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Simple Daybook ~ February 1, 2010

10:49, Monday, February 1, 2010 .. 0 comments .. Link




Outside my window...  skies are white with clouds.  It's looking like another drizzly, gloomy day.
I am thinking... how much I am enjoying my new chore planner.
I am also thinking ...
about how frequently my pride gets in the way of being transparent with my husband as I should be.
I am thankful for... my mother.
From the learning rooms... children are in the midst of schoolwork: Bible, math, reading - and I need to order a new science for DS#2 to do until he finishes with Geometry and can start Physics.
From the kitchen...  all is cleaned up and the dishwasher is running.  Lunch plans are only in my head so far and dinner seems like a distant event.
I am wearing...  pink, dark pink, and red - all set for Valentine's!
I am creating... there's a dishcloth on my knitting needles right now, and then a potholder to crochet after that.
I am going... to conquer the laundry mountain today as well as catch up on all the correcting I need to do in the children's math lessons.
I am reading... the Bible and Plenty which is an interesting book about a year of eating locally (nothing that isn't grown within 100 miles of home.)
I am hoping... still hoping to make time for my mother's cross stitch piece -- maybe I'll work on it during our reading hour??
I am hearing...  pages being turned, a nose being sniffed and snuffed, and the muffled crow of a bantam roo.
One of my favorite things... working in the nursery at church.  I get to hold the sweetest babies and have great conversations with amazing women!
A few plans for the rest of the week:  get ready for the charity pick-ups that are happening this week, make sure husband's work clothes are all in the closet ready for him, check frequently to make sure the children stay on track with their schoolwork, and pray always!

Here is picture thought I am sharing...


(one of my cousin's goats that is due any day now!)

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Marriage & the Blessing of Children

08:32, Thursday, January 28, 2010 .. 1 comments .. Link
I am fortunate enough to be reading through two Bible studies (simultaneously) with a sweet and encouraging friend.  The material is challenging enough in itself but her humility and transparent love for the Lord make it richer still.   We are several chapters into The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace, and today have started Happily Married by Debi Pryde. 

I will honestly admit that my marriage is a struggle.  Today we read of A Wife's Understanding of Relationships (Chapter Four of Excellent Wife) and, though I have been through this study before, I was convicted once again of the many ways that I fall short in glorifying the Lord in my behavior to my husband: Unmerciful, private and self-protective, not communicating biblically, and more.   Instead the characteristics of the Trinity which result in perfect harmony and unity and which we are to emulate are: to be tender, compassionate and merciful; to be open and transparent; to have perfect communication with each other.   The things the world says "If he will do this then I will do that" or "I've tried and tried and it didn't work (or he didn't respond like I wanted him to) (or he just doesn't listen to me anymore)" are all conditional and self-focused.  In order to glorify the Lord, not just make things pleasant for myself, I am responsible for showing my husband a self-sacrificing love, a love that communicates to my husband the love I have for him, his importance in my life, appreciation for all he does - in other words, I must put off the old selfish man that seeks my own way and comfort, and must put on the new man who shows compassion, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and love. (Eph. 4: 25-32,  5: 4, 11, 18;  Phil. 4: 6;  Col. 3: 8, 12-14;  Rom. 13: 12-14)

"Giving of yourself to your husband is not going above and beyond the call of duty.  It is only doing as you ought.  (Luke 17:10)  You ought to be kind to your husband.  You ought to be open, transparent, and honest with him.  Perhaps you struggle with openness, transparency, and honesty.  If you do, the reason is that a sinful man:

seeks to be isolated
seeks to be in control
seeks to hide, over-up from hurt/pain
seeks to be self protective
tends to be self-focused."

(The Excellent Wife)

The study book Happily Married starts off with the word covenant.  What is a covenant?  (what does this mean, in the context of Mal. 2:14-16?)   She points out the importance of reading the word of God - that worldly wisdom, and even Christian books and magazines will all become empty after time.  When I think of going from book to book to book, as I used to, I am reminded of a verse from a small coloring page my daughter did a few years ago and which still hangs on the end of our school bookcase -  And further, by these, my son, be admonished: of making many books there is no end; and much study is a weariness of the flesh.  Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.   For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.  Eccl. 12: 12-14

When I get weighed down and discouraged, I think of a memory verse from years ago - one that has seen me through many dark days - Psalm 63: 3  Because thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise thee.   And when I remember that verse I need to challenge my thoughts and feelings - IS his love Really better than life?  Of course it is.  Without the love of Christ I would have nothing, be nothing.  He is my shelter, my strength, my shield, his word reminds me to think on what is true, and he is my hope everlasting.  So if his love is better than life, as long as I have his love --
For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.    Romans 8: 38-39 -- then I have everything I need and whatever it is I am dealing with here is only temporary.  I can bear all things because of the Lord's perfect love in my very imperfect heart.  And it is that perfect love that I so need to show to my husband.  Just as the Lord has extended grace to me, so I need to extend it to my husband and work to show him my love in a way that is real for him - communicating the love of Christ in my words and actions and attitudes and acts of service.

