Monday, December 3, 2007 - ON WT Breastfeeding A Newborn
I have not really ever had any problems breastfeeding. And, for as long as I have ever thought about breastfeeding, I knew I was going to breastfeed my babies.
For some things it is good that you 'don't know any better'. I just automatically thought that if you have a baby, you nurse the baby. I didn't know any different. Looking back, it was strange to hear my mom tell me over and over, in an encouraging, if not permission-like way that she only nursed me until I doubled my birth weight, then she was told she could start me on baby food. I suppose my mom could attest to my determination to do things differently - or the 'right way' or whatever you would call it, but I had no interest in stopping breastfeeding when Amanda doubled her birth weight.
As a matter of fact, I read all I could about breastfeeding, and as I found out that you could do it well into toddlerhood (and you should), it became increasingly harder and harder to not be offended or confused when a well-meaning friend made comments or asked questions about when I was going to stop breastfeeding. The pressure is really not much different than from people who do not understand "why in the world we would homeschool" or "Why we have so many kids". But, I suppose they didn't know me very well either. I found out that breastfeeding was best, and there was no way I was going to stop because society thought it was weird or to make it convenient for my life.
Yes, there were things I did with Amanda and Jocelyn, being our first two, that I would not ever do now, like supplement with formula or stop before they were toddlers so I could go on a two-week youth group drama tour. I hate it that I did those things. Live and learn. I am so happy I know more now.
So, after 8 children, what do I know? Hmmm.... I suppose I will come up with things to write for several weeks into this post. So, I will write what I can think of now. The funny thing is that you 'forget' some things.
I have a friend whose baby was given formula in the hospital, and now she is having a hard time re-introducing the breast. So, I will start there. I think a lot of this info will go a long way, whether you has problems breastfeeding or it's smooth-sailing. My sil also had some similar problems, so I know this is common for some of us mommies.
If you wrote me and told me you were having problems breastfeeding, this is what I would tell you:
All you can do is keep up your milk supply and keep offering the breast. The chlorophyll, zinc and lots of water should help keep it up. Interesting thing: when I was researching about goat's milk, I read that the milk is actually blood that has been changed into milk in the body, so you need to make sure your iron is good too.
I think that you need to be the only one Baby associates with feedings - that only you should give her her bottle. When she is almost done with her bottle and acts like she is content, I would offer her the breast. Even if all of the kids want to hold her, and I think they should, but I think for now, Baby needs to constantly be against your skin. It needs to be her constant comfort. It needs to be where she feels secure. You need to
give her her bottle with her face against your bare breast. You need to wake her up every couple of hours and hold her so your breast is all she has in her world. She probably won't be hungry every two hours, but she will suckle if she can.
If you have been giving Baby formula from the git-go or she was given that alone, then all I can say is that she she needs to be totally immersed in that being her world. 24/7.
IEven if you do all of this, plan on it taking at least a couple of weeks. Don't get discouraged. Expect her to want the bottle. Unless and until Baby 'switches' her reality over to you/your skin, she will want the bottle. It is not so much about her latching on as it is about changing what she has learned about her food source. Since you can't change those other days, change what she knows now. Learn her signs. If it feels like "it isn't
working", it's ok. It is not something that will work or not. It is something to get used to.
If you are having trouble breastfeeding, La Leche League has some online forums. Here is one search I did: http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rlz=1T4TSHB_enUS214US232&q=la+leche+league+%22bottle+to+breast%22
I didn't find anything in my book, The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding on this topic, so here are some other links I found. It is sometimes is better to get others' perspectives/experiences.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/baby/bbreastfeed/0,,b0z780pm,00.html
http://chomelblog.blogspot.com/2007/06/on-breastfeeding.html
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&rlz=1T4TSHB_enUS214US232&q=christian+breastfeeding+forum
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Sunday, September 30, 2007 - Homesteading Submissions Requested
Hello. I have been requested to hold a blog carnival for all of you yet again - much to my extreme happiness, of course!
So... I will be hosting The 18th Homesteading Carnival this next week.
What is a blog carnival, you ask?
A blog carnival is a carnival (activity where bloggers go to play, look around, sit with a cuppa hot joe and read, relax with a spot of tea) held at a virtual place (my blog) where a variety of posts about one subject (homesteading) is collected and put on display for the carnival-goers (you) to come and browse, visit and experience all of the booths and rides (submissions of recipes, animal experiences, home happenings, canning, gardening, crafting, school, nature activities) by the vendors (other bloggers and friends). Sounds like fun, eh?
I am not sure where it will be held the following week, but I know Page has requested to host it. I sure hope she does; I so enjoyed her English hospitality the last time she did it.
Please Email Me your submissions. As the season is changing and we have so much to prepare for as winter will soon be rolling in, I can't wait to see all you have to share.
Here is the info I need for your submission:
Your Name:
Blog Name:
Blog URL:
Post Title:
Post URL:
Just copy that and fill it in and send it to me. If you are interested in hosting, you can let me know that too, and we will put you on The Schedule when you are available!
Blessings!!
-Jacque
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Friday, August 10, 2007 - ICK!
here's a question for you...
Why is my 2yo still walking around in his messy diaper, when we keep telling him to lay down so we can change him? Yes, this is a gross topic, but I am truly perplexed. He wants it changed, but does not want to lay down and get it changed. I am tired of fighting with him, and why should I have to? You would think he'd be happy to get it changed.
Now, to set the record straight... we change him and put him in big boy Superman underwear everyday. This week alone he has already gotten up on the potty and done his duty all by himself, and he even peed standing up a the toilet with no help, just went in there and did it.
So, he is still in his diaper, and I guess when he decides he is uncomfortable enough, I'll take him outside and hose him off.
Or not. -He'll probably enjoy that way too much!
Praise the Lord! He lies down as I speak type!
blessings!
-Jacque
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Tuesday, July 17, 2007 - Some Pregnancy Info and Links
This is some info I found that is very important to know if you are expecting or hoping to be soon! Take a look at the links below.
I didn't go to any type of Dr. or even my midwife until much later than 4.5 m. However... I knew what to expect from my body, and I altered my diet to fit the nutritional needs I had as a "pregnant lady". You have to be mindful of how your body reacts and what it needs. I have been 'watching what my body needs' in the terms of supplements for several years now, so I know what to look for.
Leafy vegetables, such as broccoli, spinach and asparagus, contain naturally occurring folic acid.
Prevention of pregnancy complications
Studies have proven that folate consumption during pregnancy prevents deficiency and anemia in pregnant women. Low folate levels during pregnancy may contribute to birth defects and pregnancy loss. Consuming a high dietary intake of folate and taking folic acid supplements orally during pregnancy reduces the risk of neural tube birth defects in the infant.
Some other info:
B-Complex Vitamins are a GREAT stress reliever.
I hope this is encouraging and a help!
blessings!
-Jacque
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Saturday, May 19, 2007 - What *I* Want
Here I sit literally chomping at the bit to get outside. I want to build the walls and gates for the goat stalls. And fix the horse stall. And tear off the lean-to, so we can get Cowboy and Elessar (bucklings) their own stall fa-a-ar away from the does. But, alas, it's too windy. For Lucy, not for me.
All this weighs on my mind as I sit here holding my Little Lucy. I have been down to the barn a few times for a short amt. of time each time, but not for long yet, as she may need me after I've been there for 30m, and I return to the house.
I also have a garden to till one more time, which I am still in the process of doing. And a fence to move, so that we can plant alfalfa and timothy grass. That would really help with the expense of hay for the goats and horses, I think, as I sit and hold my dear Little Lucy.
I also have lesson planning, and records to make forms for and record on. I would love to have an actual schedule we follow. Life runs so much smoother when we follow a schedule. Ooh, and I forgot to mention Jocelyn's novel that I promised to edit, and have edited over and over, just not to completion. I am making a desktop just for her novel, so I can remember to get on it and get it finished. As soon as I finish writing this...
I can type on the laptop, because I am sitting here holding the sleeping Pixie Muffin as Rachel prepares dinner, Jocelyn works on the goat pen with her Daddy and Eric, and Amanda picks up and vacuums.
Having had a newborn now for the 8th time, I have had several different philosophies on baby-holding, letting them cry, how oftern to feed, and the like. At this point, I take very short trips only with newborns. I hold them often... they are held almost constantly by someone. I feed on demand or I wake the Babe up to nurse, if she has slept for long. We wear our babies. We don't 'let them cry' this young, but by 6 months, when we can tell they understand such things, that will change.
For now, Lucy's expectations aren't too high; just love me, hold me, feed me and change me. So, that's what I do. I'm the Mom, after all.
All of that pulling that I feel to get out and get all of that work done, though necessary and something I like to do, does not compare to the pulling I feel to sit here with Lucy and be here doing what I, as her Mommy, need to do. I must say, I am an old pro at this. Not necessarily being a mommy, but at having to decide whether or not to chose doing something necessary that I want to do over something of great importance that I need to do.
The garden needs to be planted, as well as all of the other things I listed, but they can be done by literally anyone. Mommy to our Little Blessings - and the Big ones, too - is of utmost importance to me and God.
So, I guess I can have what I want, I just have to decide what I want *most*.
Blessings!
Jacque
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Saturday, May 19, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by stitchnchick |
I was reminded of this lovely poem (you've probably seen).
"Babies Don't Keep"
Mother, oh Mother, come shake out your cloth
empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
hang out the washing and butter the bread,
sew on a button and make up a bed.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She's up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.
Oh, I've grown shiftless as Little Boy Blue
(lullaby, rockabye, lullaby loo).
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
(pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo).
The shopping's not done and there's nothing for stew
and out in the yard there's a hullabaloo
but I'm playing Kanga and this is my Roo.
Look! Aren't her eyes the most wonderful hue?
(lullaby, rockaby, lullaby loo).
The cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,
for children grow up, as I've learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep.
-- Author Unknown
I raised my babies much the same as you, though my grandmother (bless her heart) thought I was 'spoiling" them. They turned out just fine. :o)
Anyway, I am finished with the baby stage (sadly), but reading your entry took my mind back to the days where I had a little one to hold and care for. Congratulations on your little darling. Treasure every moment! (I know you do...)
Amy |
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| Posted by HandsNHearts |
Having also found the end of my mothering cycle for my own newborns, I can certainly relate to that longing to do other things, but the strength of the heart strings that compel me to simply watch things happen while I hold, cuddle, nurture and smell the baby in my arms.
Our youngest and final baby addition on my end of things, Miss Emily, is just 10 months old now, and I am able to do many more things than I once could with her...but none of them come close to replacing that total immersion of love I feel just snuggling with her!
It's gonna be gone so soon. Cherish it now -- as I can tell you are!
Deanna |
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Wednesday, May 16, 2007 - Newborn/Infant Tips and Tricks
Here are some tips and 'tricks' I've learned about newborns through the years. Most, if not all, I have proven by trial-and-error throughout my experiences with our children. I hope they will encourage you as they have encouraged me. Please feel free to add yours in a comment, a private message or your own post (just leave me the link!!).
I will be editing/updating as I think of any more.
*breastfeed within 30m of the birth.
*I'm just going to say it: breast milk is best for Baby! It was made for Baby by his Creator; It's best.
*do *not* give any other supplement if you plan to breastfeed. Your milk is supplied according to how much Baby nurses. Every bit you supplement cuts into your supply and baby's health. Sugar water is probably one of the worst things you can give Baby.
*Drink a lot of water and not a lot of caffeine.
*use goldenseal on the umbilical cord, instead of alcohol. We even use it on cuts.
* for 'gunk' in the eyes, a few drops of breastmilk will do the trick. Yes, breast milk. It has a high number of white blood cells and aids in healing.
* cloth diapers are always the best choice.
*start now keeping baby in a dry diaper. It will save you some problems when you potty train in a couple of years!
*Baby loves to be swaddled. Wrap her up tight, hold her against your chest...LucyLillie goes right to sleep.
* get an Ergo (with the insert). If you have not tried baby-wearing, you must. It keeps Baby right where she wants to be: with Mommy. If you are jus starting your family, it is actualy an investment. If you are on baby #7, it is still an investment!! It makes for happier babies and toddlers. An Ergo is top-of-the-line and worth the investment.
* use corn starch in the diaper, instead of talc baby powder.
*feed on demand, with no longer than a 2h spread between feedings.
*if you feed Baby about every 2h during the day and Baby will sleep longer at night.
