In the past year or so, our relationship with hubby's parents has not been the best!  To make a long story short, they did some things they definately should not have, couldn't keep their mouths shut and said bad things about me to my own family and friends, lied to my face, and the list could go on and on!!!

We didnt' get together with them for the past 2 years of holidays and haven't been to their house (which is filthy and last time we were there, I stood up to leave because they had fleas!) for well over a year.  His mother has been to our house, or has met us in a resturant for a visit on several occassions, but his father has refused to come and see us.  (long story)

So, hubby brings up the subject today (thank goodness it was after he had softened me up with the flowers. LOL) about going to their house for a visit this weekend.  I was a little tacken a'back since it was his idea not to take our child into that environment, but I am trying to be submissive and understanding about his reasonings.

So he is calling his mother sometime this week and wants to set up a time to visit them on Saturday afternoon.  I am just wondering if they will even let us in their house, or if his father will decide to make himself disappear while we are there.

Please pray for me in this situation.  I want the whole thing resolved, but I don't want to be hurt anymore in this.  I am having a hard time forgiving and forgetting about what was said and done to me and my family in the last year.  Please pray that my heart shall be softened to this and that if the visit does happen this weekend, that everything goes well and there are no fights or bad feelings.  I am nervous, and dragging my feet about the whole situation, but I know that won't help the situation.

Thanks in advancce for any prayers or kind words of encouragement.

God's Blessings,

Amy Jo