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JUST A QUICK THOUGHT...WHY????

Just reading a few post when I got a message from a dear friend I met here and she was saying that one post of hers got a nasty comment.. So, this is where my post will come from today...

WHY????? I can not figure out why these bloggers feel they have the right to comment in such a way and then not even have enough nerve to leave a name..

You know I will probably have one here after this but ,you know what? Go ahead MAKE my day..I just laugh and then get mad...not at the comment, but at the thought of, what gives them the right? .I have recieved them before and NEVER deleted it nor did I delete my post for that day. It does not make one feel all that good to get one but, I will not give anyone the satisfaction of not posting or anything of the such.

Besides, I know that we all have life situations and we all handle them in a different manner. I also do not think that a professional psycharists (ms)reads these post to make such comments.You may think I handle a problem different from the way you would handle it, that's cool, but do not try an impose your beliefs and ways on me....Now, if your way possibly could help my situation, then post those thoughts, but I do not think one should be nasty about it..

This a place for each of us to air out lifes difficulties, joys we may have ect. Not a place for someone to speak out in uglyness...I have read on some of the blogs things I did not like, but I always try and find something to say that  may help, or not say anything at all..Since I am not walking in their shoes how could I possibly know how one should handle that situation? I wonder those that leave these kind of comments, have they ever recieved one? How did it make them feel?

So, with all this rambling done,  I will end with this thought:

PLEASE let us start this New Year with peace and LOVE for each other. Let's  STOP this uglyness...This is not what Homestead Blogging is about..

If you feel that I have over stepped here, so be it, just do not visit again. This is my blog, I can vent as I please as you can comment as you wish. I am not going anywhere...

Thanks for stopping by and happy reading..

Debbie

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07:44, Wednesday, January 7, 2009 .. Posted by gilsanla

Well said - I to have had some friends mention negative comments.

I think it is okay for people to express their opinions even if the contradict - some great conversations come out of differing opinions.

However, being mean about it is not right. Especially considering that most of us here are Christians - would Jesus talk that way to some one he didn't agree with.

Lastly, let me say if you have a difference of opinion that you feel so strongly compelled to express - then you should be brave enough to reveal your true self.

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10:05, Wednesday, January 7, 2009 .. Posted by meme21713

MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY...THANKS FOR STOPPING IN........DEBBIE