Our Little Slice of Heaven
June 20, 2009
Ready for life on the edge

Our new cabin is on the edge.  Literally.  The deck hangs out over a cliff.  It is the most breathtaking sight I've ever seen.

 

I could totally spend the rest of my life on that mountain.  I could see myself becoming a hermit.  I'd be perfectly happy.   Of course, we are in the middle of summer.  I may change my mind in 6 months.

 

Unfortunately, real life is knocking on the door and dragging me screaming down the mountain.  Here I sit in Anchorage.  We are having our yard sale, trying to sell off the bigger furniture and items we aren't taking with us.  Unfortunately, people don't seem to be in the market for furniture right now.  We've had people asking for appliances, tools, and electronics.  None of which we have.  Bummer.

 

When we lived in Missouri and Kentucky, there were flea market owners who made their living by going to yard sales near the end of the day and buying up the whole rest of the sale.  Then they'd mark the prices up and sell the items in their flea market.  To be honest, they were looked on as somewhat shady.  "If he can sell it for that much, so can I!"  However, today I'm exhausted, I want to go home, and I'd be delighted if one of those guys would show up with a big truck. Right now.  Only 1 hour in to our 2nd day.

 

We only have a few odds and ends left to pack in the crew's bedroom and few in mine & Hubby's bedroom.  Then we have to clean the whole place.  At this point, the plan is to finish what little packing has to be done today.  Then Hubby and the crew are coming on Monday to finish the cleaning.    That's the new plan, anyway. 

 

I am so ready to be out of this house and this city and be completely in my cabin on my mountain.

 

So, anyone want to come and buy up a yard sale?  Pretty please??


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June 10, 2009
Closing in on Moving Day

We will start moving things into our new cabin on Friday.  I can't wait! 

 

We have to be out of our city duplex by June 30.  This weekend is VERY busy, but we'll try to get a good start.  Then we will work on it a bit through the week.  I've taken off work on Wed-Fri of next week.  I'll work on getting the rest of the stuff out of the city house on Wed/Thurs, then Fri-Sat we'll work on cleaning it AND we'll have our yard sale to get rid of the things we aren't taking.  Then Hubby will schedule the walk-through with the landlord the following week, then we'll be done!  Whooohooo!

 

Counting down!


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June 6, 2009
What an awesome day!

Last night the crew spent the night with my parents.  This morning, Hubby and I got up bright and early and went to the Valley to get our new PO box.  My sister and her hubby were down there for something also, so we met for lunch and we took them up to the cabin.  We still aren't able to move in just yet, but we wanted to show them where it was. We had a great time showing them our new digs and just hanging out on the deck for a few minutes.  I didn't want to leave!

After we got back into town, we went to get the crew from my parents' house.  While Hubby helped C finish cutting out his new wooden shields and sword before we left, my mom, S, and I went for a short hike.  We hiked along the creek and through the woods.  It was breathtaking.

 

Driving back home, we saw a bear!  He was across the creek from us, so Hubby stopped the car and got out for some pics.  He was so cute!  (I wouldn't have said that if we'd run across him while hiking!)  We've lived in Alaska for 2 and a half years and this is the first time Hubby has seen a black bear!  We saw a grizzly a few weeks ago when we went to Homer.  So, after 2.5 years, we see 2 bears in less than a month.  Awesome.  :)

 


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June 1, 2009
Changes are afoot!

We are finally taking another step in the right direction!  We've been living in the city for 2 1/2 years now, because that is where the work is.  We are sick of the city life and the city mentality.  Plus, due to some unforseen economic changes, we are having issues paying such high rent.

 

We started looking for a place to rent in the Valley, where our land is.  We can't afford to build just yet, but as we are planning on living there eventually, we wanted something closer to there.  So, we found it. 

 

We found a 2 bedroom log cabin.  It has wind and solar power available.  It is on a farm, on a mountain.  The deck actually extends over a cliff, opening up to an amazing view of the river flowing through the valley below.  We have free reign of the entire farm, "as long as you don't torment the cows".  I can have a piece of the garden to plant my own things.  (the "garden" is bigger than the house!)

 

It is an hour drive to our work, so we will have a bit of a commute.  However, we'll be driving together, in 1 vehicle, rather than driving both vehicles every day.  Hubby thinks this will make the gas price pretty much equal what we spend now.  Not much more, anyway.

 

This rent is less than HALF what we're paying in the city.  Unbelievable.  God is good.  So, as of 30 days from now, we'll make our transition onto our temporary Little Slice of Heaven.  Which just so happens to be about 10 minutes from our permanent Slice.  We'll be able to work on it much more.  We are beyond excited.