Now - speaking of love, my daughter gave me the most wonderful gift today.  The children were all quietly in the bedrooms with schoolwork while Friend and I had our study time.  Daughter used part of her time to draw me a beautiful picture with hidden things for me to find in the picture, and she wrote some heart-gripping words of her love and gratitude for me as her mom.  It was a blessing beyond anything. 

O taste and see that the LORD is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him.

 O fear the LORD, ye his saints: for there is no want to them that fear him.

Psalm 34: 8-9



Can You Believe . . . .

04:47, Thursday, January 28, 2010 .. 1 comments .. Link

 .  .  .  .   .    that today I cleaned my oven for the first time in my life? 
(and my first born child will soon be 24 years old!)


I'll start with the fact that I am a very unorganized person who highly desires to be organized.  I've been looking for that "something" that will help me be the on top of things wife/mom/homemaker/homeschooler I've wanted to be.  I've attempted making my own lists, chore cards, FLY Lady, MOTH, and more.  The trouble with each of them was .  .  .  .   me!  I had to figure out what chore to do when, or even remember all of the chores that needed doing, or our schedule would throw me off and I would feel behind and defeated.  Most of all there was just too much thinking involved for this poor brain of mine.

So, last week I looked and looked for something that was already all figured out and neatly laid out and where all I needed to do was go down the list and check the box when done.  Oh, and that didn't cost my leg, or even my foot.


What I found was Motivated Moms and a years worth of printable chore lists - one per week.  There are everyday chores, and chores for each day of the week; some of them on an every other day, or once a week, once a month, or several times a year rotation.  


Today's chores included cleaning the oven.  Well, I have never done that before and was always a little intimidated by it, but I'm a grown woman after all - how hard could it be?  So you will most likely laugh at me or raise your eyebrow when I say that I have a self-cleaning oven!  I walked over, followed the instructions on the oven, closed the latch, set the dials and away it went!   When it was all finished, I just used a damp cloth to wipe out all of the ash (but YOU probably already know that, right?) and that was that!   My mother could NOT believe that I have never cleaned an oven -- and it got worse when I told her that it was self-cleaning.  She used that mother-tone-of-voice with me  ;-)


Would you like to take a look at the chore lists for yourself?


Motivated Moms Chore Planners


Just the joy that I've gotten from something as simple as cleaning my oven has already more than paid for the chore list - -  Now I'm looking forward to the next day and what new thing might I get to do! 


Simple Daybook: January 25th

08:29, Monday, January 25, 2010 .. 0 comments .. Link
 



Outside my window.
..  skies are white with clouds and a steady drizzle/sprinkle has been falling for hours, flooding our yard for almost a week now.
I am thinking... about how I SOOO need to reverence my husband and remember that as I am serving him I am serving Christ -- and conversely that if I am not serving him, then I am bringing dishonor to the name of Christ.
I am also thinking ... that today I really need to keep on track - with the help of the daily chore planner I got this weekend - and keep busy during the day instead of stopping and falling into selfish laziness.
I am thankful for... home and husband and children, friends that lift me in prayer and encourage me by their own good example, and a Lord whose mercy is never-ending.
From the learning rooms... Children are at the table with math and science and handwriting.
From the kitchen...  an early breakfast this morning for husband of eggs, sausage and toast, which the children shared in.  Need to get some bread started, lunch planned and dinner prep underway - -after spelling.  ;-)
I am wearing...  a long black and white knit skirt (over my jammie pants) with a blue top and blue snowman cardigan.
I am creating... dishcloths and potholders at the moment.  I'm on my 6th or 7th set.
I am going... to stick to my schedule today, Lord willing, and do all that needs doing in order to bless my husband and family and bring glory to Him.
I am reading... the Bible.  Playing catch-up with my daily reading so that I can be on track by the end of this month.  Also reading The Excellent Wife and Me? Obey Him?
I am hoping... to be able to carve out some time to regularly work on the cross-stitch piece for my mother's birthday, since I did not finish it in time last year -
I am hearing...  the drip, drip, drip of water from the rain gutter outside, and pages being turned at the school table.
Around the house...  there's a bit of chaos left from the weekend, Playmobile all over the living room along with a few loads of laundry that need folding and putting away.
One of my favorite things...  family - treasured pictures and stories from the past, priceless relationships today, and the hope of deeper relationships in the future.
A few plans for the rest of the week:  stay on task each day, be diligent about meals, clean out much of our "stuff" for two charity pick-ups next week, and steady reading and study of God's word.
Here is picture thought I am sharing...