*Baby loves to be held;
*zinc, in conjunction with vitamin E and selenium, is great for milk production;
*so is chlorophyll;
*Mom needs rest everyday for at least the first week. That means a helper is not just a convenience, but necessary to make meals, care for children, etc. It is best if someone can be at your home so siblings can be with Mommy and Baby with help.
*breastfed babies tend to look a bit jaundiced. This is normal;
*do NOT stop breastfeeding your baby just because he looks jaundiced (I learned this the hard way);
*Everytime you pick your Little Darling up, say, "Come to Mommy." This one I just learned. It will allow her to relate the gentleness and joy of being with you to the words "Come to Mommy." Read about it at No Greater Joy.
MANY Blessings!!!!
Jacque
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Wednesday, May 16, 2007 - Nice |
| Posted by Chas |
Nice list. I know soooo many first time mommies struggle because they have too much 'dr' influence. If they had more 'mommy' influence there would be more breastfeeding, baby wearing, etc...
Not saying Dr.'s are all bad.... but we ought to spread OUR knowledge around! :)
blessings,
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Wednesday, May 16, 2007 - Thank you so much..... |
| Posted by srusnowangel |
This list has helped me so much. I am printing it off and placing it in my binder as a reminder (if you don't mind). I am due in Sept. with my first child and it is nice to hear from another mother with the same values encouraging to do the things I want to do. (i.e breastfeed). It was so good to hear some of the tips you had. If you have anymore please share. I am looking into cloth diapers, any more tips on them or a brand you like to use?
Again thank you so much for the list!!! |
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Wednesday, May 16, 2007 - Nice . . . |
| Posted by Jonash2004 |
Most of these where very true for us and our son ... however, he did not like to be swaddled. Boy, I sure tried, though. Of course, he also had the strongest neck I've seen since on a newborn - there wasn't any of this relaxing on our shoulder bit.
Dh finally said, "I think he's happy to have room to move around, don't swaddle him anymore."
He was right!
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Wednesday, May 2, 2007 - She *Almost* Has A Name
First of all, it's pretty bad when you keep asking your husband for a final decision on the Baby's name because you know "everyone is waiting" to know what it is. It's especially bad when you know all of your blogger friends are waiting and you are just dying to be able to blog SOMETHING!!!
Second of all... it is *not*, I tell you, NOT a conspiracy, regardless of how obsessed Christina has become!!!
*big grin, and maybe a few chuckles!!*
It's nice that she and maybe some of you check daily, but c'mon, a plan to *get* you here??? I don't think the hormones have cleared my system enough to come up with such a plan yet, actually!!! LOL
Here is the story I wrote down about choosing PixieMuffin's name. I wrote it literally days ago, because I just *knew* Matt would pick out a name right away, given free reign to do so...HAH!
April 27th, 2007
Baby Girl was 1 day shy of 3 weeks old, and still we had not picked out a name for her. I loved the name Lillie. We were stuck between that and Lucy, which I had also come up with, because it was Matt's Grandmother's name. I couldn't choose between the 2, and they really didn't go well together. At this point, I really didn't care if they did or not and was ready to name her Lucy Lillie. I knew that Matt really wasn't dead-set on anything. He wouldn't give a definite yes on Lucy or Lillie, though he knew I was really hoping for Lillie. He said he didn't know and really didn't care one way or the other. He liked Lucy and Lillie. I was really getting irritated.
As I sang to her and talked to her that rainy afternoon, I gazed into her sweet little eyes and asked her, "What is your name, Little Girlie?". To my surprise, her gentle eyes told me so deeply into my spirit only this: "My name is whatever my Daddy wants it to be so I will grow up to love and respect him and become a God-honoring, respectful daughter to him." Tears welled up in my eyes as I contemplated these words. I felt them deep into my heart, as though she was speaking them along with the Holy Spirit. I softly, gently and tearfully responded to our precious new little daughter, saying, "I can do that, my precious little girl. I will do that."
From that day on, I have been calling her Lucy, much to my children's dismay. They liked Lillie more, too. I was still hoping for Lillie as a middle name, whether it sounded good together or not. Matt came home the next day with Abigail or Allison. I vetoed Allison, with his approval. I said Abigail was ok, if he liked it, but I wasn't thrilled with it. So, still undecided on her middle name at this point, I decided in the next few days that I would give on hoping for Lillie. I text messaged about 8 names I would put with Lucy and sent them.
Long story short, we are still deciding on a middle name. (sorry all...)
He did come home today and tell me that Lucy Lillie or Lillie Lucy is ok with him, because it isn't all about him, and he knows I really like the name. We didn't decide definitely, because, well, he still likes another name we came up with, and I want him to be sure.
I did tell him that if we don't use Lillie, I reserve the right to use it if we are blessed with another daughter and I still want to use the name!! Thought I would take the pressure off... still didn't work!! Maybe I can blog a middle name tomorrow!
Of course, her name could be Lillie Lucy tomorrow, too...
There... welcome to our indecisive world...
(And, no, Blogboy, it usually doesn't take us this long!!!!)
Jacque
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p.s.... Go to Amber's and guess when she'll have her new Baby and other info. The prize is a $10 gc to the TOS Store!!
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Wednesday, May 2, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by shelley43022 |
What about Lillian Lucile, or Lucile Lillian or Lillie Lucile! We took a long time to name our last child too. Its so hard, good luck.
joyful homemaker |
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Wednesday, May 2, 2007 - Lol.... |
| Posted by Jonash2004 |
It's been fun observing your search for names and contentment without one. We happen to be fairly unusual in that we have 5 girl's names picked out and 4 boys b/c I happened to mention to dh one day that we had lots of boy's names but if we had two girls in a row next we wouldn't have names. We had to sit down right then and figure out some! (Our tastes are so different, and all the names must be Biblical or at least Hebrew so its a real process!)
Our next is going to have a name starting with "E" - boy or girl. Our two favorite names just happen to start with the same letter!
Thanks for sharing!
Ashley |
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Wednesday, May 2, 2007 - baby name |
| Posted by Anonymous |
ok ~ this is too weird ~ my baby girl's name is Lily
:-)
Tracy in AR |
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Wednesday, May 2, 2007 - Yes, I knew that, Tracy!!! |
| Posted by FruitfulVineof7SoFar |
I saw that on your last comment and had to tell myself to just stick with the whole plan of Matt picking the name... (fighting off jealousy)...
Not really, but I *did* notice it.
I *LOVE* that name!
-J
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Thursday, May 3, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Rhen |
I like Lucy Lillie. It is fun and it really does roll off the tongue.
Congrats again on your new bundle of joy.
All for His glory,
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Saturday, April 28, 2007 - Expectations of a Toddler
HAD to post this here too....
There is an age-old expectation of sibling rivalry between a child in his "terrible twos" and a newborn sibling. There is probably an expectation of this jealousy from children, period. We are now experiencing our 7th newborn sibling, and I still hear this question of our youngest, "So, how is so-n-so doing with the new baby?"
When I tell them that "older child" is totally in love with and awe of the new Little One, they are completely surprised that the other has accepted the new baby into the house and his space. It boggles my mind. Why is this an expectation? As a Believer, should I even have this expectation?
Is it odd that we have prepared our children for this Blessing from God and waited with expectation for months now? Are we supposed to expect them to dislike this precious little helpless baby, this Gift from God?
For 3 weeks, I have watched with delight as 22m Caleb watches his new Baby Sister intently. He stays just a few inches from her face, staring at the wonder of her. It isn't just a couple of seconds. That is the amazing thing. He stands there for minutes. He says she's a Good Girl. If he is not completely mesmerized with her, he is asking to see her and give her a kiss on the cheek. And we let him. We keep careful watch when he is near her, because, well, he's 1. One-year-olds don't have a grasp of the delicacy of newborns, obviously. But, let him look. We let him touch her and 'pet' her... and maybe he can see that she will need a big brother to protect her as she grows. And, if encouraged in the right way, he may take it upon himself to be that protector God has created him as a young man to be.
It is all in our expectations. Do we expect him to love her or be jealous of her? Do we expect him to hit her or treat her gently? Is he expected to behave in a selfish manner in any other area? How do we teach children to behave? By expecting them not to? No. We teach them what we expect them to do and then we expect that. Of course human (sin) nature will try to take over and selfishness may come through, but that is when the instruction and encouragement comes in.
However, I truly do not see the love and wonder of a new Baby as even in the same arena. I suppose if a child around the age of 2 has been trained to be completely self-centered, then, yes, that child will expect every moment of attention be turned to him. What a great disservice you would have done to that child, yourself and his siblings! What a lot of work you have to do now to help that child love himself and his family in the way he should... and with a newborn, you have your work cut out for you!
3 1/2 yo Isaac walks around the house saying random things like, "I love her," and, "She is so beautiful." At the ripe old age of 3, he sees her value. He sees her frailty and the beauty of God's love and creation in his sister. We did not have to sit for hours and teach him that. It truly was love at first sight for him. The first time he saw her, his eyes widened, his face lit up, and he let out a squeal of awe. It was more than I expected. It was pure joy that cannot be taught. It was in there, and it came out. He waited with expectancy for his new little Baby to come, and when she did, the joy came right out.
And, that is how the Lord works. And that is how He wants us to train our children: to love others, consider them above ourselves, value human life, and love the way He would. When we don't interfere with His plan and we put a value on something or someone the way that He would, then it is real and it is pure. It isn't something to put our own desires in front of... And, OH! the benefits!
Blessings-
Jacque
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Saturday, April 28, 2007 - siblings |
| Posted by Anonymous |
I peek in on you every now & then since finding you (I have no clue how) 6-8 weeks ago.
We had babies due at almost the same time; we were both dealing with swelling.....
My sweet little baby girl is now 4 wks old. her 23 mo.old brother adores her, as does her 3 1/2 yr old brother! even when they are playing, they are aware of her presence & will run over for a quick second just to check on her - then head back to their play. Not a day goes by that they don't ask to hold her. If they can't (cause she's nursing) they are genuinely dissappointed. They want to change her diaper. (I let them be my assistants :-)
The Pearls came to town last week & my husband & I took the baby & her 8 yr old brother & went. who did these little guys miss while we were gone?? They missed their Lily!!
Guess I'll need to take a sec & check the ages of your other kids, too ~ I hadn't realized we had other children the same age also.
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Saturday, April 28, 2007 - Great Post |
| Posted by Chas |
Great Post!! Thanks for this one.
Blessings,
Chas |
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Sunday, April 29, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by gokings13 |
The 'world' expects the older child to be jealous. They expect them to 'fight' or have 'sibling rivalry'. They expect 'terrible twos'. They 'expect' horrible behavior in teens.
And in their 'expectation', based upon a worldly system of 'self help books', tv talk show hosts, talk radios shows, magazines, and movies...........they ingrain this image into their children's heads, and then the children mearly do as their parents have expected of them!! It's sick!!
The power of our spoken words is under estimated. When we as parents start speaking words of jealously, dissension, discord, rivalry, and the like.......kids pick up on it and do as they are 'expected'.
Dr. S.M.Davis has a great teaching c/d called "What to Expect from a Twelve Year Old. You can get it at
www.visionforurm.com. Great stuff, and amazing too.
I agree with you, it is so sad to view this Gift from God as "competition"!!!
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Thursday, April 26, 2007 - Baby Blues... or Not?
I have heard of the Baby Blues. I have read about the BB. I have 8 children, and I have not experienced what is referred to as the Baby Blues. I will not diminish the severity of having Baby Blues or Post-Partum Depression. I am, however, going to place a different slant on it, from what I am experiencing. If you have experienced this, please share your experiences if you feel comfortable doing so.
I have been gazing in to Lil' Girlie's eyes, smelling her (ahh... the new baby smell!), watching her smiles, thinking about how blessed and undeserved I am to have this precious little girl. Thinking about her and how she will grow up too quickly. Does it make me tear up and feel deeply in my soul? Of course it does. Does it make me feel all emotional? Yes, absolutely.
As I sat thinking about how emotional I was getting, coupled with the fact that my midwife had asked me last week if I was dealing with any Blues or anything, I thought about how I was feeling. It occurred to me that this feeling is a blessing. That God has put something into new mothers to safeguard them and their families against the horrible things that can and have happened when we women experience feelings of the blues and allow feelings and sorrow to consume them. Is it hormones? Most definitely, I'm sure. Can we avoid it? Well, unless there is something blatantly wrong physiologically, I believe we can.