 

It is partially furnished, so everything in these pics is what is in it already.  We haven't moved in yet.  I'm not including bedroom pics, but the crew's bedroom has a built in log bunk bed and we all have movable "armoires".  (though they don't have doors.  Instead they are cute curtains.)

Without further ado: 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'll post more pics after we actually get moved in.  God is so good!


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May 3, 2009
More info for women only! (with links!)

About a month ago, I posted a blog For Women Only.   Today, I'd like to follow up on that a bit.  Sooooo, here is your warning.  If you don't want to discuss feminine products, please move on along.

 

 

The last time I posted about how I'd purchased The Keeper.  I used it on the last couple of days of my last cycle, and as I mentioned, I loved it.  There was a learning curve, but it is definitely better than the alternative.  I have to admit, I was a bit nervous about starting this cycle.  Wearing one with light flow is one thing, but I was scared about when the geyser would erupt.

 

I started my normal spotting like I do a few days before the gush.  I inserted the Keeper in anticipation.  When the gush arrived, Keeper handled it spectacularly.  I was completely impressed.   I am now nearing the end of my cycle and have had no leaks.  Only residual drips from when I insert and remove.  I've had much worse when I used just pads.  

After doing some research, I figured every girl needs a back-up cup.  There were 2 other brands I was very interested in trying.  One of those is currently unavailble to ship to the US, so I ordered a LadyCup.  Actually, I ordered their PinkCup.  (of course!)  I haven't received it yet, but am excited to try it out next month!

Also, because I have such miniscule leakage, I really lost it.  I've gone off the deep end.  Are you sitting down?  I bought cloth pads!  Actually, I went to our heath food store and bought one Gladrags day pad.  I tried it out and it felt amazing.  I've already washed it and am reusing it.  Fabulous.  However, I wanted to research more before I bought a whole stash.  I found, just like cups, there are zillions of brands.  There are TONS on etsy.   I think a few women on this blog site actually make a sell them, as well.  In my research I found this site that gives reviews on about a million different cloth pads. 

Through that site, I found Amy's Rag Bag.  She seems amazing.  She has a consultation form, where she asks tons of questions about your preferences, flow, experience with cloth, etc, and then she makes a personalized recommendation.  Once you decide, her order form has a place where you can choose colors and/or themes for your pads.  She even offers to email pics of your pads for your approval before she ships them.  And, what is more, she loves to barter.   She uses recycled fabrics for her pads, so she'll take fabrics, sewing notions, even baked goods!   I LOVE that!  So, needless to say, I placed an order with her.  She said she'd be shipping my pads on Friday.  Again, too late for this cycle, but next cycle I'll be set! 

So, dear friends, I've officially crossed over.  And my family thought I'd lost it when I started grinding grain!  HA!


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April 24, 2009
When it is springtime in Alaska...

Spring is finally showing up around here.  How do I know?

  • My van is muddy
  • I can still see after I turn off the lights to go to bed
  • My dog looks like he has mange as he blows his winter coat
  • The seagulls are here
  • There is a beaver at Ship Creek
  • Hikers have seen bears
  • Alaskans have regrown wheels...the bike paths are filled with bikes!
  • Tour busses are driving through town
  • Eagles are hanging around the duck pond, in hopes of scooping up ducklings when Mamma Ducks aren't looking
  • There are tiny little leaves on the tips of the bare tree branches
  • I haven't worn a jacket in 3 days
  • That stuff coming out of the sky is RAIN, not snow!

Whooohooo!  Bring on the summer!


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April 14, 2009
having a sick day...or 5

On Saturday I developed a nagging irritating cough.  As the weekend progressed, I got worse and worse, until finally, I left work early yesterday and saw the doc.  Turns out I have some sort of lung infection.  Not sure exactly what that means...bronchitis?  pneumonia? I don't know.  I didn't care at that point.  My mind was all fuzzy.  I had 102 fever and couldn't get it down for hours.

So, the doc said I have to miss work for 2-5 days.  I am to spend the days resting and healing. 

My crew and Hubby have been wonderful.  I have been waited on, hand and foot.  Part of me feels bad about it, but the part that feels so awful is very grateful indeed! 

You know, I'd been saying I needed a vacation, but this is TOTALLY not what I had in mind!!


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April 4, 2009
For Women Only--with links!

I was asked to provide some links and more information on menstrual cups.  Ask and ye shall receive!

 

The site where I got most of my "real world" information is a huge community on LiveJournal.  Before I provide the link, I just want to make a note of the fact that this site is comprised of many different people with many different lifestyles and choices.  I am in no way connected to any of them.  I have never posted there myself, only harvested and learned from their immense amount of information.   These people are very very open and informative.  In fact, WAY TMI on some things.  A lot of things.  However, I like that.  I want to know exactly what to expect.  If that makes you uncomfortable, please don't come back to me and blame me for sending you there. 