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Stampin' Snowflakes

10:08, Friday, December 4, 2009 .. 3 comments .. Link

I stamped last night - needed to make some cards as gifts, plus it was a really good excuse to use my new stamp set Serene Snowflakes!







This last one is definitely my favorite one - and it was the simplest to make;  How much better can it get!!  I think today I'll try making it on Cocoa paper, and Sand.


Elisha: Barren or Healing?

09:45, Tuesday, December 1, 2009 .. 0 comments .. Link
And the men of the city said unto Elisha, Behold, I pray thee, the situation of this city is pleasant, as my lord seeth: but the water is naught, and the ground barren. 
And he said, Bring me a new cruse, and put salt therein.  And they brought it to him.
And he went forth unto the spring of the waters, and cast the salt in there, and said, Thus saith the LORD, I have healed these waters; there shall not be from thence any more death or barren land.
So the waters were healed unto this day, according to the saying of  Elisha which he spake.

2 Kings 2:19-22

The chapter we read tonight had to do with Elisha healing the barren spring of Jericho.  The people had to travel far each day to gather water from the Jordan because the spring that was outside of their own city gate was no good.  I so very much enjoyed how Mrs. Walton drew the parallel from the barren spring to our own self-loving hearts and the healed waters to those who seek to use their lives in service to bless and encourage others to grow in Christ.

May I quote directly from the book?  

"And in that spring we have a picture, a double picture.  We can see in it, if we will look, a very good representation of a great many people's lives.

The lives of some are like that stream before Elisha visited it: going on through this world of sin and sorrow and misery, and yet doing no good to anyone, carrying misery and spiritual barrenness wherever they go.  They are living for self, and they have no care for those around them, they bring unpleasantness and not comfort into the hearts of others.  Their example is evil and not good; their influence is on the side of this present evil world, with all its sinful and God-forgetting ways.

But the lives of others are strangely and wonderfully different.  They resemble Elisha's stream, not as it was in the days of its barrenness, but as it was after the prophet visited it.  They are like Elisha's stream at the present day.  They carry joy and comfort and refreshment wherever they go.  They are a blessing to everyone.  They cheer all within their reach.  They bring ease to the weary, encourage the weak-hearted, and visit the lonely.  Wherever they go, they are a quiet power for good, a source of goodness and joy, a lovely stream causing an oasis in the desert life around them.

Let us ask ourselves, Which life is mine?  Am I like the stream as it was in its barren days, a useless one in God's world, bringing no joy or gladness to those around me, the aid of spiritual life and fruitfulness to no one, or am I like the lovely beautiful stream -- a helper of many, a blessing in the world?  Thank God that just as the Jericho stream by the power of God was changed in its nature, so can our lives be changed. 

Elisha gives us the recipe for changing a useless, harmful life into a useful and blessed one.  It is the same recipe which the Master gives us in Mark 9:50, where He bids us, "Have salt in yourselves."  The salt, put upon the waters of Elisha's spring, entirely changed its character, and the purifying grace of God can change my life from being an empty, frivolous, useless, mischievous life to being one which will be a blessing to all around me, because of its utter unselfishness. 

But one thing we must carefully notice, and that is the place in which Elisha put the salt upon the water.  He did not cast it on the waters of the stream half a mile or a mile from the spring.  He was careful to go to the source and to cast it on the water at the very spot from which it came bubbling out of the rock.  So the Lord would have me learn that if my life is to be different, me heart must be different.  If I am to live a changed life, it must be because the source, my innermost heart, has first been changed by the grace of God."

