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Tuesday, January 30, 2007
Ten Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship

What do you do if you think your friend or family member is in an abusive relationship, but you’re not sure? Go with your instincts - you probably wouldn’t be concerned without reason. Here are some signs to look for that might indicate an abusive relationship:
1. When your friend and her husband or boyfriend are together, he acts very controlling and puts her down in front of others.
2. He acts extremely jealous of others who pay attention to her, especially men.
3. She becomes quiet when he is around and seems afraid of making him angry.
4. She stops seeing friends and family members, becoming more and more isolated.
5. She often cancels plans at the last minute.
6. He controls her finances, her behavior and even whom she socializes with.
7. You see him violently lose his temper, striking or breaking objects.
8. She often has unexplained injuries, or the explanations she offers don’t quite add up. (Sometimes you won’t see any bruises, as batters target their blows to areas that can be covered with clothing.)
9. She casually mentioned his violent behavior but laughed it off as a joke.
10. Her child is frequently upset or very quiet and withdrawn and won’t say why.

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Wednesday, January 31, 2007 - Everyone of them is right on.............

Posted by Kitty


I dont know where you got this list from but it is right on the nose. My first husband was very abusive to me for three years. I took it untill he started on my two year old son. I divorced him and never look back. He remarried and has put his second wife in the hospital he abused her so badly. Im sure he has time to think of all that he has done to us, for now he sits in a jail cell for a crime he commited. Sometimes the system works huh.
Thanks for posting this, no person should ever be abused by anyone in their lives.
Kitty


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Saturday, February 3, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Andrea


Thank you SO MUCH for printing this!! Abuse is such a "secret" topic, not much talked about. Thank you for helping to raise awareness. Spousal abuse is very VERY prevalent amongst Christians too.... sometimes even moreso.

God bless you~ Andrea


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