That said, I'm going to provide 2 links.  This one  takes you directly to the post comparing different brands and sizes.  It also provides links to each manufacturer.   The other link just takes you to their home page.  There is a bar to the right that has links to every topic you can imagine...and some I never even thought of.

The disposable brand of cup is Instead.  Right now, I'm feeling like I like them better than my Keeper.  Simply because I'm more familiar with them.  If for some reason I decide that the reusable cup is not for me, I'm most definitely going back to the Instead.  The catch with them, however, is that they are somewhat hard to find.  I had been looking for some time before I ran across them.  The store where I found them doesn't always have them, so I stock up when they do.

The two brands of reusable cups that are available in the US are the Keeper and the Diva Cup.  I went with the Keeper because my friend uses it and loves it.  After I found the above site, I may have gone with one of the other brands.  You can order them off ebay with no problems, apparently.  But if you want instant gratification, or if your monthly visitor is right around the corner and you don't have time to wait for shipping, Keeper and Diva are the way to go.   I bought mine at our local natural/health food store.  They carry both.   I read a post on the above site that said they purchased thiers at REI.  I never would have dreamed to look there!  So just check around. 

As I said before, my Keeper and I are still working out some kinks.  However, I do love a cup in general.  I will never go back to diapers.  (er, I mean pads....)  


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April 2, 2009
For Women Only!

Greetings all!  It is time once again for me to bring up a rather uncomfortable topic, at least in the opinion of some people.  If you are squeamish or easily embarrassed, please don't proceed.

Ok, I gave fair warning.......

 

Let's talk about feminine products.  Ladies, we all need them.  (ok, most of us need them.  Some have had their plumbing removed, which, I have to admit, makes me all sorts of jealous at times)  For those of us who haven't had the pipes pulled out, let's discuss our options.

 

Tampons:  Probably the most popular, however, the risk of TSS freaks me out.  A family member had all sorts of scary things happen because of TSS.  Another family member spikes 103+ fever within 30 minutes of inserting one.  NOT for me, thanks.  There are all-natural/organic options out there, but I'm not sure they are any better for you. Either way, I'm not using them.

Pads:  Until recently, these are the only things I've used.  Gross, disgusting, diaper-like...yes.  But no TSS risk and the only other option, right?  It got even grosser when I developed some freaky allergy to them.  Breaking out, itching, burning...yeah.  No good.  Now what??  Well, I tried all-natural/organic pads, too.  But to be honest, the adhesive just really turned me off.  I was used to "mainstream" pads that stick like superglue.  The all-natural ones are more like post-it notes.  Not good when I'm doing my best impression of a geyser and trying to go about my day.  Things tend to shift.  So someone suggested cloth pads.  I know tons of people who use them, but to be honest, with my freaky heavy flow, the idea sorta grosses me out.  So a few of my other friends suggested.....

Cups:  Have you heard of these?  They are cups that fit inside, sort of like a tampon.  But rather than absorbing the flow, they collect it.  You pull the cup out and dump it into the toilet.  Depending on what kind you have, you either rinse or wipe the cup then re-insert, or you toss it and break open a new one. 

 

Ok, these things fascinated me.  I asked all of my cup-using friends questions that only good friends are comfortable answering.  I experimented with the disposable first.  I LOVED them.  Definitely a bit of a learning curve, but loved them regardless.  Using natural pads as back-up works great.  No more "diaper rash", and the very little, if any, leaking that I had was handled nicely by the pad. 

So today I stepped out of my comfort zone.  I bought a reusable cup.  There are several different brands and sizes (and even colors!) from which to choose.  I just went down to the health food store and picked up the one I knew my good friend uses.  After 1 day of use, I'm happy with it.  I still have some kinks to work out, but I'm confident I'll get the hang of it.

And the best part?  No more spending money on chemical-laden products that are not good for me.  No more packing the "pad pocket" in my purse so full that the zipper breaks.  (I said I have a heavy flow!)  No more fighting the dog to stay out of the bathroom trash.  No more filling the landfills with pads that won't ever decompose.  No more diaper rash!

 

I'm even considering the unthinkable.  One day, when I have the hang of this thing and able to prevent most leaks, I may even attempt cloth pads as my back up on heavy days.

 

Have you ever used or considered using a cup?  What brand do you have?  I got the Keeper, though now that I've done tons of research (AFTER I bought it...how smart is that??), I may have gone with something different.  But I figure that this will work just as well.  In about 10 years, when it is time to replace it, I can try a different brand.  ;)


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March 25, 2009
1/2 teaspoon??

