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THANKS TO EACH OF YOU

I WANTED TO TAKE THIS TIME TO SAY "THANKS" TO EACH OF YOU THAT STOPPED BY JUST TO READ AND THOSE THAT TOOK TO HEART MY SITUATION AND POSTED HEART FELT COMMENTS.

AS OF TODAY THE SITUATIION IS LIKE NOTHING EVER HAPPENED. WHAT A RUDE AWAKENING THEY WILL HAVE ONCE WE ARE ALL ABLE TO SIT TOGETHER WITHOUT THE LITTLE ONES AROUND AND SET DOWN A FEW "NEW" RULES...ONES THEY MAY NOT LIKE, BUT WILL BE SET REGUARDLESS. I THINK SON THINKS THAT HE WON THIS TIME AROUND..THERE IS NO WINNING TO BE DONE..THIS IS NO GAME IT IS PEOPLES LIVES WE ARE DEALING WITH. OR MAYBE WHILE OFFSHORE THE LORD SPOKE TO HIS HEART...HUMM THAT IS WHAT I AM PRAYING FOR.

BUT IT WILL BE LET KNOWN THAT UNTIL "EVERYTHING" IS SPLIT DOWN THE MIDDLE(ALL BILLS) THIS IS OUR HOUSE TO SAY WHO WILL COME AND GO. I DO NOT WANT ANYONE HURT BY THIS. AND I KNOW BRANDON, IF HE LEAVES HE WOULD LEAVE ANGRY AND NOT COME AROUND AND THAT IS NOT REALLY FAIR TO ANYONE, SINCE THEY ARE NOT THE ONES THAT HAS DONE ANYTHING WRONG..SEE WHAT I MEAN? THIS IS HARD BUT WITH THE LORD IN CONTROL AND YOUR PRAYERS IT WILL ALL END FOR THE BEST. PRAYING THE KIDS STAY AND KC WILL BE ABLE TO COME AND GO FREELY..I DO NOT EXPECT ANYONE TO SPEAK TO SOMEONE THEY HAVE NO DESIRE TOO, BUT YOU WILL RESPECT EACH OTHER WHILE IN OUR HOME..

ANYWAY, THANKS A MILLION FOR CARING AND HELPING. I WILL UPDATE AS THINGS UNFOLD..THAT SOUNDS LIKE A NEWS REPORT..LOL...AT LEAST AT THIS MOMENT I CAN FIND SOMETHING TO LAUGH ABOUT..\

BABY CRYING SO I MUST CLOSE. JUST WANTED TO LET EACH OF YOU KNOW THAT THINGS HAVE SETTLED A GREAT DEAL AND I THANK GOD FOR THAT.

THANKS FOR STOPPING IN ....HAVE A BLESSED DAY.

DEBBIE

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11:50, Thursday, January 15, 2009 .. Posted by sweetie

Can I offer a different perspective. Its not about the money, its about the authority. In his father's home, your husband has all authority on what goes on under his roof. Your son chooses to pay for the privilege of remaining there, while he has the choice not to as heartily trust in his sister, he also still has to submit to whatever home rules are established by the home's leader, your husband. Money does not give "rights" in this instance, it is a business transaction, the amount you two have set for the privilege of living under your roof and under your rules. If son is unhappy then he can indeed choose to live elsewhere, his job will afford that....although not as luxuriously as having someone else responsible for the things he's taking for granted. that he doesn't even realize yet cost money daily.... God first, husband second is so hard sometimes when we want so much to say things our children want to hear....I have you in my prayers.
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Sweetie