I am getting into my new routine and cleaning schedule implemented at the beginning of the year and loving it. My old routine and cleaning schedule was working ok, and we were getting by, but the new schedule is a breeze and such a blessing. Hubby has even noticed things are moving more smoothly in the household. It's nice to see it happening, but even more so when it is noticed by Matthew and commented upon!!!
Noah is doing better at nap time now that we have a better schedule going, and have moved his nap time from 1 to 2 pm. Not sure why....but for some reason at 1, he would lay down and whine and talk and play for an hour and not get any rest until 2 anyway. I have learned I need to be more flexible instead of "this is the way it is and deal with it" about naptime. Now he lays down, sleeps for 1 1/2-2 hours and is ready for the rest of the day and not so overtired and grumpy for the evenings. (Which makes time with daddy really hard when he is like that!)
I love the house when it is cleaned and organized. Clean....check....Organized.....getting there. LOL There are still several closets, and drawers that I need to get sorted out and straightened up. I am trying to decide now whether I want to have a garage sale (extra stress and time, and I hate people filtering through my belongings!) and making a little bit of money,or to donate it to the Thrift Shop and Women's Shelter. I am also having a hard time of dealing with all Noah's clothing he has outgrown. I keep hanging on to it thinking we will have another baby, and if it is a boy, I will have all these nice things for him. But on the other hand, there is a dear friend at church who has a young baby, and giving these clothes to her for Isaac would be such a blessing to her and to me as well. I need to pray about it and see what God wants me to do with them. Right now, they are just boxes of clutter upstairs in the corner of a bedroom that is already too full and cluttered already!!!
Matthew isn't too helpful when it comes to decluttering unfortunately. LOL He comes from a family of absolute overboard packrats! He isn't nearly as bad as his mother and father, but close. LMSO So, I am working on him in little baby steps. My first step, has been and still is to get rid of something so rediculous you will all laugh about it. The first step is to get rid of some of the clothing he has in the closet that he never wears.....wait..........let me correct that. HE HAS NEVER WORN!!! LOL Years ago, before we met, someone gave him some church clothes. One suit is really nice but way too small. The other two are polyester leisure suits with the gold buttons that make you look like you are to be on a yacht. LMSO I kid you not, they are hilarious looking. I don't sneak things out of the house, because I promised him I wouldn't. We have talked about it, and I wouldn't want him doing that to me, so I will not do that to him. That is a simple lesson in respect and love. But I have asked him several times to go through the closet with me and always has an excuse to not do it. I have even asked him if he would simply sit on the bed while I go through it, hold certain items up and wait for him to say yes or no. I would box or bag the unwanted items and take them out of the house myself. But he says, not today hunny every time. UGH!
On the other hand though, Matthew made a committment to me last night, without me bringing up the conversation that he will commit to spend a few hours each day ont he weekends on painting and changing out electrical stuff in the upstairs bedrooms so we can move up there and use the bedrooms down here for a craft room, and a toy room. YIPEEEEEEE!! We have most of the wall paint done anyway. We just need to paint 2 doors, and 2 windows in Noah's room, and he needs to do some electrical work done on the outlets and the switch plate. We have also been thinking of installing a ceiling fan in his room, but not sure we can afford this just yet until tax money comes in or if Matthew gets some more overtime. It sure is handy to have a hubby that can do this work himself instead of hiring someone else to get it done though (even if it does take MUCH longer than expected to get it done. LOL)
Ok, I have been putting off tidying up (by writing this blog) the front room long enough. The front room looks like a toy store blew up in here. LMSO I need to straighten up a bit before Matthew comes home, and get some spaghetti on the stove to cook. YUM.
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Thursday, January 8, 2009 - Wishing you the best.
It sounds like you have your work cut out for you. I am happy for you that you got a new rutine that works for you and Noah. With the cleaning and the naps it can be a little overwhelming at times. I like to turn on a Little House on the Prarie at that time. I know it is not real, but that some people really did live that way and I wonder how I would have done had I been in one of the families that moved west in hopes of a better future and VERY CHEEP land. No sitter and everyone is just as busy as you are just trying to live. *smile*
As for getting rid of cloths...It took me a while to lighten our load around here too. And still if you were to go out into the gurage (that is too narrow for a car due to the "after market" central air and heat *smile*) you would find little bags of both girl and boy cloths. Some I passed on to family and some I gave to a friend, and still others I gave to the local pregnancy alternative center. They don't wear as much in a month that one can receive in a day at a baby shower. *smile* So, I narrowed things down to the things I particularly liked and put them in the gurage. This way if the Lord, by some miricle *smile* gives us another child I have some seed to build on. I am not starting from scrach. But at this point I am thinking that I will pass them back to the child that wore them when they are starting a family of their own. So, it's not boxes and boxes, but they are still organized and marked by size. When others received their bundles of cloths they were very excyted to see that they were washed and organized by size. *SMILE*
Better close I can't get that last smile to be in lowercase. Sorry. *smile* Winter blessings and glad to hear you are doing well. *smile*
-me-(Mommy of two little blessings)