Elisha: God's Messenger of Grace, by Mrs. O.F. Walton, available from BibleTruthPublishers.com 


Diligently Working Toward the Goal

03:09, Saturday, November 28, 2009 .. 3 comments .. Link
One of the burdens I feel in raising my children - especially now as they are getting older and closer to leaving and starting their own homes - is to have an orderly, organized, clean home.   We clean and have our regular chores, but sometimes they are more miss than hit.  I have pockets that are neat and organized, but they can get out of hand as well.  And like most other areas of my life - my own failures and shortcomings prompt me to prepare my children in all of the ways that I wasn't prepared.  So I've been wondering and wandering and waiting for some inspiration to catch me so that I can improve in this area and train my children alongside me.  

When you least expect it --

Standing in our small church library, spending time just looking through the books while waiting for son, my eyes were caught by the title "Homemaking."  Next to that were a few books by Emilie Barnes - if you don't know who she is, you should find out. 

I took them home and it has been just what I needed.  I'm keeping track of everything I do through the day in order to make us a chore card box; it has encouraged me to take an extra minute in the kitchen or the bathroom to wipe down counters or sweep floors; it inspired me to get my laundry area cleaned up and organized - a minor miracle - and actually looking attractive and efficient - AND it got the children excited about putting away their laundry!  Now encouraged by that success, I have plans to clean up the shelves on either side of my washer/dryer.

I skimmed through the first book, Survival for Busy Women: Establishing Efficient Home Management, because after reading the first few chapters I realized this was a book I was going to need on my bookshelf.  I purchased it and four others (at a better price than Amazon offered!!) that I am looking forward to making my way through - one area of the house, and our lives, at a time.

As I go through them more slowly, and make changes as I go, I'll share my praises and neat organizational tips that I discover.  But you're probably already more organized than I am  :-) 

Blessings!


November - -

11:18, Friday, November 27, 2009 .. 2 comments .. Link
Time has seemingly flown by this year, hasn't it?

It has been a very difficult October and November here, for so many reasons.   A conversation between my children and I (I have no idea how this came up) brought up the question - Would I want to go back and be 23 again?  Oh, what a question.  I honestly answered, No, I would only do it if I had the knowledge that I have now.  And there is the catch of life.  I would never want to be so young and foolish again -- but the other side of that picture is that I only have much of the knowledge, wisdom, and faith in the Lord now because of those mistakes and foolish decisions.  While I may have grown, gained, and moved on from that youthful foolishness -- the repercussions of those actions continue today, and those are the things that cause me the most pain and heartache.  I know and can see how the Lord has used those situations and decisions from a half a lifetime ago to grow me and prune me -- and what drastic pruning this sinful, selfish heart has needed --  and to teach me to lean upon him daily, hourly.  Yet at the same time,  I must live with the consequences. 

Overwhelming.    Discouraging.    Staggering.    Strength-sapping.    Hopeless. 

Because of these consequences I pray for my children and share with them the importance of obeying the Lord.  The Lord truly can work all things together for good, and extends his grace and forgiveness to us when we sin but he does not magically remove the results or consequences of our sins.   How much better to avoid those sins in the first place. 

Yet I also know from very painful personal experience how joyous and deeply felt are my praises and thankfulness for the Lord's goodness and mercy because of how very, very deep the chasms that I have been through are.


O the deep, deep love of Jesus, vast, unmeasured, boundless, free!
Rolling as a mighty ocean in its fullness over me!
Underneath me, all around me, is the current of Thy love
Leading onward, leading homeward to Thy glorious rest above!

O the deep, deep love of Jesus, spread His praise from shore to shore!
How He loveth, ever loveth, changeth never, nevermore!
How He watches o’er His loved ones, died to call them all His own;
How for them He intercedeth, watcheth o’er them from the throne!

O the deep, deep love of Jesus, love of every love the best!
’Tis an ocean full of blessing, ’tis a haven giving rest!
O the deep, deep love of Jesus, ’tis a heaven of heavens to me;
And it lifts me up to glory, for it lifts me up to Thee!

 

by S. Trevor Francis,  1875


Favorite Beefy Vegetable Soup

04:36, Tuesday, November 17, 2009 .. 1 comments .. Link
This is originally from the Southern Living Cookbook that I "borrowed" from my mom about 10 years ago.  Thanks Mom!

It is a family favorite and everyone who we make it for loves it too - I hope you will try it!

Beefy Vegetable Soup

  • 2 lbs. ground beef
  • 1/2 c. butter
  • 1/2 c. flour
  • 1 1/2 quarts water
  • 1 c. each chopped onion, celery, and carrot
  • 10 oz. pkg. frozen mixed vegetables
  • 28 oz. can diced/chopped tomatoes
  • 15 oz. can tomato sauce
  • 1 1/2 T. beef bouillon
  • 1 - 1 1/2 t. salt (taste)
  • 1 t. pepper
Brown ground beef in large dutch oven, stirring to crumble.  Drain well and set aside.