Most of what goes on in our lives, physically and emotionally, can be controlled when we are healthy. That means we must be healthy spiritually, emotionally and physically. We must nourish and nurture our relationship with the One True God. We must bring our emotions under the authority of Jesus Christ, as the Bible tells us to do. However, we cannot do this if we are not healthy, rested and desiring it. Sometimes, when we have a new Babe and so much to do, it's easy to get into the self-focused mode... focusing on all that we have done or are doing.
I believe God gave us as women nurturing, loving, gentle motherhood to combat feelings that may contribute to or arise from the Baby Blues. I have truly been emotional lately. I can cry for a good reason, but not a necessary one. I am not worried about anything bad happening, because I sit here, thanking God for all He has given me, one who does not deserve it. He has put a feeling of longing for this Precious One in me. A deep joy and love as I spend time with her, as I get up 3-4 times a night some nights to nurse her. Her helplessness... knowing He has placed her in my care. It is overwhelming only to a point of feeling a great responsibility and love for her.
You know I advocate taking supplements and eating organic (or as healthy as you can!). When you have a new Baby, it is a must that you rest up and eat right. You must do this if you want to have enough milk to feed the New Little One. Let someone else do the dishes and the laundry. Snuggle that little Babe. Take time to do something you want to do anyway... love on those children, young and old.
Read your Bible. Read a book. Read them your Bible. Read them a book. Write a letter. Draw. Blog. Just relax, because that Babe needs you healthy, as do your hubby and other children.
Here is a comment I received on my blog today, however coincidentally, as I typed up part of this post the other day!
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If you are concerned about Baby Blues or Post-Partum Depression, you can read about it HERE.
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Balancing Life
Pictures from around our homestead... at Jocelyn's homeschool blog
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Thursday, April 26, 2007 - Time to reflect |
| Posted by countryheart |
| I never had the baby blues with any of mine but I could break down and cry at the drop of a hat.I was so overwelmed with feelings of total awe and emotional attachment that I wanted to do nothing but nuture that baby and yes... I was so grateful for that desire. I exsisted for that child only at that time.Isn't that the way God intented it?Blessings, Tina |
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Friday, April 27, 2007 - Great post. |
| Posted by trying2bfrugal |
| I whole heartedly agree with your post/reflections. This is something I did not do when I was a new mom. I did not pay much attention to my spiritual as well as physical health. It caused me to be extremely tired and irritable when my daughter was in the NICU for 2 weeks after birth. Thank goodness I have a supportive husband that is able to notice that things can go undone for awhile after a new baby. This has helped tremendously after my last pregnancies. God-willing we will soon have a new blessing this Fall and I can't wait for #5. |
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Saturday, April 14, 2007 - FYI- It's Been A week Already!!!
Please tell me *how* that is possible!!
She is officially a week old in 1 hour and 29 minutes!!!
Am I *that* old? A week, gone by already.
WOW.
I must just be spending too much time enjoying her. That's it. I'm *not* that old.
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Blessings!!!
-J
p.s. She lost her cord, but found her thumb already!
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Saturday, April 14, 2007 - Good Girl |
| Posted by countryheart |
| If she has found her thumb she'll probably be a good baby. Mine were always suckers and they were so content. I know you are enjoying her. There is nothing like that first week or so when you two only exsist for each other! Beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Sunday, April 15, 2007 - <i>Untitled Comment</i> |
| Posted by Yxpu |
Hello Mrs. Dixon.
Nice to hear from you!
I’m very pleased you liked my solar system video!
I can’t wait to see you guys tomorrow!
I really think you should name her Polly.
:)
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Sunday, April 15, 2007 - Old |
| Posted by Chas |
NO you are NOT that old!!!!! And the reason I say that is NOT because I am right behind you ;) haha... It just goes back to the old adage.... Time flies when you are having fun, and I know you have to be having fun with that little sweetie!! :D
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - How Long DO You Have To Name The Baby?
Gee Whiz...
Like we *have* to name our sweet little darling beautiful girl? She's only going to be a week old tomorrow!
You people are so-o-o impatient!! ( ;
No one likes Pixie Muffin, huh? I think it is adorable. If it was Hebrew (or an actual name), I might try to convince Matt it suits her.
Amanda and Jocelyn have gotten so many name suggestions on their blogs, and I am sorry for any anxiety we are causing to our family and friends like Blogboy and totutuus, who *really* want us to name her. I have a few friends at homesteadblogger who are patiently waiting, too!
So, here are a few of the suggestions....
Grandma Starr- What a sweetie........ I still like the name Regina..........
I know you do, Mom! (It was my Grandma's middle name)
Grandma Debbie- she is so pretty!!!!! HOW ABOUT KAYLA ANN
Uncle Ken- How about BB G. Dixon for Beautiful Baby Girl
"Auntie" Gena- how about emerson? isn't that the coolest girl name?? or ella....or maybe amarys (ah-merris)......did you want me to just name her? i don't mind....really. a;dlkjfladjflsjd
and, then: Lydia, Priscilla, Sarai, Mara, Naomi, Zion (that's a cool name), Danielle, Fiona, Gabrielle, Karena
JenIg suggested Jenefer (which my sister, Jennifer, would probably appreciate!), and she called her a PixieMuffin, which I adore!
by quietcajun : What about a name that MEANS beautiful like Bonita, Linda, or Bella? :) I still like MY name best... Christina "follower of Christ"!
by Rhen : You could name her Pure Sweetness! Such a cutie. I like the name Charlotte. That was in our top 3 for our new ones name but Susannah won out with darling daddy so that is what he named her. Congrats!
by Jonash2004 : She is so precious! My vote is Emma. :) I'm so excited for November!!!! Ashley
by countryheart : She is just the most precious little thing! Congratulations on your little girl. I'm glad your labor went so fast. I think Tina Marie would be a charming name! Get rest and enjoy! Love, Tina
by DarthYxpu : You should name her Polly!!! Yes??? I mean, she looks just like me (kinda). Therefore her personality is just like mine! So, you should name her after me! Ah, come on, It’d be cute!
by BlogBoy: Now your going to name the baby Erica after me right? =D
Oh, and they’ve decided to name the baby Erica after me, Right?
I agree with sylvia, Name The BABY! 
by Rach : Here are a few first and middle name suggestions (some are from my sister): Anna, Cherish, Hannah, Melody, Bethany, Grace, Sophia/Sofia (Sophie), Lucy, Kristen, Natalie. That's what we can think of. I'm rooting for Anna. :)
I'm Jane and I don't have a blog but I'm kind of a friend of a friend and I always enjoy reading your entries. I think you should name the baby Grace or maybe Emma!
by totustuus : predicting from all the names in your family already...I'd say Rebekah would fit right in, but I don't know your name preferences. ;-)
And I am really starting to get impatient about little No-name Dixon...Lol I'm sure she is adorable!!
by BookFreak : I like... Bridget.... and Lynn.... *grin* But i doubt that you'll need any help picking a name... Kanasy was Kanasy from the beginning... but Nekoda was Zach, and Seth, and a whole bunch of other names before we picked one to keep!
by BrielleCostumes : Congratulations on the new little hobbit!….
I’m glad she is doing well. I think the name Emma is really cute..:)
by weesma : Our suggestion for a name (actually Heather came up with it) is Mary, a nice old-fashioned and Biblical name. Mrs. P.
by : Earthling's mom and she told me you were looking for a name for your beautiful new baby girl. I know it's getting a bit common, but Lily is a pretty name for a baby born on Easter weekend, because of the Easter Lily tradition. Rose reminds us of the resurrection. So, I vote for Lily Rose (even if I do have my very own Lila Rose!).
by Narniagirl : I personally like the name Elizabeth (or you can spell it the British way, which I prefer: Elisabeth) which I believe means "gift of God". I also like Hannah and Marie (as a middle name).
We have been through name lists over and over. We have a couple of favorites. I just can't commit.... boohoo. Daddy is about no help. He is so picky, I don't think he likes any particular name!! but... I don't think this Little Sweetie minds!
And, I am working on the birth story.... even with only "30m of hard labor", it won't be *that* short!!
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by southernbelle |
| Well congratulations to you all on the birth of the new baby. I hope you settle on a name soon. It'll come to you! |
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - Lol! |
| Posted by Jonash2004 |
I wondered about that 'easy 30 minute' part!!
I had a nice, quick (hahaha!) 7-ish hour labor for Samuel, rather than a typical 12+, first-time-mom-labor I was warned I might have. I think faster meant harder - other first time mommies I've talked to were able to *sleep* through the first part of labor. I certainly didn't! :P
Enjoy that baby girl and take your time finding the right name . . . .
Ashley |
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - 8 months |
| Posted by Anonymous |
Is how long it took me to name my oldest son, Gregory. I struggled with this so long. And finally what my DH and I did was put all the name we liked each on individual slips and put them in a hat. We drew out 2 names decided between the two which one we liked best and kept that name and threw the other out. Then still holding that first name that we like best we drew out another. Then decided if we liked it better than the first. If we did that was the one we would keep and continue drawling out names against that one. Finally we were left with Gregory or Benjamin and liked both kinda favored Benjamin but I let my DH decide the last vote and he wanted Gregory. The name is important but it is the child you love and I love both Gregory and his name.
however with as difficult and as hard as it was to give him a first name we just decided to forgo the middle name. How many more months would that take us!
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - anonymous |
| Posted by karenhuse |
Sorry I did not mean for that last commet to be anonymous apparently I was not signed in.
Best of luck
karen |
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by BlueApple |
| Are you sure you have enough help picking a name? LOL I think you need just oooonnnneee more...Gemma or I like Gianna too! :-) |
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - One more name |
| Posted by Sweetmama2 |
Janae (wecame up with the combination of Jane, Jean and Renee) they were all family names that we considered and did not like so my daughter got a middle name that combined them all. PM me and I will tell you her real full name if you want.
Sweetmama
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - We already have a Jenaye... |
| Posted by FruitfulVineof7SoFar |
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I actually combined my sister's name and my mom's middle name - Jennifer and Kay - and came up with Jenaye.
I had not ever heard of it before and didn't spend time looking at baby books back in 1993!
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by farmgal35 |
Congrads on the new little girl. I wish I was able to have another little girl, but I am unable too. Unless God has a different plan for me. I like the name Mollie. But I have my reason for that, it was my grandmothers name. If I had another little girl, I would name her after her because my grandmother meant so much to me. All three of my kids are named for someone in the Bible. Elizabeth, Hannah and Samuel. I had Elizabeth and Hannah pick out way before I ever got pregnant. The story of Hannah and her faith, Wow!. It took me 7 years to become pregnant with my second one. I prayed for years and would read Hannahs story and her faith kept me going about me being able to maybe have another. God answered my prayers. I did have another girl and then 22 mos later God gave us a son.
I am sure whatever name you give her, it will be perfect for her. She is a little cutie. Good luck and God Bless. sheryl |
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Friday, April 13, 2007 - Name! |
| Posted by hcorbin |
I know it is hard to decide on a name!!! Our last two were boys..... we had a girl name, but not a boy name!!!!! Our girl name stayed the same for both of them, maybe someday we will be able to use it.... Only God knows (maybe through adoption). Our girl name was:
"Ellie Grace". Instead for our youngest two we have and "Ethan Taylor" and a "Nathaniel (nate) Wade. I am very interested in name meanings.... I had to make sure they had good meanings.... I didn't want to be speaking something negative over my child their whole life!!!!
Our one daughter's name is Robyn Elizabeth. Her name is my DH's middle name and my middle name. (his is spelled Robin). When we started dating we talked about this possiblity.
God will give you both a peace and joy about her name....!
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Saturday, April 14, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by countrygalu |
They are all beautiful names. Mom usually named all of us after three to four days.
Makayla |
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Saturday, April 21, 2007 - baby name |
| Posted by Anonymous |
I din't realize that Pixie muffin did not have an official name yet! I think it's sweet that you're taking your time to find the right name for her! You've probably used up your favorites by now, huh?
Okay, these are my two favorite girl names....Lily (my youngest daughter's name) and Sadie (old fashioned, not too common, very feminine and beautiful)... so you can add those to your list od considerations! |
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Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - New Pic of Baby Girl
No name yet... Isn't she beautiful?
Baby Girl 04-09-07 2 days old
have had many name suggestions...
what do you think of "pixie-muffin" ?
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Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - how long |
| Posted by mejerrymouse |
SO...how long do you have to name the baby :P
Congrats!!
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Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - Awww, she is adorable... |
| Posted by mulberrylane |
and the name... absolutely cute *grin* We had a name picked out that meant country girl... Oh, I cannot remember the name... it was quite different and my girls all just fainted that we were considering such a name. LOL. We also did not have a name picked out by figured it out after day one... Dh wanted to be able to tell the midwife at my day after checkup.