We took C back to the allergy doc yesterday.  We are allowed to start reintroducing wheat!  Whoohoo!  Unfortunately, we have to start small.  Like, TINY.  He can have 1/2 tsp the first day.  1 tsp the next day.  2 tsp the next, etc.   Eventually, he will build up to a whole piece of bread.  Yeesh.

She recommended Wheat Thins.  1/2 today, 1 whole one tomorow, etc.  Unfortunately, he doesn't like those.  Being the terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad mom that I am, I allowed him to swap it with Thin Mints.  Wheat THIN/THIN Mint...see?  It is practically the same thing......

And in yet another confession of my terrible-ness....we had promised him dinner wherever he wanted.  So, we went to Pizza Hut.  We limited him to 2 pieces of pizza.  So it is just a little more than 1/2 tsp....  That's ok.  He's going to the 1/2 tsp today, so we don't completely overload him.  So far, so good.  No tummy aches yet, so I'm hopeful!

In 2-3 weeks we'll add peanut.  Then 2-3 weeks after that, we'll add carrots.  No potatoes yet.  That's ok.  Wheat makes me happy for now!!


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March 8, 2009
Rondy, Iditarod, IditaREAD

Fur Rondy is coming to an end.  We have had such a great time.  Our church did the snow sculpture competition and had a blast.  Ours was the manger scene, in a Native Alaskan carving type of style.  It turned out great.  I took off work one day and took the crew to ride the dog sleds and then to watch the World Championship Dog Sled race.  And of course the carnival and fireworks.  It was a blast.  Today was the Grand Prix racing.  That was quite interesting indeed.  Stock cars racing around icy city streets.  Interesting. 

 

Yesterday was the start of the Iditarod.  My crew was not interested in going downtown this year, so they stayed and watched it on TV at my parents's house.  Hubby and I went down there, however, and had an incredible time.  We got tons of great pics.  We were right at the staging area, just before the starting line.  It was awesome to see all of these brave and legendary mushers.  Just incredible.

 

Our homeschool program has the IditaRead each year.  The kids chose a musher and "race" the musher to Nome.  The child has to read 1 page per mile.  The goal is to read 1000+ pages before the chosen musher finishes.  S is sitting this one out, but C has signed up and is excited to get started.  He can't wait to re-read his favorite series, Percy Jackson and the Olympians.  Again.  For about the zillionth time.  But that's ok.  He'd read it over again, whether he was counting pages or not!  I love that he gets so excited about reading.  And to be able to get a prize for it, well, that just puts icing on the cake for him.  So, if you are keeping tabs on the Iditarod this year, keep your eye on Chad Lister.  That's the musher C is trying to beat to Nome.  Not sure what made C chose him, but he's a rooke from Mass, I think.  Never heard of him.  But, I can tell you from experience, this is one musher we won't forget!  We're still cheering on the mushers that the crew chose last year.  Gotta love it!


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February 21, 2009
Ooops, I did it again!

Sorry I disappeared again!  We decided to shut off our phone/cable/internet at home.  We all have cell phones and can call each other for free.  Wifi is free almost anywhere in public anymore.  We never watched the cable anyway.

 

So, I no longer had internet access at home.   Hubby bought me a laptop last night, so right now I'm at my parents' house on their network. Gotta love the time we live in!

 

Thanks so much to everyone who has helped guide us long on this gluten/potato free journey!  Only 2 more months to go until we can start reintroducing foods.  LOL

 

We did have a bit of a scare a couple of nights ago.  C had a stomach ache.  He was miserable.  I was freaking out, afraid that we were going to have to take out dairy.   We went to bed in a bit of a tiz.  Then Hubby woke in the night sick.  Then I woke in the night sick.  Then MIL woke up sick.   I was never so glad to feel so lousy!  That meant that C just had a bug, not an allergy problem!  Whohoo! 

 

On that note, I'm going to close for now.  I will still be around, just maybe not as often.  Then again, maybe so, with this new laptop.  Yay Hubby!


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February 11, 2009
Some replies to my commenters about gluten-free issues

Thanks for all the info everyone! 

mj--We are very blessed that he doesn't have the anaphylactic response.  So far he hasn't had any tummy aches at all, so I'm hopeful.  The youth group last night made goodies and we had to be sure he got a special one with no wheat/potato/peanut/carrot.  There are a couple of other kids who have food allergies, too, so it wasn't too traumatic for him.  He's settling in, I think!