Melt butter in same Dutch oven; add flour and cook over low heat 3 - 5 minutes until a smooth paste forms.  Gradually add water, stirring constantly; cook over medium heat until bubbly, stirring occasionally.
Add ground beef and remaining ingredients, bring to a boil; reduce heat and simmer uncovered for 1 hour.

This is a really versatile soup and you can add any vegetable or combination of vegetables that you like: potatoes, spinach, leeks, corn, cabbage, greens, etc.


Enjoy!
 

Incredibly Easy and Deliciously Versatile Cookies!

10:39, Monday, November 2, 2009 .. 5 comments .. Link
Today I rediscovered a great recipe for very quick and easy cookies - only three ingredients needed!  I mixed them up and Dear Son #3 rolled and baked them.  We thought the dough/batter smelled like cookies and cream ice cream, and Dear Son #2 said they tasted like moist Oreos.  They are officially called Cool Whip Cookies, but since we don't buy Cool Whip they are Whipped Topping Cookies to us!  ;-)

All you need is:
  • a box of cake mix - any flavor you like.  We used Triple Chocolate Fudge!
  • 8 oz. tub of frozen whipped topping, thawed in the refrigerator
  • 1 egg
Mix these together thoroughly in bowl.  Next, roll walnut sized balls in powdered sugar.  Bake at 350F for 10 - 12 minutes.

I've made these before with lemon cake mix, too.  A really good and really versatile recipe.

Enjoy!


My Favorite Bowls (hen and chicks re-post)

03:16, Friday, October 23, 2009 .. 3 comments .. Link

Bowls

I never really thought much about bowls until I read an excellent posting a few years ago by Lady Lydia at LAF titled "The Mixing Bowl."   If you have not read it, I would highly encourage you to do so. 

I love the picture she paints of the woman of the house standing with her apron on, holding the mixing bowl firmly with one hand and arm, stirring vigorously with her other, all the while watching over the affairs and doings of her home.  There is such grace and nostalgia in a simple apron, a mixing bowl and a wooden spoon.  A gentleness that pulling the mixer out of the cupboard will never be able to match.

I have my own favorite bowls now, each with it's own story and purpose.

Grandmas_bowl

This is my Grandmother's bowl.   This is also my largest bowl which is used for the BIG things like making bread, holding a family-size serving of noodles, or for mixing up a big batch of Refrigerator Bran Muffins which will last us for a week of breakfasts.  It is a heavy ceramic bowl and I love using it because it brings back thoughts of a Grandmother whom I never really got to know, yet wish I had.  Bittersweet - I understand what that means now. 

Batter_bowl

This one is a two-quart batter bowl that I bought several years ago from Pampered Chef.  This is invaluable to me for a quick batch of muffins or pancakes in the morning or for brownies in the evening .  It's even been known to handle some tuna salad for lunch!  It also has a lid and is great for storing leftover soups.  I couldn't be without this or his little sister, the one-quart batter bowl.

Iridescent_bowl

This little bowl is not for mixing - it is simply pretty and I love serving things in it on the table.  It has held chips, scrambled eggs, salads, and vegetables.   I didn't buy this bowl, it was actually left at the house we bought.  It was left in the garage, underneath some shelves with planting containers.  I guess at one time it held a potted plant and was then forgotten.  But it caught my eye as soon as I saw it.  I took it in the house and scrubbed it clean.  Now it is a little bright spot in my cupboard or on the table!

Chicken_bowl

This cheery bowl was found on the bottom shelf at Goodwill.  I love all things chicken and so this immediately caught my eye!  It is a bit chipped around the top, but it is useful just the same.  This is the bowl that sits out on my stovetop - not only decorative but practical, too.  Whenever I am cooking and need a quick place to put something, this is the bowl.  It holds cooked onions for me while I finish cooking the meat, and it keeps the fajitas or taco meat warm while I heat the tortillas in the skillet.  This is my little everything bowl and I'm so glad I found it!

These bowls will be a part of my children's memories - of mom in the kitchen, of the special treats that were baked for them, the stories that each bowl holds, of 'home.'

What memories in the making are in your kitchen?  What are your everyday treasures that will last forever in the minds of your children?  I hope you have a few, or if not that you'll get some soon.