Oh have fun with this little one, I can see the love and the bonding already.
Warmly, Melissa |
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Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - Aaawwwww |
| Posted by Rhen |
You could name her Pure Sweetness! Such a cutie. I like the name Charlotte. That was in our top 3 for our new ones name but Susannah won out with darling daddy so that is what he named her.
Congrats!
All for His glory,
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Thursday, April 12, 2007 - LOL |
| Posted by FruitfulVineof7SoFar |
You know... all I can say is that I don't think the Name Police are gonna be comin' anytime soon!!
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hahahahaha
I guess we have as long as we want until we turn in the papers for the Birth Certificate and SSN.
*smiles*
-J
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Thursday, April 12, 2007 - Oh she is darling!! |
| Posted by mominpa |
make me long for these last 20 weeks. I know they are VERY important...but I can't wait to hold our new bundle of joy....
Thanks for sharing another picture!!
So how are thing going, all the new animals, baby....you seem to have all things under control.
I personally am pretty good with babies, (the younger the better) its once they get close to toddler hood that things get a bit crazy!!! I'm not at all worried about homeschooling and things with a baby...but once the baby is ON THE GO..that is when things may get a little hairy!! |
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Thursday, April 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Jonash2004 |
She is so precious! My vote is Emma. :) I'm so excited for November!!!!
Ashley |
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Thursday, April 12, 2007 - Beautiful! |
| Posted by Chas |
She is just beautiful!!!! Congratulations again!!! :)
Blessings,
Chas |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - IT'S A GIRL!!
**EDIT**
Here is a pic of the SWEETIE!! This is the best we can get off Mom's camera!!
The newest Dixon is here... It is a BABY GIRL!!
She was born at 3:29 am on her due date... She is nursing WELL!! She is an adorable, sweet, precious thing... She has not cried yet, but we have heard her beautiful voice... SHE is so tiny!!
She weighs six pounds eleven ounces. She has tiny little feet, which we stamped onto a paper.
Amanda got to hold her first (besides mom). She is making 'baby noises' and everyone is looking at her.
Mom is doing GREAT!! Had a pretty easy birth... it was actually only about 30min of actual labor...
The midwife is helping Mom get cleaned up right now so she should be laying down with the baby soon.
We don't have any names or suggests right now...but we were right - it was a GIRL!
Mom will be on here as soon as she is rested (we're pretty sure  )... Just wanted to let you all know!!
The Dixon Chicks
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - new baby |
| Posted by 2gramsroses |
| I'm so happy for you all. Glad mom and baby are doing good. Can't wait for a new pic. and to hear her name. What a wonderful Easter !!!!!!! Sherry |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Woo-Hoo, A New Baby :-) |
| Posted by Musketman |
Congratulations, she shares a birthday with these other famous people.
April 7 Birthdays
William Woodsworth 1770 - Poet
William King 1786 - 13th U.S. Vice President
W.K. Kellogg 1860
Jersey Joe Walcott 1872
John (Joseph) ‘Mugsy’ McGraw 1873 - Baseball player, baseball commissioner, baseball manager
Irene Castle 1893
Walter Winchell 1897 - Vaudeville performer, journalist, radio commentator
Percy Faith 1908 - Orchestra leader, composer
Billie Holiday 1915 - Jazz singer
R. G. Armstrong 1917 - Actor
Ralph Flanagan 1919 - Pianist, arranger
Ravi Shankar 1920 - Musician, sitarist, was George Harrison's sitar teacher
Mongo (Ramon) Santamaria 1922 - Bandleader, composer, musician
James Garner (James Scott Bumgarner) 1928 - Actor ("Rockford Files", "Maverick")
Daniel Ellsberg 1931 - Author, known for releasing the Pentagon Papers to the New York Times
Cal Smith 1932 - Country singer
Wayne Rogers 1933 - Actor ("M*A*S*H")
Ian Richardson 1934 - Actor
Bobby Bare 1935 - Country singer, actor
Hodding Carter 1935 - Commentator
Gail Cogdill 1937 - Football player
Charlie Thomas 1937 - Singer (The Drifters)
Freddie Hubbard 1938 - Jazz musician
Spencer Dryden 1938 - Musician (Jefferson Airplane, Jefferson Starship)
David Frost 1939 - TV host ("That Was the Week that Was")
Francis Ford Coppola 1939 - Director
Mick Abrahams 1943 - Musician (Jethro Tull)
Patricia Bennett 1947 - Singer (The Chiffons)
Carol Douglas 1948
John Oates 1949 - Songwriter, singer (Hall and Oates)
Janis Ian 1950 - Singer, songwriter
John Dittrich 1951 - Musician (Restless Heart, The Buffalo Club)
Bruce Gary 1952 - Musician (The Knack)
Jackie Chan 1954 - Actor ("Rush Hour", "Rush Hour 2")
Tony Dorsett 1954 - Football player
James "Buster" Douglas 1960 - Boxer
Russell Crowe 1964 - Actor ("A Beautiful Mind," "Gladiator")
Mark Kibble 1964 - Singer (Take 6)
Bill Bellamy 1965 - Actor
Dave "Yorkie" Palmer 1965 - Musician (Space)
Ronde Barber 1975 - Football player
Victoria Adams Beckham 1975 - Singer (Spice Girls)
Tiki Barber 1975 - Football player
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - AWWW |
| Posted by Chas |
I am so happy for you!!! What a blessing!! Congratulations!!!
Happy Birthday little one!!!
Blessings,
Chas |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Congratulations!!!! |
| Posted by countrydreamn |
So glad that SHE has arrived and all is well.
Sounds like an easy birth.
Can't wait to see the new little miss.
Congratulations again!!!!
God bless you and your family.
Blessings,
Debi |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Congratulations. |
| Posted by lerdman4 |
How great, glad they are both doing well.. I can't wait to see pictures.. 30 minute labor, that was great. I hope all is well with everyone in the house, it takes some getting use to a new baby for everyone not just mom.. Blessings to all
Lisa |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by BlueApple |
Congratulations! Such a precious gift! Can't wait to see picts (hint, hint)! LOL
Julia |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Keeblur |
Congratulations! My daughter was about the same size as yours when she was born. They're so tiny and sweet like little angels.
God bless,
Vicki |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Congrats |
| Posted by comfyslipper |
| Congratulations on the addition to your family. You are very blessed. |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by morningsunshine |
| congrats. I love new babies, so sweet, right from Heaven! enjoy! |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by homesteadinthemaking |
What a blessing to behold the day before Resurrection Sunday. Congratulations, now rest and enjoy that wonderful bundle of joy.
Blessings,
Trixi |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Kitty |
CONGRATS ON THE NEWEST CHICK, AND BY THE WAY THAT IS TOO CUTE.
KITTY |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by CandyFoote |
YEAH!!
What an obedient little girl to come right on her due date!!
Congratulations!
I think I was more anxious than you were!
I couldn't wait to jump on the computer to check on you!
Love,
Candy |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Congrats! |
| Posted by hanemlee |
Congrats! We have 8 in our family as well and it's also 5 girls and 3 boys. :)
emy and lee |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Hip, hip, hooray!!! |
| Posted by UnlikelyHomesteader |
Congratulations on the sweet new baby girl for your family. Now find that baby a name and show us some pictures!
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Congratulations on your latest blessing!!! |
| Posted by Tinakay |
I am glad you both are doing well. Take care.
Tina Kay |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Precious! |
| Posted by mulberrylane |
I am glad everything went well! Wow, a new baby sister... *sigh* Wonderful!
Warmly, ~Melissa
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Sunday, April 8, 2007 - Beautiful |
| Posted by lerdman4 |
How gorgeous, what a wonderful Easter gift you have there.. I hope you take it easy for a few days and let someone else do the meal for Easter. God is good isn't he??
What a special beautiful blessing you have there. Enjoy her ..
Lisa |
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Sunday, April 8, 2007 - Yeaaaa |
| Posted by mominpa |
This is wonderful news!! A beautiful baby girl, and sounds like a "nice and easy" labor! yeaaaah!
Congratulations!! |
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Monday, April 9, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by CountryHomesteader |
What a wonderful added gift for your Easter! I'm sorry I'm a bit late in sharing my smiles here.
Deanna |
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Monday, April 9, 2007 - Precious |
| Posted by countryheart |
| She is just the most precious little thing! Congratulations on your little girl. I'm glad your labor went so fast. I think Tina Marie would be a charming name! Get rest and enjoy! Love, Tina |
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - Pregnancy Update...
My due date is today, the 7th. My water broke just before 11pm, and contractions are steady and more than likely productive.
It is now 2am and I am having a hard time walking through them. {though I can write through them =0)}
My midwife went ahead and drove here because she lives an hour away and, of course there is snow on the ground! She is resting and I am making some tea.
More updates later…
Blessings,
J…
This post was typed and posted by  !!
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Saturday, April 7, 2007 - ohh.. how exciting! |
| Posted by farmergirl |
I just said a prayer for you. I hope everything goes well and quick!!!
Thanks for the update!
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Friday, April 6, 2007 - Due Date Officially 2 days away.... ( ;
You all are so sweet to keep checking up on me!
I have a midwife appointment today with my previous mw, R, so I am looking forward to that. I haven't seen her in almost 2 yrs. This is just going to be a quick measure and check Baby, so I expect it will go real well.
Still having contractions... I drove to town today and felt like I had a boney babe sitting on my lap, if that tells you where the Baby is!! low and moving!! Not sleeping well. Some of it is not getting to bed, but it is mostly a comfort level. I wake up with contractions and then have to really stretch a lot. Even with sitting or laying awake, I find I really have to stretch my legs.
I am doing well taking my supplements and drinking my Pregnancy Tea, but I found I am needing to stretch the legs and feet a lot. One good thing is my weight. I have fluxuated within a few pounds every so often, but I really have not gained since January. Baby is growing and heartbeat is always fine, but I am so glad my weight is doing well. I also feel like I am in such great shape, since I have been so active! I had lost 30# when I found I was pregnant, so I was not looking forward to the weight gain, and I hoped I wouldn't gain it unnecessarily. Yay!
I am having a hard time climbing into the big 15-passenger, go figure! I think it would be better if I wasn't having contractions every 15m or so, off and on!
Have to use the potty often as it is.... Just waiting. I am truly thankful that I am not feeling impatient or "ready to be done with this". I can only give credit to the Lord, because only He could give me such a sweet, looking-forward-to-the-birth attitude with 2 days left 'til my due date!
Everyone in the household has been very helpful. The older girls have been so attentive. It's a good thing for them, since they will be married and having their own little ones in the not-too-far future. They are noticing things and being concerned and that is a learning and loving process. Matt and Amanda went to the store on Wed., because, of course, we live in IN, and it was SNOWING! YUCK. I really didn't want to get out with Caleb and Isaac (though he went with Daddy). Did I mention YUCK! ? And, we are expected to have COLD temps for the next several days.
Speaking of the *freezing weather* - Poor goats. We have been checking on them, trying to get their stalls warmer everyday! We had to separate them, b/c Chloe doesn't like the other kids. Heidi has pretty much accepted the new buckling, so she lets him eat with the others. They all sleep in the kid box together. Chloe sleeps in the next stall over with 2 of her kids, and they snuggle together, so I hope they will all be warm enough for the next few days.
My Mom will be leaving soon to come and visit. She came when Isaac was due and stayed for a couple of weeks and still missed his birth by a few days, so she is hoping we will have the baby soon. I told her I am not in charge of that part. lol. Anyway, I hope she is here for the birth or soon after. She hasn't been to a birth since Hannah was born 7yrs ago. She hasn't been to a home birth.
Of course, then there's Mom and Dad Dixon, who haven't been here for over 8yrs. They haven't met Isaac or Caleb, since`we haven't gotten to go to NM (all of us) since their births. We keep trying to get them up here - at least Mom.
Amanda and I did go into town today, and I got to buy her and Jocelyn a couple of much-needed jean skirts. They were $40 skirts, marked down to !! 6.99. Yup, *That is my kinda' bargain!!* Amanda was happy, because she had to try on 3 different sizes to get the one that fit! She started with the size she got last time and worked her way down from there. She was thrilled! Me too!
I guess all of that organic food *is really making a difference*!!
Well, that is my sporadic update for now....
Blessings!