 

Mel--I LOVE Bob's Red Mill.  Even before we went gluten-free, I loved him.  :)  I use tons of rice flour now.  Although, in the bread I'm making right now I used oat flour. We shall see how that turns out.  I don't actually buy the rice flour, I make my own using my grain mill.  I figure it is cheaper to just buy a bunch of rice, that way we can cook and eat rice or we can grind it and make flour.    And as for how I'm feeling...well, that is a whole other story.  At the moment I'm having prescription issues with my insurance so I've been without my meds for a week.  I hurt.  A lot.  LOL  It'll be ok, I just need to get back down to the pharmacy tonight and have yet another chat with the pharmacist.

 

Becky--I do actually sub the potato with tapioca!  Or arrowroot.  The dietician gave us lots of great pointers like that.  I also found one mix, Namaste, that doesn't contain potato.  We haven't actually had a chance to use the mix I bought yet, but maybe today.  I hope it tastes great, it would really be nice to use a mix sometimes!

 

Carrie--Thanks!  I actually bought that magazine the first time I went shopping for all of this stuff.  I enjoyed it a lot!  I haven't subscribed yet, but will definitely do so if this becomes a permanent thing.  Right now we are just in the "trial" stage.  He is eliminating these foods until April, and then we'll start to add some back and see how he does. 

 

Nancy--Thanks for saying that.  I know that some people think we are going overboard.  But we just really feel strongly about it. 

 

I have to be honest, the person who made the comments about how "it won't kill him, just give him a belly ache" is planning on taking him grocery shopping today.  I am a bit fearful.  We had a long talk about the seriousness of this issue and how they need to be sure and read EACH AND EVERY label.  I think this person will soon find that it isn't quite as simple as she thinks.  I trust him to read the labels and know what he can and can't eat, and today is going to be the real test.


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February 8, 2009
Living with a gluten-free child

Last Thursday, when the doctor told us that my son is allergic to wheat (and potatoes, carrots, and peanuts), my head began to spin.  How on earth was this possible??  We are all about the wheat around here.  I buy it in 50 lb bags, for goodness sake!  And potatoes?  With MIL living here, potatoes are a part of EVERY meal.  

 

My first reaction was "I want another test!"  After the doc vetoed that and assured me that the test was, in fact, accurate, my next reaction was "C, you are grounded!" 

 

Ok, so he wasn't really grounded.  But seriously.  WHEAT?  Are you KIDDING me??  And as I got to looking for gluten-free items I began to feel the same way about potatoes.  Do you know how hard it is to find gluten-free mixes that DON'T contain potato starch??  Yeesh.  Which is why I'm now making much of our items from scratch.  I can sub the potato starch for something else.

 

Meanwhile, we had to face The Question.  Do we buy C his own special food and maintain the rest of the household on a "regular" diet?  Do we all convert to all wheat/potato/carrot/peanut free all the time?  Do we have the house be an allergy-free zone and the rest of us live "normally" away from home?  What are the pros and cons of each option?

 

With the first option, the child is the only one in the house with diet restrictions. He is the only one eating "special" bread or pizza while everyone else is eating what was, quite possibly, the child's former favorite foods.  However, he is in a place where if he accidentally (or not!) eats an off-limits item, parents are there to react quickly.  It is good practice for self-control, and the rest of the family maintains normalcy.

 

With the second option, the whole family goes allergy-free all the time.  This affords the child to have an allergy-free home and a good support system as he deals with his limitations.  The whole family benefits from practicing self-control, and who knows...maybe some undiagnosed allergies for the rest of the family may be revealed.  Maybe the whole crew will feel better!

 

Option three is the one we've actually chosen.  Our home is a C safe zone.  No allergens are allowed in. We feel it is important for one's home to be a safe haven.  C has to practice plenty of self-control when he is out of the house.  However, those of us who are not allergic (as far as we know!) don't stick to the allergy-free diet while we are out.  At home, we do feel it is important for him to see us eating the same foods he is and all of us trying new things.  As time goes by and he adjusts to his new way of eating and learns a little more self-control than he's had in the past, perhaps we will consider going to the first option.  But I'm not inclined to think so.  It is hard enough out in public or at other people's homes.  We feel strongly that home is to be a sanctuary, and filling it with his old faves is bound to be discouraging to him.

 

So, as we all join together and try new foods (at home, anyway), we are learning some of the ins and outs of gluten-free.  What about caramel color?  What about modified food starch?  How about hot dogs?  These questions plague us.  The dietician said that food labeling laws now require that any wheat be plainly marked. (Along with the rest of the Top 8 allergens) If an item does use caramel color or modified food starch or fillers made from wheat, rather than corn, it has to state plainly that the item contains wheat.  Do we stick to that and trust the labels or do we err on the side of caution?

