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Monday, August 13, 2007
My House Is a WRECK! - Day 1

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This morning, I had an early appointment an hour away from home. Getting out of the house was made difficult because of the simple reason... it is Monday. The state of the house on Mondays, here, is frightening.

Now, we're going to spend a week cleaning our homes, together. We are not going to deep clean. That will come in another series of posts, perhaps.

But, by Friday, I promise your house will be a place you want to relax in.

The hardest part of having a clean house is getting there. But, once it is achieved, all that is required is maintenance.

The trick, this week and always, is to combine your unexpected and daily job needs with what you wish to accomplish today. And to do this, you absolutely must set realistic goals and create a loose schedule that is possible to achieve.

First, go back to your notebook that I asked you to keep. Refer to your listing of rooms. The first ones that you have grouped together will be today's goal.

On your next notebook page, you're going to write the day of the week on the first line. Below this, list the other tasks that you MUST face, today. For me, this included my doctor appointment, cleaning the dining room after each meal, washing dishes after each meal, several loads of laundry (including diapers), homeschooling, blanching/chopping/freezing 2 bushels of corn ears, canning 1/2 bushel of cucumber pickles, and paying bills my husband asked me to mail out, tomorrow.

Start each work day with NO sugar. It is my own personal experience that sugary breakfasts make you tired and lazy. We want you to feel energized and meet your goals for the day! Eat foods in as natural a state as possible.

And, no matter what happens, STAY busy after your work begins. Do not allow yourself to slow down until you're through. The moment you allow yourself to do so, your energy will plummet and your will to continue will crumble.

Most importantly, remember that any interruptions that occur are allowed by God. There may be blessing in them... for you or others. Don't let yourself feel frustrated or upset by them! Tasks have a way of waiting until you can get to them. Don't worry!

If your children are older, you can delegate some of your tasks. For me, I have a "dishwasher/kitchen keeper" in my 14 year old; a "dining room attendant" in my 17 year old and a "floater" (doing various jobs, as needed) in my 11 year old. This, right here, reduces my task load considerably.

If you have small children, keep them with you! There are always things you can assign for them to do alongside you. Your work might last longer, but you will be able to ensure that they do not wander and get into mischief. And, you'll be fostering wonderful memories of time with Mom, as well! All the time you spend, now, cleaning with your youngsters... will produce children who aren't afraid to work, later!

Turn your notebook page, yet again.

List:

MORNING

AFTERNOON

EVENING

... leaving ample space after each. Now, under each heading, plan out how you will tackle each necessary task. Order it accordingly.

For example, my schedule looks like this:

MORNING:
* Doctor's Appointment (because of the driving distance, my whole morning was shot into pieces. So my evening will be unusually busy!)

AFTERNOON:
* Home for lunch
* See husband off to work
* Naps for little ones/myself (during this time, the olders did their chores as listed above. 11 year old picked toys up in the living and middle rooms.)

EVENING:
* School the little ones (while 17 yo makes supper, and 14 yo washes/slices/soaks cucumbers)
* Supper (11 yo will set table)
* While children finish eating supper, pick up/vacuum/dust livingroom & change garbage, and sweep middle room.
* Tuck 2, 3, 5 and 6 year olds (while 14 year old does kitchen, 17 year old does dining and 11 year old folds laundry)
* School olders (Math & English)
* Boil brine and sterilize items for pickles. Can. (While 3 older children husk corn)
* Prepare/freeze corn
* Tuck olders in to bed for night & get baby off to sleep
* Do up bills for husband
* Quiet time with the Lord
* Rest until husband returns home from work, visit with him a short while, then go to sleep.

Normally, we would wash the dining room floor, today, also. But there is already so much squished into our evening, that this won't be possible. It is a job that will "keep" until tomorrow.

Before I crawl into bed, tonight, my three lower rooms will be completely tidied. I will be greeted, come morning, by a clean sight. Not one of chaos. And things will smell generally fresh. This definitely helps a person face a new day with renewed vigor!

If the rooms you have circled to do are so messy that you're not sure where to start, begin each room with an empty laundry basket and a garbage bag. Throw into it EVERYTHING you do not need. Be reckless. Get rid of those magazines that have just been lying around unread, pitch those newspapers and junk mail. And use the basket to throw EVERYTHING you want to keep, but which requires "travel" through the house to distribute to its proper location. As you move through your scheduled rooms for today, pull out these items and put them away where they go. Don't leave anything in that basket for tomorrow! If something goes into a room that is not on today's schedule, simply drop it off in the correct room.

When you go to sleep, tonight, your first rooms will be neat and tidy. If someone should show up unexpectedly, tomorrow morning, you can open your front door wide to them!

You might notice that we have not yet touched other rooms such as the bathrooms, the kitchen, etc...
This is so we can focus on the set needs of the day. As you travel through your house, you can superficially clean. For example, it would make me uncomfortable to have a sloppy bathroom. So, when I use the bathroom or change a diaper, I make sure that laundry has made it into the basket and things are relatively neat. It only takes a moment on my way out to do these things.

Just because we do not have a "focus" on the bathroom or kitchen, or any of the bedrooms or the computer room... doesn't mean it has to be a wreck. However, if one or more of your rooms are a disaster (and you cannot get to it at all, today!), rest assured that it will be tended soon! We're purposely working as we are so that the most "lived in" areas of the house -- and the ones seen first by visitors -- are alright.

I'll see you, tomorrow. We're going to get our houses in tip-top condition!


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Wednesday, August 15, 2007 - Hello....

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My name is Patty Lamb & I was wondering...will you be going through the entire home, room by room? If so, I'd like to save your entries & go through my home with you. Thanks....Blessings, Patty

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~From Carrie:
The plan was to "take you with me" on a week of cleaning, here at home. By Friday, your house would be in order alongside my own.

Unfortunately, we had some computer problems. I will post again, catching up, tomorrow.


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