-Jacque
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Friday, April 6, 2007 - Hi |
| Posted by UnlikelyHomesteader |
Glad to hear that you're doing well and feeling well. Can't wait to hear all about the newest little Dixon when the time comes. :o)
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Friday, April 6, 2007 - Midwife |
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| I came across your blog today and thought it was very interesting. I too homeschool (this is our 3rd year) and absolutely love it. We have 2 children (8 and 5) and we're contemplating a third. I'm really considering a midwife and a birthing center instead of a hospital this time. How have your experiences been? I'd like to get someone else's take on it who's actually had a midwife. Thank you! |
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Tuesday, April 3, 2007 - No Baby Yet...
Am I almost due? Really?
No, I *have* been having contractions frequently, even the ones that yo just knpw are *doing something*. It's just not time yet and not enough!
I have 4 days left, so I am not overanxious, anyway. It could even be a couple more weeks, we all know!
I have felt pressing, tingling and tightening, and I am anxious to see this new little one ... and see who is right on whether it *really* is a sister or brother!
We will know soon enough, though. I know it is getting closer, because I am so tired now in the middle of the day, I have to take a nap or at least sit and rest a bit.
Of course, I have been... where else?... in the barn! We got a new little buckling last night, and he misses Momma. Our snotty Moms don't want to accept him (or their own kids most of the time!), so he needs special attention.
Speaking of which, I am going to go give him one more check-on and then head to bed... I need my rest... it could happen anytime.
We'll keep you posted!!
Blessings!
-Jacque
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Tuesday, April 3, 2007 - Oh, how very exciting... |
| Posted by mominpa |
Wishing you a safe and 'enjoyable" delivery of this little one!!
I have learned so much from you about pregnancy in this blog and your hs blog...thanks for sharing such wisdom!
Can't wait to hear your good news!! |
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Tuesday, April 3, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Kitty |
That is great, great that it is almost over and great that the bee bee is almost here. Anyway you look at it, it's great lol. I hope you have a safe and quick delivery.
Kitty |
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Tuesday, April 3, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Abiga51 |
| Praying for a happy, healthy delivery. Blessings. |
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Wednesday, April 4, 2007 - Blessings |
| Posted by lerdman4 |
Blessings to you as you wait and labor for your little one.. I can't wait to here the news.. best wishes..
Lisa |
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Wednesday, April 4, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Anonymous |
Hi, This is babymakers.
I just wanted you to know that if you are ready and want to make yourself go into labor I can help you. There is the good old castor oil. If that doesn't work and YOU KNOW YOU ARE READY get ahold of me and I will tell you an herbal secret. I can't post it here because there have been women that have used it to abort their babies at home because it works so well. |
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Thursday, April 5, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Anonymous |
Hey, thanks for checking out both of my blogs!
Isn't it fun to get comments!?!
I'm holding you up in my prayers.
Keep me posted on how you are doing!
Your friend,
Candy |
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Thursday, April 5, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by CandyFoote |
Hmm, I guess I should have logged in first! ;D
Candy |
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Thursday, April 5, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by CandyFoote |
HI, it's me again!
I thought that I would answer your question over here on your blog.
The kids had spent the last few weeks running to the barn every chance they got in order to check on our soon to be mama pig. Talk about excitement when they started to come! Everyone was very upset at the outcome!
A mama pig could deliver a dozen babies and have
it all over with within 5 - 6 hours!
So, when she delivered 2 dead babies 36 hours after the live ones, it was too late to help her. She was too full of infection at that point.
One of the sad facts of farming! It certainly isn't a easy life, but oh, it can be so fulfilling!
Think of ya,
Candy |
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Friday, April 6, 2007 - Excited |
| Posted by Chas |
I am so excited for when you tell us he/she is here!! I keep checking your blog every day to see if there has been an update and the angel is here. Praying you have a great delivery and a beautiful baby SOON!!
Blessings,
Chas |
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Monday, March 26, 2007 - Ready to Birth Yet??? Hmm...
So, I am at the point now where I feel like my water could break and I could go into labor anytime. My contractions have changed as I said this past week. Of course, I also know that I could go over 2 weeks like I have a few other times. The other thing we were loking at is my father-in-law's bday is the 30th. That's a week before my due date, but as my friend Misty says, due dates don't mean much; when it's time it's time.
And then yesterday, Matt and Amanda and Jocelyn went to my grandparents and picked up the fold-out couch they asked if we wanted, so we were trying to figure out where to put it. Jocelyn pipes in with, "Well, the buffet should be where the bookshelves are in there." Then we discuss the large cabinet the 'could' go into the kitchen, and I ask if they are ready to move furniture around, and they agreed they would. But, we didn't do it yet.
Then I went down to the barn and started looking at all I needed to finish that we didn't do after we got the stalls done 3 weeks ago. I have a gate to fix the hinges on, a gate to build and Jocelyn really needs a new split stall door for the goats. The hinge broke off of the top one. We *really* need to rebuild the 2 large doors in the bottom so that we can latch them together. They are also really worn around the edges, so we need new ones, anyway. I opened them today and the air circulation was wonderful through the horse stalls, and they also let in more light. to leave them open, though, would mean we need a moveable gate to keep out the goats ands kids. The opening is about 9ft. wide.
Ok, so I told you all of this just to say... I am *not* ready yet to have the baby!! I have too much to do!
I am trying to balance between resting too much and doing too much, because I have had swelling in my left ankle the past 2 nights. I haven't exactly been idle, but I haven't been doing as much as I was before. Mainly due to the frequency and manner of my contractions for the past week.
I guess we'll see what I get done.
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Monday, March 26, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by countrydreamn |
Praying that you find that balance between resting and doing to much. Why is that when we get to the end we try to do everything all at once. Hang in there, keep those feet up and that little one will be here really soon.
Blessings,
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Wednesday, March 28, 2007 - Nesting |
| Posted by countryheart |
| I know how much you want for everything to be just right. Try to enjoy the last few days of your pregnancy and we will be praying for you. I check everyday for some news so try to have your girls keep us posted when the little one arrives. I know how excited you are. Enjoy this miracle that God let us experience. Love, Tina |
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Friday, March 30, 2007 - Thank-you |
| Posted by countryheart |
| Thank-you for visiting my blog.I hope I can be an encouragement to those who drop by. I just know how much I love reading yours and all those who have so much wisdom to share with me. Keep up the good work. You bless me everyday! I am about 4 hours away from Jenig. I haven't met her yet though. That would be a hoot! I hope your still feeling good. Try to rest some. Love, Tina |
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Friday, March 30, 2007 - Excited |
| Posted by Chas |
I am excited to hear of your newest little one!! God bless you and the delivery of your little one!!
Blessings
Chas |
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Thursday, March 22, 2007 - Home Visit - Midwife Appointments
Wow... I can post something!!
I tried on Sunday, and I couldn't. I can't believe it's been since the 8th that I blogged here...
Here is info from my Home Visit on the 9th...
I can't believe it's already been over a week since I had my 36wk. home visit. 36weeks? Can you believe it? I can't. It has truly flown by.
L said I was measuring right-on at 36weeks. My bp is *very* good... low.
We discussed my preferences at the birth. And insurance.. which I don't think is going to cover the birth... go figure. "We have the wrong plan."
And, then on Thursday, the 15th...
Then, this past Thursday, I met up with the On-Call MW - in Goshen. I had to do that, since L will be out-of-town for *several* days before my due date. I liked her. She reminded me of my aunt. She was very personable, organized and happy.
Again, I measured right-on at 37 weeks; my bp was something like 115/55; and everything went well.
We stopped in Mishawaka to see my Grandparents. We had a nice visit. My only regret is that *all* of our children weren't along to visit.
Yes, and now, 3 weeks in advance, is the time for me to reinstitute a specified schedule, so I won't have to direct traffic or feel out-of-control when Baby *does* come. Things like: When to go to the barn in the am, afternoon and pm; Who does what when; and a checklist of chores. Yes, things have been getting done around here, but not when they should - just because of all the 'extra' work we have had for 2 months with the new animals....
In other, more dreadful news, Amanda had a concussion this past week. Funny story, bad results, but God did protect her. Amen.
And, other more dreadful news... at least from *my* perspective... Jocelyn dropped my phone into the horse's water bucket. Long story short, I had to get a totally new phone. I am happy to report that, though I didn't at first (b/c I *hate* change), I do like this phone almost as much as my previous one.
We also got a much-wanted laptop this week. YAY! No more being tied to the pc desk. I can work on school, reports, IN, blogging, etc. from wherever our children are. Thanks to Paulie, who found us what we needed.... and it was on sale!
Sunday, the 18th...
I made my last long trip for awhile on Sunday. We went to Indy and met up with Dad and Debbie. We went to Ruby Tuesday and had a nice lunch. Dad had caught about 75# of fish and froze it in a cooler, so we were so thankful for that!!! They also gave Hannah her belated bd gift. Belated since December. lol... Her best gift was a bike! She has needed one and will put it to good use!!
We took the 2 pups, and they did great! -Much better than last week on grocery day, when one of them had an accident... what a mess... I was so-o glad they did well today.
Presently...
I did have several "working" contractions on Sunday. I can tell they are getting 'real', and, though it may last another 2-3 weeks or more, I know I am at the 2 1/2 week mark now.
I have been having more and different feelings over the past few days, and I can tell my body is getting ready. I have also been very fatigued... in a different way too.
I have most of my birth kit ready.
We have picked out receiving blankets, 3 boy outfits & 3 girl ones and infant hats. We have towels, the thermometer, trash bags, the heating pad and other items in a tub.
We have bought small disposable diapers, washcloths, and the drop cloth. we have the portable cot set up in the living room, double-made with the vinyl pad in-between.
I have my grocery list made out for Matt to run to the store for snacks, etc. I think would get eaten before!
So, we are waiting. Patiently. We know it could be hours or weeks at this point, and there is no point in getting all anxious about it. You learn that after a few pregnancies, and they get sweeter each time, anticipating meeting the Baby, knowing God is in control and focusing on what can be done while we wait. You never know if this will be your last and you will waste the time being pregnant complaining about it, and not have the joy of feeling baby move inside your belly or waiting for the birth again.
Be Blessed this week!
-Jacque
p.s. - Today is Paulie's Birthday... Go on over and wish him a great day....
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Monday, March 5, 2007 - My 2nd Midwife Appt.
I had my 2nd mw appt. last week, and I haven't had time to post about it, then I forgot!
So, we got ready to go, and wouldn't you know it... Isaac fell in the mud on his way to van! It took about 10m or so to change him and get him ready to go, so we were running late, of course. Jocelyn, Rachel and Eric were staying home, because we weren' sure if Chloe was going to go into labor or not.
After calling the mw, L, and letting her know we were running late, I looked at the gas gauge and, of course, it's on the red line at EMPTY. Un-huh, go figure! I had already started driving to the highway, instead of through town, so we stopped and I had Amanda pour the gas from the handy-dandy gas can in the back of the van into the van. Ok, here we go to the gas station. Got gas, something to drink and we were on our way for our 1H drive.
We made it there safely and Isaac3 and Caleb 22m had fallen asleep. I was glad, b/c I am sure Isaac was going to be hungry, and it would go quicker if I went in and they stayed in the van. Amanda stayed with them, and I took Hannah in with me. What a treat for her!
My bp was low, of course... something like 115/50. She asked me about my thyroid, which I have never had trouble with - to my knowledge. I did tell her that my Mom just got treatment for her thyroid and is feeling healthier than ever and has lost quite a bit of weight. Um, I already knew my weight - *no, I am not posting it here*!! ( ; She measured me and put my mind to rest after last time. She had said that I was small for what my due date was supposed to be last time. This time, I was right on. Good.
We only had about 20 min. before her next appt. came. She felt bad, because I drove so far, but it was really ok. I got to know her a bit better, and I was glad for that.
Amanda drove home. She is doing very good. I would rather just drive myself, you know... but I love sharing this experience with her. It has been a good thing for me. I hope it has been for her!!
My next mw appt. is a home visit. She will be coming next Friday. My frmr. mw, R, was going to try to come, but I don't think she can come then. L is going to be gone for about a week+ around my due date, and she has another mw to cover, but I think she is going to let R be her back-up for me. I think she is going to leave it up to me. I think it would be great! I already know R and feel comfortable with her. She is only 20m away, instead of an hour, and I am glad for that. We'll see how it goes. I do feel comfortable with L now, though, since seeing her twice and speaking with her on the phone a couple of times.
After all the trouble with the goat's kidding, I am looking forward to a blessed, calm and wonderful birthing experience!!!