Literature and Life . . . . or How Little Girls Soon Grow Up

09:38, Thursday, October 22, 2009 .. 4 comments .. Link
I bought a book this past weekend at an antique faire.  It's a gem from 1905 titled Rebecca Mary.  I'm almost at the end of it and I think I'm reading it at the perfect time.  You see, Rebecca Mary notices that her legs are quickly getting longer.  She knows this because she measured them, twice.  Realizing that she has only a small amount of time left before she is "grown-up", she makes a list of childhood things that she would like to do, but has only heard of.  Things like climb a tree, make mud pies, skip, and have a tea party.  She enjoys these new found activities very much and wishes that she had done them sooner;  instead, she is doing them for the first/last time.

At that moment, daughter asked for an old towel.  "Why?" I asked.  She hesitated and I knew the answer.  She wanted to go and sit outside with the chickens and hold them and pet them and talk to them. 

My first "we've got a schedule/work to do/homeschooling mom" thought was No!  But my next thought was of Rebecca Mary - and my own growing 'Rebecca Mary', who at 11 years old, will soon enough be leaving childhood behind for more grown-up activities.  (Yes, I'm crying as I write this because she is my youngest and my days of parenting are growing shorter also.)

So what DID I say?  "You want to go sit outside?"  "Yes," was the quiet answer.

I found her a towel and let her go. 

There is plenty enough time for books and lessons. 

But the days of her childhood are drawing to an end.


Wonderful Oatmeal Bread Recipe

11:23, Wednesday, October 21, 2009 .. 10 comments .. Link

I had some potato water from mashed potatoes last night and so used it today to make some bread.  The recipe today was an absolutely delicious Oatmeal Bread.  So yummy I had to share!  I also have to say that even though I didn't use the bread machine, I made it the bread machine way - which essentially is to put everything in the bowl and let it mix together (kitchen-aid) without the two or three steps this recipe called for. 

Oatmeal Bread

1 pkg active dry yeast (or 2 1/4 tsp.)
2 c. warm water (110F)
1/4 c. molasses
4 T. butter
1/4 c. firmly packed brown sugar (or natural cane sugar crystals)
2 c. quick - cooking rolled oats
4 1/2 - 5 c. bread flour
2 tsp. salt

I added the ingredients, in the above order, to my mixer while the mixer was mixing, adding the flour one cup at a time.  I let it knead it for about 10 minutes, and I did have to add another cup of flour (I originally had added the 4 cups), so that it would be smooth and satiny.  Let it rise; then lightly kneaded on board for one minute; cut in half and placed into greased bread pans.  Let it rise again.  Bake in 325F - 350F oven for about an hour until browned. 


It's got a wonderful flavor and is definitely a keeper! 





Despise Not the Chastening of the Lord

10:16, Monday, October 19, 2009 .. 3 comments .. Link

This weekend, while a wonderful, restful time physically, it was anything BUT mentally/emotionally.  I think since I wasn't active with the daily busyness of life that things I've been needing to deal with all came to mind.  Then when I got home, I was hit full force with the Lord's chastisement.  Upset about another's actions, the Lord clearly showed me the beam in my own eye.  That was painful enough but it didn't stop there.  Layer upon layer of little sins and negligences (sp?) were slowly revealed. 


Matthew 7: 3-5

And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? 

Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?

Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye. 

Jeremiah 17: 9-10

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?

I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.

Psalm 139: 23-24

Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:

And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.

Isaiah 55: 7-8

Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. 

Proverbs 3: 11-12

My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction:

For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.

Hebrews 12:  5b-11

My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:

For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.

If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?

But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye *******s, and not sons.

Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?

For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.

Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Titus 2: 3-5, 9-10

The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;

That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Exhort servants to be obedient unto their own masters, and to please them well in all things; not answering again;

Not purloining, but shewing all good fidelity; that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour in all things.

1 Thessalonians 4: 11-12

And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

That ye may walk honestly toward them that are without, and that ye may have lack of nothing.

Colossians 3: 12-17

Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;

Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.

And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.

And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.

And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.

Philippians 2: 3-8, 14-16

Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.

Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.

Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:

Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:

But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:

And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross. 

Do all things without murmurings and disputings:

That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;

Holding forth the word of life; that I may rejoice in the day of Christ, that I have not run in vain, neither laboured in vain.

 


 



Time - Good, Restful, Alone

10:52, Sunday, October 18, 2009 .. 1 comments .. Link
The gift of time is a wonderful thing.  The past day and a half we have enjoyed spending time with my mother along the coast.  And it has been a blessing. 

