FEARLESS TEMPLATE TINKERING
A Guide For the Faint of Heart
By Carrie Rella
$6.95/ebook
If I can learn how to create and tweak templates without any technical training or knowledge, you can too! It's fun and easy! I'll show you how! Includes lots of
online and periodical resources, HTML coding and other aid.
From My Family To Yours...
"FEEDING YOUR FAMILY ON LESS
How To Cut Your Grocery Bill By At Least Half
Without Sacrifice Or Discomfort"
By Carrie Rella
$5/ebook
Learn how I am able to keep costs down for feeding our family of ten to under $150 bi-weekly. It's easy! Includes several helpful printables for your own personal use.
On Our Menu...
Sunday's Meals
Breakfast: Doughnuts, milk, cranberry juice
Lunch: Baked chicken breasts, rice, green beans, iced water
Supper:Popcorn, apple and orange slices, salad, iced water
Monday's Meals
Breakfast:Fresh, warm blueberry muffins, milk
Lunch:Cheesy rice, iced water Supper:Baked ham, baked potatoes, corn, iced water
Remember! You can eat well on a small budget! Your family's health is worth it!
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If you have any experience with miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death and would like to share your story with others, please contact me. I am looking for contributions
for a (publisher printed) book I'm working on. I will be happy to send you the outline if you're not sure your experience would be a "fit". Thank you in advance!
It feel like "just any day". A day like all the rest.
Sibling squabbles. Messy rooms surrounding me. Laundry piles growing. Food to be cooked and served. Dirty diapers to change.
Yes, today is just a day like any other.
My voice rises and the stress increases within me.
Surely one day these "pressure points" will cause some sort of heart attack.
It cannot be good for my high blood pressure! Why can I not quit reacting!?
Why don't these children learn!?
There's too many of them, and too few of me.
They deserve so much more! So much better!
I am not the mother they should have. I'm hardly any better than some of the careless women I've observed while out and about, scolding their children... exasperated... obviously lacking enjoyment of them...
How am I any different?
How are my children any better off than other children who might be carted off to daycare every day with relief? How are my children any better off than others who are sent outside to play so Mom can watch a favorite TV show in peace?
Doesn't God think these children under my roof deserve better than what I have to offer? Wouldn't they have been better off with another set of parents? Another mother?
I make so many mistakes!
I'm so utterly impatient and hot-tempered!
I'm overwhelmed and look forward to 8pm when the day can begin to draw to a welcome close.
What good mother thinks like that!?
As I sit here typing, I can hear the wind chime my oldest two girls bought me for Mother's Day, tinkling away outside.
I did not deserve that gift!
I've been less than pleasant so far, today. I've felt sorry for myself more than once. I've raised my voice impatiently a few times. I even threatened to throw away a wreck of toys that wouldn't be budged despite countless requests and reminders.
Ohhhh, my two-year-old just came up to me and hugged my knees tightly and said, "MMmmmmmum!"
I hugged him back, gladly.
"Mmummmmmm! I love you!" His grin melted my heart.
I glance over at the two little ones on the couch reading books to one another. One smiles up at me, proudly. She's so happy she's learned to read!
The baby is crawling about by my feet, occasionally using me as a support to stand up against. Sucking her little fingers while looking about, innocently.
Sweet!
And now...
Now the oldest three children just returned home from church.
The front door opened unexpectedly and their cheerful faces and happy greetings reminded me of the love I hold for these precious, albeit often perplexing, challenging children!
I thank God for blessing me with them.
I look forward to the rest of today, and am resolved to be the parent they do deserve with God's strength, grace and wisdom.
The difference between my children and those of other women who do not appreciate their children, I decide, is my faith in God. My absolute reliance on Him. And hopefully, my example.
Surely my children will see my frequent stumblings. How could they not?
But I'm equally convinced that they will also notice my willingness to repent to them and God ... and my determined effort to raise them for His glory.
If anything good comes from my efforts at parenting... it will only be because of my Lord and Savior's hand in it!
I found it very interesting and gave me some "food for thought".
I found it to be a terrific "springboard" for further Biblical study on the issue of Christian modesty.
I pray this outline does the same for you.
May we always strive to put God's expectations of us ahead of our own preferences and desires. Let us never be a stumblingblock to others, and always be pure of heart.
IMMODEST APPAREL IS LASCIVIOUSNESS
I. INTRODUCTION:
1. One of the definitions that we learned about lasciviousness was: "Wanton, lewd, lustful, tending to produce lewd emotions." This brings us to another specific sin of LASCIVIOUSNESS. It concerns the apparel which is often worn, or better, the lack of apparel; or IMMODEST APPAREL. Perhaps, there is nothing that produces more lewd emotions than scanty attire on women (and men). At least, as to wide- spread abuse of scanty clothing.
2. Nakedness has always been a symbol of shame, ever since Adam and Eve ate of the forbidden fruit and tried to hide themselves. God was not satisfied with the covering Adam and Eve made, so Jehovah God made for Adam and his wife coats of skins, and clothed them. (Genesis 3:21). God uses symbolic nakedness as the shame of Israel. (Isaiah 47:3). Revelation 3:18 -- Symbol of shame in Laodicea, "I counsel thee to buy of me....white garments that thou mayest clothe thyself, and that the shame of thy nakedness be not made manifest."
