Well today was not such a great day for me....my mother called this moring but I didnt answer, she left a message saying too call her so we could work out things befor Christmas...but then and hour later she called and said that she didnt know what lies were said and that I dont have to worry about seeing her ever again that her and my father are going too put there house up for sale. It just made me cry so hard becuse after 10 months of just leaveing them alone she now has too start things all over again, I just want too let things be the way they are right now, I really do think it's best if we just stay away from them, My sons do not need too go threw all of this again...I really can not!! dh talked with my brother and he had said he had recived call's like this for over a week and half now and he has just been ignoreing them becuse he really dose not want too deal with it as well. My heart just hurt's so bad right now.

On a better not today though the boy's got a Christmas card from there Grandpa that lives in MI, He sent them $50.00 today for us to pick-up some Christmas present for them from him, So dh picked up a few items for them today, got some really cute little things, Jack just loves those little people toys there just the right size too play with for him so John got him some from that money. I got most of my Christmas cards mailed out yesterday, I still have to pick up a few more stamps yet too send out a few more, I will do that at the end of the week, Plus I get too send the money I have saved for my new dress, the lady that I am buying it from is saveing the materal for me...Is that nice or what?? It will be a preatty purple one, I sent her a Christmas card as well,  I thought she might like that :) Jarred peed in the potty again this moring and he acuttly did it for dh, I wasnt feeling all that well this moring so I slept in just a little bit so dh was watching them for abit, I always tell him too wake me up becuse of his eyes and he always say's dont worry I can handle things for a little while, but Jarred was only on the potty for less then half an hour and he went, I have a chart up now were he can put sitckers on when he go's, I will put that in his baby book after he is fully trained, they say it can take up too 8 months too be fully trained....So on our way we are!

I just wanted too say thankyou though too my friends that have talked with me this moring while dh was out and while the phone calls were comeing in from my mother, you guy's helped keep me calm in frount of my kids, So thankyou so much! Blessings to you both!

~Ruth