 

As someone rather bluntly said, "It isn't like it will kill him.  It will just give him a belly ache!"  I tend to trust the label.  Perhaps I'm wrong in that.  If C continues to have stomach issues, perhaps we'll pull out EVERYTHING that says caramel color or modified food starch.  So far, though, he's been without his stomach meds for 2 days and has yet to have a stomach ache.  That's a record, people.  

 

And as for the remark above, made when the person was trying to convince me that we don't have to be so diligent, that is true.  Eating one of these allergens may not kill him.  We are blessed in that.  However, does any of us really want to cause our children to be ill??  Why would I purposely feed him something that causes him discomfort, just for my own convenience?  The selfishness that fills that comment just makes my stomach turn.

 

After 1 week of wheat/potato/carrot/peanut free living, I can tell you that I have learned a little.  Not as much as I'm sure I'll learn in the coming months, but enough to feel comfortable grocery shopping without my "cheat sheets"  I'm not concerned that my family will starve to death.  (even if certain people who make the above comments disagree)  I, for one, am pleased that C is feeling better and we are all pulling together in support of him.


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February 7, 2009
No-Whine Saturday

I have declared today to be a No-Whine Day.  So, there will be no negative comments in this blog. :)

 

It was a simply beautiful day here.  The sun was shining beautifully and it was clear and bright.  We drove out to the Valley and stopped by our land.  It looks same as always.  Cold and snowy.  LOL  Then we went on to try out a locally owned grocery store we'd never gone to.  Heard lots of great things about it, just never had a chance to try it out.  It was fabulous.  They didn't have everything we needed, but we got all of the meat and most of the produce that we were looking for.  Fabulous!   Then we trekked on to StuffMart and got a few things the local store didn't have.  Then back to Anchorage to the health food store to stock up on some gluten-free baking mixes, mac and cheese, and tortillas.  All said, we actually spent less on groceries this time than normal.  I'm so thankful!

 

Tonight I am baking some gluten-free bread and hanging out online while it rises.  Silly C doesn't like the bread from the mix, so I do bread from scratch.  He does, however, like the bread mix made into pizza crust.  So, scratch it is.  The crew is playing video games (they are only allowed to do that on the weekends, so they try to squeeze as much in as possible!), and Hubby is studying for his Sunday School lesson.  Just a nice relaxing evening.

 

We actually haven't even had dinner.  No one is especially hungry tonight.  How bad would it be to just let them snack as they see fit tonight?  Hmmmmm...

 

Last night Hubby and I had a long talk about what direction our lives are going.  We seem to have gotten a bit off-track and lost sight of our goal.  So, we are knuckling down.  Expenses will be cut, savings will be built back up, and we will once again put our homesteading lifestyle in the forefront.  I'm excited to hear him talk about it again.  Having to bake gluten-free has got us turning our backs on the Microwave Mama mentality that had been creeping back in.  See, C's allergies are a blessing in disguise! 


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February 1, 2009
Our upside-down, topsy-turvy, crazy-daisy life

I know it has been a while since I updated and I do apologize.  There have been some wild things going on in our lives.

For starters, my rheumatologist has not diagnosed me with Lupus.  He is a bit befuddled.  I have lupus symptoms, but my blood tests don't show it.  He said it is clear that I do have some kind of auto-immune situation, he just isn't sure yet what.  I am on Plaquenil for now and it seems to be helping. 

My 11 year old son has been having some health issues of his own.  His whole life has been full of asthma and allergies.  He was taking allergy shots in Kentucky, but they said he'd have different allergens up here.  He was never tested for food allergies and we were told once to cut out this, this, and this for 1 week.  If he doesn't improve, he's not allergic.  (I now know that is foolishness.  It has be longer than a week!)  The docs in MO and KY never once did lung function tests, just the regular peak flows.

After begging 2 different docs here, I FINALLY got someone to send him to an asthma/allergy clinic.  At this clinic, the first thing they did was run lung function tests.  She said that his tests didn't change at all after treatment, and that indicates to her that there is some underlying issue, not just asthma.  So, on Christmas Eve, he had a sweat chloride test to check for Cystic Fibrosis.  She has also sent him to an ENT to check for immotile cilia.

The CF test came back borderline, so they ordered genotyping.  The genotyping checks 97 of the most common gene mutations.  (There are 1500 known mutations)  That test was negative.  We breathed a sigh of relief, as most people with CF have one of those 97 mutations.  However, the pulmonologist stll wants to meet with us to discuss the implications of his elevated sweat chloride.  We go there on Feb 16.  He could still have any of the more rare mutations, but we are going to say he's negative for CF right now.

The ENT found a polyp in his left sinus and found that his right ear tube was crusted over.  She has to put him to sleep to do the biopsy for immotile cilia, so she will replace that tube and remove the polyp at the same time.  She wants to wait until after he sees the pulmonologist, just in case he wants to do a bronchoscopy.  They can do it at the same time.