II. MODERN PROBLEM: San Francisco Chronicle, Jan. 3, 1963: (Jean Wilson, AP): "Nudity at the beach has barely gotten started, California designer Rudi Gernreich says -- just as everyone has assumed the bikini had gone about as far as scantiness could go. Within five years, Gernreich says, ladies will not wear tops to bathing suits....The tendency is already here. In Europe it has been moving in that direction all along....A lot of women in this country who would never have dreamed of it three years ago are owning and enjoying their bikinis today, argues Gernreich. As always, he expects certain areas, such as Western beaches, to pioneer in topless suits...."
III. PAUL SAYS (1 Timothy 2:9-10) WOMEN ARE TO ADORN THEMSELVES IN MODEST APPAREL, WITH:
1. SHAMEFASTNESS -- a "sense of shame, modesty, reverence, the ability to blush." Remember, Barclay defined lasciviousness as "the loss of shame." When clothing is worn that produces embarrassment or shame, it is IMMODEST. Girls (young or older) would you be embarrassed for a man to walk into your room and view you in your undergarments? If you have any "bashfulness" at all, you must answer "yes." But, what about swim suits or shorts and halters in public? Is there any difference? Does the fact that the name of one is swimwear and the other is underwear make you modest in one and immodest in the other? When boys' (and/or men's) wandering eyes make you feel like you want to pull your neckline up and your skirt down, then you might give some thought as to whether or not your clothing is lascivious; that is, encouraging lewd of lustful thoughts or emotions.
2. SOBRIETY -- "Sound judgment." "Good judgment, moderation.... especially as a feminine virtue, decency" (Arndt and Gingrich). "It is that habitual inner self-government, with its constant rein on all the passions and desires" (Vines Expository Dictionary). This word shows the importance of dressing in such a manner as to glorify God and not to cause anyone to lust.
3. The wearing of less and less clothing is often justified with the glib remark, "Well, it's the fashion." Sin has always been fashionable with the world, for Satan is the god of this world.
IV. AN ILLUSTRATION: An incident that happened on the hi-jacked pleasure ship Santa Maria, in 1961. The women on board ship expressed fear that the rebels might have designs on them, so they left off wearing "enticing clothing," i.e., they stopped appearing in shorts and halters, and quit swimming in the ship's pool.
V. IMMODEST CLOTHING CAUSES OTHERS TO SIN:
1. We are all familiar with the sin of David in regard to Bathsheba. Certainly, her immodesty contributed to the whole sordid mess. Her motives may been pure and white, but look at the evil that came from her lack of modesty -- ADULTERY, MURDER, DECEIT, DEATH OF AN INNOCENT CHILD, etc.
2. Ladies (girls) you may be unaware of the effect you may have on others, but you cannot excuse yourself if by your appearance you cause someone to look and to lust. You say, "Well, they just should not lust." And that is true, but you cannot be innocent if you had a part in causing their lust.
VI. IN THE ASSEMBLY:
1. Attention needs to be given here to our manner of dress when we come into the assembly of God's people. Let us be sure that our attire is within the bounds of that which tends toward godliness; that we are adorned in "Shamefastness," and "Sobriety."
2. My persuasion is that the Child of God should not set the customs, nor be among the first to break the ice in new fashions. Especially, when it comes to the matter of Modesty.
Conclusion:
1. What a tremendous responsibility each one of us has toward those around us. We are the "light of the world," the "salt of the earth." May we ever remember our influence on others.
2. May we never be guilty of causing someone else to stumble.
Hi Carrie,
Maybe you could post this on your "Can You Help" topic.
I'm hoping others will have ideas and suggestions for me, as I really would like to earn some money in which to begin a small ministry to other women.
I do not need lots of money. Just enough to purchase tracts, a tract rack, some tapes, etc... I know precisely what the Lord has called me to do, my husband is all for it, and now we just need to earn the funds.
We don't have much money to spare, so it cannot come from our income. I feel that if God opens the door to me in obtaining the small extra bit of money to "open" my ministry, then it's meant to be. If not, it will have to wait.
Any ways to earn some start-up money? Fund raising? Other ideas?
Sometimes God works through other individuals. In this case, perhaps through advice. And prayers, please!
Thanks in advance!
Oregano is surprisingly easy to grow, and can be used in so very many different dishes.
Use it in spaghetti sauces, over lasagna, in mexican seasonings and more!
This morning, I'm harvesting our oregano plant, as it's spread considerably. If you'd like some for yourself, we have plenty! Stop by our store for details, later.
If you have oregano of your own to harvest, remember to harvest it in the morning just after the dew has dried. Tie your bunches, and hang them upside down (or lay them on a flat screen) until dry and crispy.
Now, strip them from the stems and store them in an airtight jar or baggie.
Do not crush or chop them before storing. Instead, do so as you utilize the herb in the dishes you prepare in order to release their essential oils. This deepens the flavor, and prevents bitterness.
Some people like to freeze the herb after harvesting, then strip the leaves from the stem and return to the freezer.
We're scheduled to have rain, today. But tomorrow's forecast tells me that we'll only have clouds.
Keep your eyes peeled. I can't wait to get out there with the children and do a little planting, and will be sure to share those promised photos!
I'm praying all of you enjoy a beautiful day (whether sunny or rainy!) today.
I've got a little extra work to try and tackle today, including a messy back porch. So, I won't be putting up a formal post, today!
Check back tomorrow, though. I'm hoping to get some photos up of our planting endeavors. I promised the children they could help and thought it would be fun to share our enjoyment of the process.
God bless you and keep you. May His face shine upon all of you and give you peace!
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