Here's a funny - L told me that when she called the other day and I couldn't talk, she said she has never called a client and not been able to talk to her because *she was busy with a birth*. She thought it was funny. Me too.
Here's another: I got a comment from Lindafay on hsb1:
I'm trying to picture in this mind a pregnant mama trying to pull a goat out of its mama. :- ) (I read Jocelyn's post) I hope you are feeling well. Only a little longer to go. You must be very ready. Blessings, lindafay Cute! I thought several times while I was down there in the barn, with both does, birthing, holding, etc. about my big belly that kept getting in the way! What a picture. She's *very* funny!
Well, be blessed!
-Jacque
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Monday, March 5, 2007 - Awww... |
| Posted by Anonymous |
I am so jealous! I loved being pregnant and I am for some reason excitedly waiting for you to have yours. I've been considering a thyroid evaluation as I know that can cause fertility problems... but haven't called the doctor as of yet. I hate going to doctors and even if I just want a simple blood test, dh says... you KNOW they are going to want to do all the other crap as well. UGH.... I hate being poked and prodded! Well, rest up! Enjoy the last bit of pregnancy!
Warmly, ~Melissa
mulberrylane
(my dd is signed in right now, so I didn't want to log her out as she is wanting to post on her lambs that were just born!)
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Monday, March 5, 2007 - More Pregnancy Stuff - Swelling
Recently, due to standing a lot, I guess, I have had swelling in the bottom of my (mostly left) foot. My ankles have been swollen only a few times, and I just put them up.
I read about the swelling in my feet which is acually healthy if your bp doesn't go up. It indicates your body's blood supply preparing for baby's labor and birth. It is*not*healthy if it is your upper body that is swollen, that could indicate Toxemia. I am not worried about that, because I take plenty of Magnesium, which, as a deficiency, has shown to be the primary cause of toxemia.
Here are some things I came up with as possible problems of swelling:
*I need more protein. So, I upped my protein intake. Though, in checking my urine at the mw, there was no indication of a problem, we have changed our diet in that area. *I need more exercise in my legs. I really don't know how much more of a workout I can give these old legs that I have been getting lately, to be honest. Up and down to the barn, bending, stretching, and up and down stairs is a lot of exercise, don't you think? * I need more Vitamin C. No problen there. I know I need more. I have been taking 2500mg at least 2x/day. They are time-released, because C is something your body will just dump and not store if you take too much. So, I actually am taking 500mg each hour for 5 hours, 2x a day. I read that the swelling may be due to Baby is being carried low and pressing on blood vessels... THAT would be me. *I have made sure I am taking my iron 2x a day. ok, that wasn't in there, but I suppose that I need to keep that in check, since the swelling more than likely has to do with my blood flow!* Take alfalfa.They suggested taking it with comfrey. I have already posted about the comfrey. It is controversial about whether to take it during pregnancy, so I don't. I do take alfalfa and chlorophyll. I try to take the chloro everyday, but I have forgotten lately. (Note to self: appoint one of my children to make it at a certain time each day, so I know it will get done!) LOL!!
The first time the instep on my left foot swelled to a noticeable size that I felt when I walked on it, I ate more protein, took a mega-dose of C's, and it went down about an hour later.
So, there you go. I have been so busy lately, that I haven't had time to notice what exactly is helping with swelling! I haven't had time to put my feet up, but I do try to sit and do that when I can.
I don't know if this is useful info for anyone, but I got quite a few responses to the past nutritional posts, so I thought I would go a head and do a separate post on this.
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Wednesday, March 14, 2007 - preganancy swelling |
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just found your blog. This was helpful ~ I am pregnant with #7 - right at the same point you are, except I will be having a c-section :-( in 2 wks & 2 days :-)
I have been experiencing swelling (interestingly enough - my left ankle/foot is affected worse than my right, too) I also have upped my vit C, calcium & mag, added a propriety blend for kidneys, but haven't increased my protein - I will try that; the other hasn't really been helping all that much - certainly not seeing results in an hour! They mostly go down during the night & gradually puff up throughout the day. Couldn't be all the extra work that I'm trying to get done before Baby arrives ;-)
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Wednesday, January 24, 2007 - First Midwife Appointment
After being up until 2am+ on Monday night, we got up and went to my 1st mw appt. yesterday. I had good intentions of getting up by 8am, but I don't think I actually got up until 9:15. Needless to say, I really needed my rest. I needed more rest.
We left by 10 and headed to Goshen, an hour away, all 7 children, the pup and I. I had grabbed plenty of water, cups and snacks, but nothing for Caleb, 7ds18m, so I had to stop at Dollar General on the way and grab something he could actually chew without choking on. I had gotten travel info from Mapquest the night before and had my paperwork all ready, but it seems no matter how prepared you are, you're never prepared enough.
So, the meeting went well. We discussed all the usual stuff. She said she couldn't believe I was 37 and had little or no history of health problems myself or in my family history. I thought that strange. I told her my MGrandmother had had cancer, and Matt's sister had had juvenile diabetes. She couldn't believe there was no heart disease; and she questioned me on mental illness??? She doesn't know me well enough for her to suspect anything like that! I didn't mention that my PGreat-Grandmother lived to 102 and my PGrandparents were still living in their late 80s. Matt's MGrandma is also alive, and his PGrandfather, both in their late 80's.
I forgot that my Mother was just diagnosed with something about her thyroid. No matter, as I believe diet and exercise should be in check first before a diagnosis of anything like that should be made. Yes, Mom is taking their Rx, but, she has lost weight and is feeling great due to her dietary changes, more than likely. And, I ran into an old acquaintance at the market the other day who told me they had to take her 70+yo Mother off of most of her Rx over the past 5 years, as the side efects from all her "necessary" meds were just getting worse... thyroid meds and Lipitor (especially). If you are on Lipitor... GET OFF OF IT!! Change your diet! It can cause dimentia - bad - like alzheimer's.
Ok, back to the mw... Um, she said I looked pale. I always look pale. She asked if I have problems with anemia when I am pregnant. I have anemia when I'm not, but I can keep it good with iron, vitamins and food. I have olive skin, and I don't ever look rosey-cheeked, unless I am sunburnt or have too much blush on! So, of course, I had been really good taking my supplements for the past 3 weeks until the past 2 days! I told her I would take an iron test if it would make her feel better, but it wouldn't make me remember to take them. I just need more sleep so I can remember things like that!
She also said she needed some documentation of my blood type. I told her my blood type. Now, after 7 pregnancies/births, I would know if I am going to need Rhogam. I don't. I'm sure of it. I'm also sure of my blood type. I think I have it documented on something; I just need to check. She seemed concerned about getting that checked for some reason.
And, sugar diabetes... hmmmmmmm.... no, I don't need this test, either.... really, I eat rather well. I have not gained a bunch of weight, I have no other symptoms of problems, and I have never had a baby over 8-14. He was only that large b/c I was on bedrest for the last 5 months of the pregnancy and couldn't exercise! So, onto measuring me...
I told her baby is active and moving fine. Heartbeat sounded good. My BP was l-o-o-w, as usual... I think it was the lowest it has ever been. I think she said 100 over 50, but that sounds odd, so I'm not sure. She said I measured a 1-2 centimeters smaller than my due date. So, no gest. diabetes for me, as I am smaller rather than larger, huh! I guess I am measuring smaller, b/c I think the baby has pretty-much dropped already. Last week, as I hit the bottom steps, I made a remark to the older girls that I couldn't believe how huge I was. Then a few days ago, I thought I looked so much smaller.
Not to worry, my babies are usually really low the entire last trimester. It can be a true pain, but I have been ok so far -though I am just in my 7th month. In the last month is usually when I think the Babe must be ready to come anyday, b/c I can feel him on the pelvic floor the whole month.
With 5dd7, I had dilated to 2 when I was 8m along, and the Dr. was sure I would go anytime. We broke her waters the day after her due date. So, I usually go the full length, regardless of Baby dropping or dilation.
I know, I'm one of those patients you either love or hate. I know a lot about my 'medical condition', a lot about health and being healthy -and about things like nutrition and pesticides, food we are told is good when it's really bad for you, we don't do antibiotics and Rx - hardly at all.... like I said, love me or hate me.
So, I'm not sure what she thought, but I guess I'll see at my next appointment, when I meet her associate. I need to meet her, in case L can't be at my birth. I wasn't too happy to find out that she will be gone 6/8 days before my due date, but I may not need her then anyway. Besides, R, my former mw, will be only 20m away, and I'm pretty sure she will be assisting.
So, God has plans, and I am not worried, as I hope to just follow them. It will be fine!
Oh, and after all that traveling... we then rested for 2 whole hours before Matt got off and we drove to Lafayette to meet Paul and Gena Suarez... We were exhausted, but we really wanted to hear them and meet them. We also got to meet Sharra Badgley. It was great, though we didn't get home until midnight.
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Sunday, January 21, 2007 - Tanning beds, Birth Complications and Blood Acidity~Alkalinity
I ran across this article online as I searched for some info for Amanda on tanning beds and whether they are safe or not. Ok, for the most part, we found out they are not. She has some skin problems, and since she cannot be in the sun right now (without freezing), we thought we would check into it.
So, to the article I found - it really makes me mad. Of course, The only reason I already knew this information is because I had a midwife for 6ds3 for our homebirth. The article is entitled, Premature Clamping of the Umbilical Cord may Result in Brain Damage to Newborns.
Did you know that the Dr. - or whoever delivers your baby - should wait until the cord stops pulsing to clamp it?
Ok, well, from what this article says, physicians, etc. are taught to clamp it immediately so that they can get the precious cord blood.
Disgusting!
It's not getting the cord blood that is disgusting to me, but ignoring the fact that this can severly asphyxiate the baby!!
And, what happens to a baby who is asphyxiated? Some form of brain damage, obviously...
ACOG (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists) recommends
and teaches immediate amputation of the placenta at birth
to obtain cord blood studies for medico-legal documentation;
the results have no bearing on child care. B138 was first
published in 1993. Every cesarean section baby, every depressed
child, every premie, and every child born with a neonatal
team in the delivery room has its cord clamped immediately
to facilitate the panicked rush to the resuscitation table.
The current epidemic of immediate cord clamping coincides
with an epidemic of autism.
That was not even the most disturbing thing I read. The most disturbing thing I read is that we have had the knowledge of when and how to cut the cord for over 2 centuries - that's 200 years!
"Another
thing very injurious to the child, is the tying and cutting
of the navel string too soon; which should always be left
till the child has not only repeatedly breathed but till
all pulsation in the cord ceases. As otherwise the child
is much weaker than it ought to be, a portion of the blood
being left in the placenta, which ought to have been in
the child."
--Erasmus
Darwin, Zoonomia, 1801 [3]
Regarding cutting
a cord that is around the neck:
"Let the
loop be loosened to enable it to be cast off over the head
... [or] by slipping it down over the shoulders. ...
If this seems impossible, it should be left alone; and in
the great majority of cases, it will not prevent the birth
from taking place, after which the cord may be cast off.
... Should the child be detained by the tightness of
the cord, as does rarely happen, ... the funis may be
cut. ...
" Under
such a necessity as this, a due respect for one’s own
reputation should induce him to explain, to the bystanders,
the reasons which rendered so considerable a departure from
the ordinary practice so indispensable. I have known an
accoucheur’s capability called harshly into question
upon this very point of practice. I have never felt it necessary
to do it but once. ... The cord should not be cut until
the pulsations have ceased."
--Charles
D Meigs, M.D., 1842 [8]
One hundred and
fifty years ago, ICC (Immediate Cord Clamping) was regarded as malpractice. No publication
since has contradicted Professor Meigs or Erasmus Darwin.
You will need to read the article yourself to get all the degrees and explanations, but it was worth reading. Just another thing we are brainwashed by modern society and modern medicine to believe that is harming our families and our children. Why can't we just do it as God says?
It goes on to give a brief bit of info on legalities and how the ACOG sidesteps responsibility, etc... no surprise. I gave up on totally trusting people in a position of authority, i.e.: doctors, years ago. I know not all doctors are that way, but even the best ones have to worry about legalities and such. I have always tried to do my research on, well, I guess, everything, so that I will sound like I do know what I'm talking about and then I get more honest and open answers.
All I can say is that we have to understand God and that He designed our bodies and how and why. We also must be watchful of the world's ways, because it seems that one moment there is a new drug or cure that will revolutionize life as we know it, then they discover yet another side effect that may be worse than the original affliction - or the remedy will kill you anyway.