Meanwhile, the asthma/allergy doc did some allergy testing.  He tested positive for dog, cat, mice, dust mites, horses, and every type of grass.  We'd had testing done in Kentucky, so we knew a lot of that, but she had to have it in her record to order shots for it.  This time the horse test swelled up and bruised.  It was pretty intense.

She also did patch testing to check for food allergies.  My son, who lives on carbs, is allergic to wheat, potatoes, carrots, and peanuts.   The diary test was inconclusive.  We will remove the first 4 things for 2 weeks and if he isn't better, we will remove dairy, too.

We have spent the weekend clearing out all of the offending foods and experimenting with gluten and potato free cooking.  It is quite interesting indeed.  I have discovered that gluten-free baking is much more work intensive than 'regular' baking.   It boggles my mind, to be honest.

We are so blessed to live where we do.  Where we lived in Kentucky, and more so where we lived in Missouri, C would have starved to death.  Here there are TONS of resources and foods available. 

In yet another example of how God takes care of the details, even before we know about them, I got a Bosch Universal mixer 2 weeks ago.  (Which, BTW, is INCREDIBLE!)  Now as we start our gluten-free journey, I learn that you CAN'T do gluten-free baking by hand.  You MUST have a mixer.  Is God awesome or what???  I had the financial resources available 2 weeks ago, and don't this week.  I have had time to make my (most amazing) 6 loaves of oh-so yummy honey wheat bread and share with friends and family.  I got a chance to do what I'd always wanted to do with my Bosch before I had to retire my wheat. 

My son is on a trial removal of those foods.  We go back to the doctor in April and will then discuss adding some of these items back into his diet to see how he does. 

I've been pretty impressed with his attitude about the whole thing.  He is a bit bummed, but he is being such a trooper about trying new things.  That has NEVER been his strength.  He is very much a picky eater.  In fact, his main staples were potatoes and bread.   But he's being strong.  I'm very proud of him.

Now they are testing my husband for some potentially serious issues, as well.  I just feel like our family is really being tested right now.  I know that if we continue to stand in the shadow of God's love and let Him take care of us, we'll be ok.  We may not like or enjoy the things we endure, but He will get us through.

 


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December 8, 2008
Read Kiddo, read!

I am always on the lookout for great books for my crew.  We use Sonlight in our homeschool, which is literature based, but sometimes my boys just want to read something fun. 

 

I sometimes have a hard time finding books that I think they'll enjoy.  Occasionally we just get in a rut and they get bored.  Well, thanks to MotherTalk, I've found a fun solution to our problem.   James Patterson, the author, has started up a new website to help us choose good books for our kids.

 

ReadKiddoRead.com is a collection of great books, sorted by age range and genre.  I've actually already seen a couple of my crew's faves, even on the homepage.  C, my 11 year old, was thrilled to see his #1 pick, The Lightning Thief, listed at the very top of the "Great Pageturners" for ages 8 & up.   In fact, we own 3 of the 4 listed on the home page for that age range.  My crew now has great faith in Mr. Patterson's picks after seeing that!

 

The website is amazingly easy to navigate.  Simply click on the age or reading ability of your child then chose your child's favorite genre.  Or branch out and choose an unfamiliar one.  The list of books includes clickable covers and a brief synopsis.  If you click on the cover, it opens to a review of the book, along with a list of "If you liked this book, try these titles".  It also includes more detailed info, such as how many pages and the ISBN number.   There is also a box to the side with links to find the book at several different bookstores and even a library finder.

 

I have added this link to our favorites and can't wait to use it the next time my crew is whining about wanting a good book!   This comes just in time for Christmas, too.  It gives great gift ideas, if you want to get out of the video game aisle and introduce your kiddos to something a little more imaginative.


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December 6, 2008
Crying in the candy aisle

Every Christmas I hit the candy aisle for Queen Anne Cordial Cherries.  I personally can't stand them.  Neither could my grandfather.  However, it was my tradition to give those to him every year.  I am not even sure when or why I started that.  I did know that he didn't like them.  But that's why it was called a gag gift.

 

Every year he'd get my gift from under the tree, peel back the corner, roll his eyes, make a smart comment, and not even open them all the way.  Every year I'd kiss his bald head and tell him I knew he hated them, but what on earth kind of Christmas would it be if he didn't get them?

 

When I moved to Alaska 2 years ago, Pop asked my aunt "But with Kristi gone, who will give me my cherries??"  Of course, come Christmas, there were cherries for Pop under the tree with my name on them.  Even if I *wasn't* there.