Dear Son #2 decided not to come, but instead to stay home so that he would not miss a prior obligation, and so it has been "just" the two younger ones and myself this trip.  And as any mother of many knows that even taking one child out of the mix produces quite different results.  Such has most certainly been the case this weekend.   Dear Son #2, while being a blessing and our entertainment, is such a commanding presence and the center spotlight that Dear Son #3 often gets overlooked/overshadowed.  He has been allowed to have the spotlight to himself this time - well, almost.  Sharing with Dear Daughter is not really an issue; they compliment each other so well and are great companions.

So what all of this has meant is a little more quiet time, some time to sit down and talk with their grandmother, and for her to get to focus on them individually.  Dear Son #3 loves his grandma's Ratatouille and today he got to be in the kitchen and make it with her.  I could hear her instructing him about cooking the bacon just right and not to add the other ingredients until the onions were just so.  He asked questions and she patiently and gladly answered.   They also made a salsa together (a seasoning mix that she had bought at our hometown County Fair that you simply add to diced tomatoes) which was very yummy, and did a crossword puzzle together. 

We've sat on the couch in the evenings and chatted about all of the happenings within the family  - a great way for me to quickly catch up on all of my cousins and their children - and remembering special times or things we wanted to ask/talk about but never remember to over the phone.  We played a game and watched a favorite program and enjoyed Grandma's delicious cookies that she brought for us.  We haven't really done a whole lot but it has been a great time to just be together. 

We're looking forward to going home tomorrow, by way of the Aquarium, and will be glad to get there.  But I am also so very thankful for this time to just relax and enjoy being with my mother and my two youngest children.

This I recall to my mind, therefore have I hope.  It is of the LORD's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning; great is thy faithfulness.  Lamentations 3:21-23


How?

09:49, Friday, October 16, 2009 .. 4 comments .. Link
How in the world could I have had chickens for so many years without realizing?

How could I have scoffed at the fluff-balls in the catalog as useless or decorative only?

Oh, how foolish I was!

How did I manage to resist getting a Silkie for so long?




They are SOOOOOOOOO ADORABLE!

Lord willing, I will never be without one again!!

(there were four Silkies in the Bantam Grab Bag that the children ordered - one white, one buff - most likely a roo, see his little wattles? - and two black.  they are about 6 weeks old now and just too cute!) 


Right in Front of Me

10:20, Monday, October 12, 2009 .. 1 comments .. Link
The children and I are planning a small trip away with my mom for a few days - always a treat - but there was a hitch in our plans.  Our destination is a 4-5 hour drive and I would like to leave early so we can enjoy the afternoon with her.  Dear Son #2 is taking a special class at church for several weeks and leaving early in the day would mean he misses his class.  He's asked if we can please leave after his class is over, which means that we would not arrive until late into the night.

I know how much this class means to him and how much he is gaining from it.  And as a mom, with a mother's heart to please, I am just so naturally inclined to do what he would like even if it is an inconvenience to me.  I really want to leave early but don't want him to miss out.  He really wants to stay yet doesn't want to miss seeing his grandmother.

What to do?  What to do?

We went back and forth for a day or more.  How could we decide on what to do?

Standing in the kitchen one night, the Holy Spirit reminded me of a verse - perhaps you know it? 

"If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him."  James 1:5

Of course!  So right then and there we prayed for the Lord's direction and will for our travel plans.  All things are best done in his time.  We prayed about it again on Sunday and Sunday evening the simplest, and what should have been the most obvious answer, came to me. 

Ask my husband - the head of our home - what we should do.

Why didn't I think of this before?  An answer so simple and right in front of me all the time yet I didn't see it.  Why?  Because I was so focused on MY plans and what would be the best for everyone that I forgot about GOD's plan and his order for our lives.  I told son of this answered prayer and that since Daddy was our 'head' in Christ, whatever his decision was would be our plan.

I'm so thankful for the Lord's provision for us in this way.  How many things I don't have to think and worry over because it is simply not my responsibility?  How many troubles have I brought upon myself when I have tried to take on those responsibilities which are not rightfully mine?  What a blessing it is knowing that even though my husband is just a man, sometimes given to whims and inconsistencies; the Lord is God eternal, unchangeable, and steadfast.  I need never fear to ask my husband a question, prayerfully, knowing that whatever his answer it is the Lord's will and plan for me because it follows the order that the Lord put in place --
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.  For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.  Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.  Ephesians 5: 22-24

Thank you, Lord, for my husband and for the assurance and promises in your word and for the work of the Holy Spirit which recalls that word which has been 'hid in my heart.'