In addition to researching about the tanning, we were on the Above Rubies site. We have always tried to be more natural, and they have a lot of good info in their free issues. They also have a page of Recipes for Health. I was most interested in GUIDELINES
FOR OPTIMUM HEALTH FOR YOUR FAMILY - by
Nancy Campbell.
Rachel posted information on what we have found out about our blood being acidic or alkaline. My dad had a bad case of gout last summer, due to his blood being too acidic. He is now trying to change his diet so he can live. God gave use guidelines for what to eat. He should know, because He designed our bodies. When we eat properly, for the most part, we have optimum health.
Time to get out the' ole B-I-B-L-E and read about Our Creator and how much He loves us and what He says!
Be blessed!
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Monday, January 22, 2007 - Untitled Comment |
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interesting about the cord blood. I wanted to let it stop pumping in all my pregnancies, but since we were at a hospital for the first, they deemed my son "an emergancy" and whisked him away for all sorts of stuff I am not totally convinced was necessary (my third had the same kind of problem at birth, and my midwife just waited a bit - cleared up adn no NICU). my other two, we waited.
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Wednesday, January 10, 2007 - I Think I Found My Midwife...
I finally got a hold of R, the midwife who delivered our last 2 children. She had moved to Tennessee, and is now back in the area. Unfortunately, she is no longer primary on Home Births, just assisting. She did, however, give me the name and number of a CNM who I think will work out well. The only difference is that she is located an hour from here, instead of 25 minutes. But, I am hoping my previous m/w will assist, and she is the 25m away.
R told me that a home birth with L will be just about the same as she did ours. L also delivered her daughter's last baby, and she has known her for quite awhile.
I called L last night, and she will be sending me some information, and I will be scheduling an appointment when she gets back to town next week. It is quite a relief to have found someone known by people I know and whose opinions I trust. A close friend said she will also be using L for her next birth; she is due in August.
I was happy to hear that L will come to my home for 2 post-natal visits, including to do the pku. R didn't want to come to our home for the pku last time, and I just didn't want to take Caleb anywhere yet, so young. Matt talked to her, and she did end up coming, so it worked out. That is just how we prefer to do things for our babies now, so I am thrilled that L already has it set up that way.
I am glad I waited to find a mw until now, as it has worked out so well. I probably would not have called her, had R not suggested her and been able to assist. God knows the plans before we do, hallelujah! Now, He can show us how we will pay for this! ( ; That is the only drawback to waiting to find a mw - we haven't been setting aside $ into a fund as we should have been! So, as God is faithful, I know He will show us this too.
I can breathe a sigh of relief now. I just realized the other day - on the 7th - that I only have 3 months to go. Wow. . . . Did I say wow? L said to me last night, apparently looking at her little chart-EDD thing, that I am about 28 weeks. Yes, that means about 12 weeks to go. I have been focusing so much on staying healthy and keeping my weight down, homeschool, high school courses and goats kidding in Feb. and March, that the time is just flying by.
- Oh, and also 1dd17 and 2dd15 constantly, bringing before me the question of going to Coie's Barn Dance/ Civil War/ Pride and Predjudice Birthday Bash! Did I mention constantly? Yeah, go to Tennessee, save for the Home Birth..... hmm....
I even asked 1dd if she would rather have the 2 broke filly yearlings we found in the paper for $450 each or go to TN, and of course, she would rather go to TN. Been looking for a horse for her for a year or so, and now she has other plans! ( ;
(I hope they can go, too)
Be Blessed!
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Friday, January 12, 2007 - midwife |
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I am loking for a midwife for a homebirth near Vincennes In. Any suggestions would help. Thanks, Tammy
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Saturday, December 16, 2006 - Midwife Info and Update
Ok, so I just got an email from a dear friend of mine with a list of 4 names of IN midwives her m/w recommended. Yay! I was happy to get it.
The first 3 midwives are about 45- 90 minutes away, and I had hoped to find one closer.
Wanna hear the surprise ending? My midwife's name was at the end of the list! They weren't sure she is going to be practicing, but we will see if this is who God has for us.
It is just amazing to me that she is back at the same place as before, since she moved all the way to Tennessee. I guess I will find out if she is still delivering or not. I just loved her, and for now, it seems like a wonderful answer, so we'll see how it works out.
Misty did point out to me that the first 3 are CNMs, which must be the only legal midwife status in IN... I had checked all of that out several months ago, but I can't remember now if RNs are legal or not.
It is safer for us to have a practicing m/w present, so Matt is the one who 'delivers' - actually, he does, because he 'catches'- and our m/w is just 'assisting' our birth. I don't understand how it is legal for us to do it ourselves, but not with a m/w who is either a practicing, experienced birthing m/w or an RN, but, you know, if those opposing home births can't get their hands on our money, well, 'they ain't happy', I guess.
I won't debate the safety issues of homebirths (so let's not make this a forum for that, ok!) , as I did a lot of research, and I know that the percentage of deaths or complications in hospital births are much higher than those in homebirths.
Anyway, I have received comments and emails on my previous post, Still Looking For a Midwife and Baby Moments , so I just thought I would update you.
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Thursday, December 14, 2006 - Still Looking For a Midwife and Baby Moments
This is not a classified, really...
But, we are still looking for a midwife. I have a good friend who has delivered at home, and she is getting me a few names. I also called another Mom I know a bit, and she is going to stop in at her neighbor's, who has used a local midwife. We are about 24 weeks along, and I hope we can find someone we click with pretty soon.
Our midwife who helped deliver Isaac and Caleb moved - of all places - to Tennessee! I found that out before we were expecting again, but not much before.
We really loved the midwife we had because she did not practice "office medicine". She was about letting the body work naturally and using natural herbs and such that will help your body without drugs and tests. She knew a lot about birth, because she was a nurse (I think an RN) and she had helped deliver so many babies, including several sets of twins, at home. She was gentle and made us feel comfortable with the whole process, even when I went to her at 7 months pregnant with our 6th for our first home birth. It was wonderful.
I don't really have problems with my birthing, so it wasn't necessary to use the drugs or do all the tests, anyway.
However, now, here we are again, looking for someone else. I hated it before, and I hate it now. After we had delivered Hannah, our 5th, in the hospital naturally, the Dr. I really liked had retired to be the hospital administrator, so we had to search and search for a Dr. with Isaac. When he delivered Hannah, he had basically told the nurses to let me do what I wanted (no IV, etc..) so it wasn't so "managed" by the hospital.
Considering everything midwives in Indiana are going through, I hope it isn't too hard to find one. We have to keep trusting that the Lord already has that plan taken care of, and He will show us who He has for us.
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I actually got to scrapbook the other night: good news; bad news is that I am still working on Caleb's birth! I'm only, what? almost EXACTLY 18 months behind... give me a few days! It has been over a year probably since I have even hd time to look at my stuff. No, it just was really wonderful to re-live all of the moments of that day. It makes me look forward to the next birth and how I want to do things the same or different.
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I told Matt and the girls that the Babe will probably be born around 11pm. That is when movement picked up last week. Of course, not it has been around 6 or 8 pm (and 11) for the past few days. Matt asked if I meant 11am or pm. I said pm. I'm not sure if he wants to make sure to get in a good night's sleep before the birth or after, so he can go to work the next day! HA HA! you never know...
I remember when Amanda was born (ok, that was 17 years ago and some things have changed...) anyway, when Amanda -or maybe it was Jocelyn, 15 years ago -was born, it was at 5 pm (or 8pm), and Matt missed the first of a double-header softball game, so after we had her and I was resting, he asked if I minded if he went to the last one, which was later.... How do you answer a question like that?!! another HA HA!
Well, I will say A LOT of things have changed as far as that goes, because we now have our babies at home with a midwife and Matt does a whole lot more than he did then. He has learned a lot in that area! I'm glad he has, and that he supports my desire to do it at home. It is so much nicer and less restrictive! I enjoy having our children involved in welcoming their new baby into our family.
Many blessings to You!
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Friday, December 15, 2006 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by Jonash2004 |
I'll be praying you find a midwife. :)
I love mine. We work well together; I was left alone to labor and she helped with delivery. It was wonderful having my son at home!
Of course a good friend of mine had her 2nd dd with her as well and I don't think she will go back. It bothered me some but I think my friend is constantly calling her FIL who is a doctor, and I think she will probably be more comfortable with a doctor, anyway.
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Friday, December 15, 2006 - midwife |
| Posted by Anonymous |
Hi Jacque!
I'm not sure if this will help or not. There is a woman named Kt Cook who is part of "Bright Lights" ministries (www.tomorrowsforefathers.com) and one of her daughters was studying to be a midwife in Indiana. Maybe you could contact her (EndlessGrace@cnonline.net) and see if her daughter could recommend anyone. Lovely Christian people. Hope this helps in some way.
Midwifery is illegal in Illinois. My husband and I went it alone for our 5th baby but ended up at the hospital and I had yet another c-section. This time (6th) we are just going the normal OB route with the doc who delivered Rebekah. He knows how we are and respects that. Him and I are developing a give-and-take relationship with this baby. After 5 c-sections and the fact that I will be 39, hubby felt going the OB route was the best bet.
Also, you mentioned that your dh played softball way back when. My husband loves baseball and used to play softball. Just curious, how has your dh's ball playing or watching evolved over the years?
Love in Christ,
Christine
P.S. I can't get to your menu planning, but possibly because I am inept at these things! Any suggestions? I'm making my grocery list now and was hoping for some more dinner suggestions. Thanks! |
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Saturday, December 16, 2006 - Checking up on ya |
| Posted by MissionaryMom |
I saw from your homeschoolblogger blog that you posted this here. I just wanted to check up on you. I hope you find a great midwife soon. I had my first midwife experience this time around - but in the hospital. I definitely find that they are more receptive to my demands, but still wasn't quite the experience that I wanted. I don't mind too much as I was able to have an epidural this time around - which was wonderful. Anyway...gotta go now.
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Saturday, October 28, 2006 - Baby Advice - or New Mommy Advice
OK, I am cheating. This post is originally from Seeking Rest1, but I never posted it here..
Let's see if, now that I am expecting, I agree with my advice...
This post is Baby Advice for the HSB Community Blog April Baby Shower
First things first, know that you are going to need some guidance! God created that Little One, and He is the One who will know him/her best, always. Always rely on Him and offer prayer to Him for them from the time you find out they are in your womb! Train them in His Word, so that they will know the difference as they grow!
Grandmas and Grandpas are a wonderful blessing, whether you have gotten along in the past or not!!! They will be who they want to be with Baby, and that relationship is very important in developing who your child will become. Leave it in God's hands.
You will need your sleep, even if you feel great, and especially if you breastfeed! Do NOT try to be SuperMom! Accept help graciously, if it fits the way your family functions. It also helps to freeze some meals ahead, even if you can only do a few.
Snuggle, Snuggle, Snuggle!! Baby, Hubby, and any sibs!
We always included our other children in the pregnancies. They loved the idea that they were going to have a new Babe to love. Our last 2, both boys, who are tandem nursing, are so close! They are 23m apart, and there has never been a jealousy issue. They are already Best Buds and play together.
Favorite baby products: I definitely use my backpack the most. It is an invaluable asset to my sanity. I always know Baby is safe and with me. I use it around the house, cooking, cleaning, teaching... I use it on walks, shopping, wherever. I even put him in it at church, and it worked well. They will learn not to pull hair (give them a toy to hold) Both my boys I have/am used it with are happy, content little babes. I really feel it has a lot to do with it. Before the backpack, I used the front carrier. I never did figure out how to wear the sling. I know some women use it fabulously. A friend of mine contends that it depends on your body structure and weight. I agree. We are looking into an Ergo, too, b/c we read they are top of the line, most comfortable (and I want one I can wear on my hip!). **Editing: I now have an Ergo, which I love even more than the backpack!
Scrapbooking for New Little One: We did a home birth, and took pictures of whatever we could. (If you want to know about home birth, email me!) I know you may not think you will want to do that, and that is fine, but I would say to take pictures that you are comfortable with, as many as you want. If you decide you don't want them in the Baby Album, pitch them. It will be better to take them and toss 'em than not have them! As we took pictures, I/whoever wrote down the time and what the pic was of. It helped me to remember why we took the picture and how many hours old he was. Getting a clock in the background is also something we tried to do with our girls, as they were hospital births. When it came time to put the pictures in order, it was such a breeze! I was so happy Imade notes for each, detailing clothing or others in photo! We also make up sign-in pages and Baby Gifts pages before we have the birth. Save everything you might put into an album, and you can throw away stuff you don't really want later. **Editing: I would add to make sure you also keep an accurate timeline of your pregnancy... You'll wish you did later!