 

This past April,  Jesus called my Pop home.  Pop was ready.  He was a strong worker for the Lord in years past.  Yes, my Pop made many mistakes, as we all do.  But he was a man of God.

 

Pop was a tough old bird.  He was in the Army in World War II.  He was a hard worker.   He was still building houses and doing contract work well up into his 70s and even probably some in his 80s.   He and my dad worked side by side for many years.  My husband worked with them occasionally through the summer months and was in awe of them.  There were no finer contractors around.  Maybe never, even.

 

 I went and spent 2 weeks with Pop when I was 12.  I learned a lot about him during that time.  He's the one that taught me the beauty of a cup of coffee on the porch at sunrise.  He took his coffee thick, black, and hot.  I took my warm milk with sugar and a dash of coffee.   We'd sit out there together and just watch the world wake up.   It seemed almost sacrilegous to speak during those times, so we sat in silence.   I made many memories during that trip.  Including catching one of his dish rags on fire and earning myself the nickname Firebug.  Poor Pop.  I'm not sure he'd ever bought a frozen pizza before, and probably never did after that, either!

 

So last night, I hit the candy aisle looking for something sweet for my Secret Santa gift for work.  The Queen Annes caught my eye and I reached for them automatically.  Then I suddenly realized.  I won't be sending Queen Annes down with my mom this year.  Pop won't be looking for them under the tree. 

 

As tears slipped down my cheeks, I remembered the last time Pop got cherries from me.  No, it actually wasn't last Christmas.  It was in  April.  He was in the hospital and we all knew it wouldn't be long.  I realized that I wouldn't be buying Queen Annes this year and I desperately wanted him to have one last box.  It was my way of letting him know how much I loved him.  My aunt, bless her heart, had a box in her freezer from last Christmas.  My mom wrapped it up and gave it to Pop, letting him know I was thinking of him.  He died a few days later.

 

So last night, with tears falling, I put the Queen Annes back on the shelf.   With Pop gone, to whom will I give my cherries??

 

 


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November 20, 2008
Well that's not how this is supposed to work!

I've been having a flare this week. Run a fever since Saturday, achy joints, fatigue, etc. Yesterday I was feeling somewhat better, and even planned on going to Curves today. Until I took my shower. I got out of the shower and when I went to wrap the towel around my wet hair, I somehow managed to snag my back. I'm all pinched up and wadded into a knot back there. I am now walking with a cane and walk like my grandmother. Even taking a deep breath hurts. I do wonder if my flare contributed to the situation. I mean really. This is ridiculous. I have been seeing my chiro and he's trying to get me lined out. I took off work yesterday and today but I HAVE to go back tomorrow. No choice. So I'm icing my back and doing my stretches and hoping I can be somewhat mobile tomorrow....even if it is with a cane! I go see the rheumatologist on Wednesday. We are less than a week away!! YAY!! And then Thanksgiving is 1 week from today. How crazy is that?? I do apologize for the formatting of my past couple of posts. I'm using my son's Mac laptop and for some reason it insists on taking out any and all spaces and paragraphs. I'm sure this is a way to fix the problem, but I wouldn't know how to begin. So, you are stuck with hard to read posts until Hubby has time to figure it out for me. Sorry about that!

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November 10, 2008
How can it be November already?

Can you believe it is November? How on earth did that happen? We went to our land last weekend to try and get a little more firewood. Turns out we have the coldest lot in the area. On the way there, the thermometer in our van read 17 degrees. As we turned off down the highway to our land, we were on the "dark side" of the mountain. The thermometer began to drop. It was just like a countdown for the shuttle or something. 10....9......8.....7......all the way to 0! We got there and spent all of about 3 minutes outside. We didn't need firewood so bad. LOL After we got back in the van and took off to the "sunny side" of the mountain and the temp promptly rose to 24. Go figure. Looks like we're gonna need a gooooooood wood stove! We've pretty well decided that we'll be moving out there when our lease is up. Which is 1 year from now. We have 1 year to get it livable. Hubby said he doesn't care if it is a cabin, an RV, a yurt, or a cardboard box. I'm holding out for a cabin, personally. ;) Meanwhile, I still don't have any word on my lupus testing. I do have several many symptoms, but I'm not sure about all the blood work. I have my appointment with the rheumatologist the day before Thanksgiving. I'm anxious to hear what he has to say. My hands and feet are perpetually swollen at this point. I'm having a hard time playing my flute or knitting for very long at a time. I have a scarf I've been working on for MONTHS and I'm not sure it will ever be done. I just can't knit like I used to. And I don't know if my song will ever be ready for the Christmas program. Practicing my flute as long as I should isn't possible, either. My shoes don't fit some days, either. Crazy stuff, I tell ya.

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