The Wolf Pack
Friday 14 March 2008
What are you *Supposed* to be doing?

Posted in Homelife

Butch is a good kid - well, as much a good kid as any 6 year old can be.  But he sure does despise cleaning up his messes.  Right now it is almost nine in the evening, he is sitting on the floor staring at boxes of toys and supposed to be picking up.  Every time he picks something new up he has to play with it.  I'm slowly going crazy - I *want* to throw all the toys away (they prefer the boxes the toys come in anyway right?) but they are quality toys (Thomas trains and wood blocks) and I can't do that - but I'm so tired of the mess.  So, I stupidly sit here and ask him what he is *supposed* to be doing.  It isn't working.  It's 9pm and I want to go to bed.  If I clean it he wins anyway, b/c he's just trying to get out of doing it - well partly, I realize at 6 he has a short attention span.  Normally I'd just put him in bed and come back to it in the morning but - he's been doing this for days and I'm really sick of the mess - I want it gone - I want the toys to stay in their boxes and look cute!  I'm sure I got in plenty of trouble for the exact same things when I was a kid - but why can't they clean like adults? 
I have a sneaky feeling that he learned this from me.  I should be cleaning too and what am I doing?  Blogging... hmmmm... well, I guess the guilt has finally gotten to me and I'm off to do some cleaning - maybe he'll get the picture if I model it eh?  I know, I know... I'm a slow learner - and I'll probably have to re-learn it tomorrow!  I'm so thankful that our Lord is more forgiving than I am!  I can't even make it out of church on a Sunday without screwing it up pretty soon after!

I'll go carry the poor boy to his bed - he just fell asleep on the floor - we're waiting for Mr. Top Gun to come home from being gone for three weeks.  He can work on chores in the morning, again!
In Christ
Jenn a poor miserable sinner, forgiven.

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Saturday 15 March 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by morningsunshine


I am sorry - I do not know how my 6-yo son managed to end up at your house last night! I am sure he did not mean to get your son in trouble! LOL! maybe it is the age?
I know that sometimes it is overwhelming for a child to attack a large pile of toys. (think about your desk.... or, maybe it is just MY desk which is overwhelming - where do I start?) sometimes I will tell my son - "pick up all the red legos." then when the reds are all done, "now, pick up the green." breaking it up is helpful, gives a place to start. and sometimes they need to be shown HOW - so "okay, now that you have got all the red and green ones picked up, let's do the blue & yellow together, okay? but if you stop working, then I will stop also and you will finish by yourself."
I also start clean-up time at 4pm, so that the house is clean before dinner and showers, and any toys they get out after that are easier to pick up.
just some things that help at my house. and they do not always help...


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Sunday 16 March 2008 - Ugghhh

Posted by Anonymous


Yeah, I usually forget that even if I've already shown my 6yo how to clean up his toys he doesn't remember! :( Usually I'm more patient than Friday night but Dad had been gone for 3 weeks and I was done! ;)
By the by, he cleaned up his toys nicely the next morning - I think he was looking for excuses to stay awake to wait for dad and couldn't handle staying awake anymore!
Jenn


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