Keep a first year calendar!! It may take few weeks to get used to, but it is worth being able to look back at those momentous steps!! My friend (yes, same as above!) keeps hers handy by the changing table, because Baby plays, coos, etc. there,and is safely snapped in while you can record events. If you forget for some time, just pick up where you left off... you will regret it if you don't!!
Remember--- an education is not all about books and facts -- As Baby grows, look for the God-given Teachable Moments that are in your everyday lives. Those will be the best-remembered and most cherished of all learning!
Ok, I still agree; now tell me what advice you have!
Wishing you Many Blessings!
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Sunday, October 29, 2006 - Untitled Comment |
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I found it extremely helpful to gather a list of friends and family who offered help during/after my pregnancy. My last few months saw me unable to get up and move about or get dinner done and having that list was great. Think of it as your sanity lifeline when you need something done you call up someone who can help. I was lucky to have a very large family who could come over and help when I needed. I included the list, along with what each person had done for me, in my baby book and when I had gotten back into my routine I "repaid" each of them with either a chore or a meal out or a small gift to say thank you.
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Thursday, September 21, 2006 - A Couple of Questions I Received... Breastfeeding While Pregnant and Cow's Milk
In expressing how tired I have been (mostly due to tandem nursing) to a friend, she asked me the following questions. I thought I would share the information with you.
Wow – I would be really tired if I were you!!
I nursed Z* as long as my body produced
milk, but I started to dry up when she was about 7-8 months old. So, we decided to try switching her to cow’s
milk to see if her stomach could handle it.
We did the same thing with M* and he was fine. Z* has never had
trouble with it either.
Does your milk
dry up also? I assumed every mother has
that happen when they have been pregnant for a certain length of time. I would like them to drink organic (no
hormones, from grain fed cows, etc.) milk, but it is soooo expensive at the grocery store. All together we drink about 3-4 gallons per
week. I have heard that there are no
farmers willing to sell their milk because of liability. What does your family drink as far as
milk?
I drink plenty of water, chlorophyll and take zinc to
make sure I have plenty of milk. Honestly, my milk doesn't dry up until the
babes are over 2. The only trouble I had was when I was adjusting to tandem
nursing and Caleb was 5 mos. old and Isaac was almost 2 1/2. I just ate some
flax seed and extra iron and zinc. It was back up in a couple of days. I learned
to nurse Caleb first!
We don't drink cow's milk, unless it is for something
like cookies, and that is rare. They eat cereal as a snack, so they don't need
milk for that. We usually have oatmeal with maple syrup and honey for breakfast
- or eggs and turkey bacon - or pancakes. We buy 1/2 gal - 1 gal every few
weeks. The children drink mostly water.
I know organic milk is really expensive, and raw milk
is hard to come by. When we start milking the goats, we hope to make cheese and
soap, etc, and we will be selling the milk. I don't know if we will drink much
of it, just because I try not to make milk a priority.
There are a lot of hormones in any milk today, and the
benefits are pretty much non-existent. As long as we eat plenty of raw or cooked
fruits and veggies - which we do, I don't worry about getting the artificial
vitamins they put into milk, anyway. We also don't cook too much with it. We
don't do white flour or white flour products or white sugar. Sometimes I will
break down and buy snacks, but we usually bake our own.
Last year, we baked all our own whole wheat/organic
flour bread, and we have slacked off a bit. (Dh would rather eat the fluffy
stuff from the store.) We are going to be picking back up on homemade bread and
tortillas, though, as we will have more inside time now.
I think I just need to take more iron. I was looking at a Pregnancy and birth
book I used for our home births, and it says I can take some massive amount of
iron, but knowing iron overdose is an easy thing to do, so I am stepping it up
slowly, to see how I feel. I take Shaklee Multi's and Iron, and I always take
extra iron when I am pregnant or nursing, so I think I will just need 1 more
tablet, anyway. I also need to take them more regularly.
Mostly, the weather has been giving me headaches. *Hopefully, with the heater on and the humidifier running, we can balance that out too, as I am not the only one with a sinus headache.
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Thursday, September 21, 2006 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by BackyardTreasures |
Hi,
Have you considered trying Spirulina to boost your iron supply? I've tandem nursed before and didn't have problems with my milk supply either. Now at age 47, I'm nursing my 9th child (he's 18 months) and I have more energy than ever. There's three supplements that I use daily that I wouldn't want to be without...they are Omega 3 oils, Spirulina and Amigo juice powder. These have really made a difference in my energy level, plus the hormonal benefits I get too are great too.
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Wednesday, September 27, 2006 - farmer's milk |
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For the mom who heard farmer's don't sell their milk on the side: check your state laws. Many states have laws that let you get around the "rules" about milk selling in certain circumstances. In my state, a person can sell their milk without pasturization, homogenization, inspections, etc. under these circumstances: if the milk is sold at the same location it is produced, if the farmer doesn't advertise, and if the consumer brings their own sterilized container to pick the milk up in.
It took me a while to find a source of raw milk (unpasturized, unhomogenized). I kept asking around, in the health food stores, at farmer's markets, on freecycle.org (within a posting for free stuff). I finally ran into someone who knew that a farmer dropped off raw milk at a chiropractor's office, and the price was a little lower than regular store milk...which is amazing, because all the other sources I'd found were an hour away and twice the price. Also check realmilk.com and rawmilk.org for more info. |
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Thursday, October 5, 2006 - Interesting |
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Hmmm. Not that I want to stop nursing my son any time soon, but I found this interesting. We drink raw milk from an Amish dairy and hour away when we can. Other than that milk isn't drank at our house. Every now and then dh has a glass, and I use it to "moisten" my cereal.
I want my own goats! We had goats when I was growing up, the cows. Goats milk doesn't have an unsualy flavor unless you let your goats eat anything and everything. Ours always ate alfalfa.
It's sad. We live in a small city. No goats allowed. If we were to move to a much larger city 30 mins away (which I really don't want to do it has more crime) I could have 6 chickens AND a goat!! :) |
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Friday, August 25, 2006 - Staying Healthy and Taking Supplements to Combat Fatigue in my 1st Trimester...
I was talking online to a Friend of mine last night, and she asked me how I am feeling and such.
Seeing as I am barely in my 8th week, I am in my usual 1st trimester tired state. It is partly due to my sleep habits, which need to change and part of it due to my age, I suppose. And, I guess, tandem nursing a 1 year old and a 3 year-old (barely) probably has something to do with it, too!
So, I am trying to cut back on caffeine - in the form of Dr. Pepper - and take my supplements daily. I was asked this question a few months back, and never finished the post I started, so I am going to list what I am doing at this time to keep myself - and babes - healthy:
1. I drink chlorophyll whenever I feel the need. 2. Supplements I take daily are: (Shaklee) Multi-Vitamin
Vitamin C
B-Complex
Vitamin E
Iron with C
Calcium
3. Sleep whenever I need it. 4. I learned how to read my body several years back, so I now "know" when I need something. 5. I will be getting some Red Raspberry to take. 6. Drink a lot of water. 7. Get some type of exercise regularly 8. I don't know why I always think of this last, but I am reading the Bible and growing closer to God, because this is the best thing to be done for everyone's well-being! 9. Delegate, delegate, delegate. Older, well-trained, God-fearing children are such a blessing to your homeschool. I truly appreciate my children.
I will try to get the information posted of the benefits of some of the vitamins and herbs, etc. I mentioned... like the Chlorophyll and Red Raspberry. They help in overall women's health, as well as pregnancy and birth.
Please pray with us as we are searching for a midwife. The last 2 home births we had were wonderful, but my midwife moved to Tennessee.... Indiana is cracking down on midwives and even prosecuting, so I am praying the Lord will lead us safely to His choice for our family. Thank you!
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Friday, July 14, 2006 - Cloth Diapers Have Worked Well For Us
Christine, the homeskoolmom, asked a question about using cloth diapers (without using a diaper service) because she has moved to the country from the city.
We have used cloth diapers with Isaac, 6ds3, and now with Caleb, 7ds1, since he was born.
Since we are solely using cloth diapers again for the second time, I thought I would post about our experience and link it for her, that way I can share it with everyone!
First of all, I made most of my diapers(and wipes), and I just made them as we needed them, so I can't give you an accurate number of how many we needed at which times. I made them with velcro, but I don't mind using pins. Once you get the hang of pins, they are really no big deal.
When the boys were newborns, I guess we made sure we had about 20 diapers in that size. That gave us a reasonable amount to have clean for the day, even when there were some to be washed. As they grew, I just made a batch of diapers as needed. I learned how to make them simple and quickly!
When I first started researching cloth diapers: how many we'd need; how EXPENSIVE they are to buy!; How to care for them; it really grossed me out to think that I would wash the diapers altogether in the water they had soaked in all day without rinsing every one of them separately.
We have tried a few different methods, and this is what has worked best for us:
We have always washed them everyday.
We used to soak the diapers, but that just meant they soaked in dirty water all day. Even when adding vinegar, it was bad. They soaked in the smell, and, while it didn't stink, it had 'that diaper smell'.
So, now, we put the diapers into a diaper pail, with a lid. We do not soak them. Since Caleb is a year old, we do have to empty the soiled diapers into the toilet, but we don't rinse them.
Here is our regiment:
- We put the diapers directly into the diaper pail after changing the baby. *We have a separate little plastic wastebasket for the rubber pants. They will really smell if you leave them in the pail all day with the diapers. Mostly, we re-use the rubber pants (when the diapers are just wet.)
- We wash the diapers every morning or evening, depending on the quantity for the day. The laundry rule is that the last load of laundry have to be emptied from the washer and dryer and the clothes put away by 9pm. this is 1dd16, SuperAngel, Amanda's responsibility for the time being. She is very capable and a great organizer, so handling the laundry suits her.
- We rinse them first, in warm water, with vinegar (and sometimes just a bit of laundry detergent). *I use Shaklee Laundry products, so you may have to adjust accordingly.
- Then, we launder them, as usual, except we do add baking soda( for the smell) and salt. *Don't ask me where I got this idea (about the salt), but it makes them brighter.
We use:
1/4 c. of Shaklee Powder
1/4 c. Baking Soda
1Tbsp. salt
Pre-rinse with about 1/2 c. of vinegar for a full load.
Add 1/2c. vinegar to the rinse, if you like.
- Then, we rinse in cold water. You may add vinegar, if you decide you need to.
- Extra rinse them, because they will be right on baby's bottom!
- Hang them to dry. We have a rack we use, but I like them off of the line better. If we are in a pinch and need a dry one right after laundering, we will put one into the dryer!
It surprises me, how it really doesn't bother me to make, wash and 'deal with' cloth diapers, instead of just using paper ones. I was just telling my Mother the other day that I really don't mind using cloth diapers. As a matter of fact, I told her that it isn't the 'hassle' it has always been made out to be. It is easier to me, and saves us money, even when considering the washing and such. I guess, if we trekked all over town, instead of staying home daily, that would make a difference.
We did use them with 1dd16, but stopped when she got a little older and we didn't desire home as much. I wish we had continued to use them.
Dh, Matt, is happy and appreciates that we are willing to use cloth diapers and save him money.
We don't go places much, but when we do, we just take along plastic baggies to put the diapers into, then put them ito the pail when we get home.
TIPS:
*Use diaper liners for extra absorbency
*Use cloth wipes, too.
*Use vinegar in the first rinse. It helps take away the ammonia smell.
*Do NOT use fabric softener. It makes them less-absorbent. Use vinegar in the last rinse instead!
*Line-dry them if possible. That makes them more absorbent, too.
*Use a separate container for the rubber pants.
*Do not dry the rubber pants in the dryer. Use a towel to dry them out or just line dry them.
* Wash diapers, liners, wipes and rubber pants together.
*When using pins, position your finger between the diaper and baby so you get stuck instead of baby! You probably already know this, but it is good information, anyway!
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| Posted by Anonymous |
we've used cloth diaps on our last 4 babies and do pretty much what you do. it really isn't the hassle people make it out to be!
thanks for the salt tip :) |
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Saturday, July 22, 2006 - Cloth diapering. |
| Posted by Margaret |
| I always did the cloth diapers with safety pins and rubber pants on my children, so it's great to see other moms still following that age old method. I think it just can't be beat, and it's what I still swear by today. |
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