Oh, in case you were wondering:  Husband's answer was that Dear Son could either miss his class so we could leave in a timely manner, or he could go to his class and miss going to see Grandma. 

  

Fabulous Pizza

10:19, Sunday, October 11, 2009 .. 2 comments .. Link
Dearest Dear Son #3 made us dinner tonight.  He's been wanting to for the past two nights but it didn't happen (luckily I had other items ready to go) and so today was the day.

He made us a totally tasty pizza which is pretty near to making me think we don't ever need to pay for pizza again!  Before, our attempts at homemade pizza have been to try and mimic our favorites but I think they just get too weighed down with toppings and then don't cook properly and the flavor - sauce, seasonings, something - just aren't quite right.  This recipe though, was fresh and flavorful and I'm ready to have it again tomorrow! (cause there's no leftovers from tonight to have tomorrow!)


Pizza Margherita

For dough:
  • 3 tsp. active dry yeast
  • 1 c. warm water
  • 2 T. olive oil
  • 1 tsp. sugar
  • 1 tsp. salt
  • 3 c. bread flour
In large mixing bowl, dissolve yeast in warm water.  Add the oil, sugar, salt and 1 cup flour.  Beat until smooth.  Stir in enough remaining flour to form a soft dough.
turn onto a floured surface; knead until smooth and elastic, about 6-8 minutes.   Place in a bowl coated with cooking spray, turning once to coat the top.  Cover and let rise in a warm place until doubled, about 1 hour.

Punch dough down; divide in half.  Roll each portion into a 13 in. circle.  Transfer to two 14 in. pizza pans coated with cooking spray;  build up edges slightly.  Cover and let rest for 10 minutes.

For Toppings:

  • 2 cans (14 1/2 ounces each) diced tomatoes, drained
  • 20 fresh basil leaves, thinly sliced (we didn't have fresh basil so used dried)
  • 8 cups shredded part skim mozzarella cheese (only had Monterey Jack and didn't use the full amount - it was still plenty of cheese!)
  • 2 tsp. dried oregano
  • 1/2 tsp. crushed red pepper flakes
  • 1/8 tsp. salt
  • 1/8 tsp. pepper
  • 2 T. olive oil
Spoon tomatoes over crusts.  Top with basil, cheese, oregano, pepper flakes, salt and pepper.  Drizzle with oil.  Bake at 450F for 15-20 minutes or until crust and cheese are golden brown. 



I'm here . . . .

07:53, Friday, October 9, 2009 .. 2 comments .. Link
 .  .  .   and I have a lot of things that I want to post on, but my mind and life are not cooperating right now.  Prayers are always appreciated.

They Grow So Fast

08:31, Tuesday, September 15, 2009 .. 4 comments .. Link
Last night our feathered babies spent their first night outside!  We finally finished their house after a late afternoon run to the hardware store for latches and caulk and weatherstripping tape so they will be secure and snug.  (We have visitors around here - namely opossums and an occasional raccoon, so it was very important that we make sure they are safe inside their house at night.)  After the bedding was put down and their food and water added, along with a few lights for warmth, I also put in a smallish branch that we had trimmed from the tree.  A few of them, particularly the EE's (Easter Eggers which lay eggs that are shades of blue and green), had a lot of fun hopping up on the branch and seeing how high they could go.

Here are some various pictures of their first week - They are seven to ten days old in these pictures.




Above is daughter with two of the Red Star males in an inside out cap.  We warned her of getting attached to any males when they are destined for "freezer camp," but she said they were too cute to resist and she might as well give them some love while they were alive.  What a sweetie.


This is one of our little Australorps.


A Red Star (sex-linked) male




An EE chick!

It has been so much fun having chicks again.  I cannot count the number of times in the past week that the children have come to me and said "Thank you for the chicks, Momma.  They're so wonderful!"   Since the chickens have made us so happy, I wanted to have that be part of the name for our little venture.  I looked in the thesaurus for synonyms of happy/happiness and found the perfect one - Felicity!

  • Etymology: Middle English felicite,
  • from Anglo-French felicité,
  • from Latin felicitat-, felicitas,
  • from felic-, felix fruitful, happy
  • Date: 14th century
1 a : the quality or state of being happy; especially : great happiness felicity>
b
: an instance of happiness
2 : something that causes happiness

I'll update with more pictures of the new hen house, and the bantam house that the boys are building today.

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