parents.. I can see God forging a friendship here and that to me is an amazing blessing. God is Good..

Please pray for the situation. I wish Rodney and Chris all the best..

God Bless,

Mars