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Finding Purpose Beyond Our Pain, book review

{ 08:32, Wednesday, February 3, 2010 } { Posted in Book reviews } { 0 comments } { Link }
 
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Finding Purpose Beyond Our Pain: Uncover the Hidden Potential in Life's Most Common Struggles  -
By: Paul Meier, David Henderson

At one time or another everyone finds themselves questioning, "Does God still love me? Is there a purpose for all this pain?" Drs. Meier and Henderson teach readers how to face painful struggles head-on in a way that allows them to grow and mature emotionally and spiritually. In this timely book they explore the seven most common life challenges:

  • Injustice
  • Rejection
  • Loneliness
  • Loss
  • Discipline
  • Failure
  • Death

In addition they offer the three reasons we often miss the gifts these challenges can be. This unique approach to an age-old problem will encourage and challenge readers to grow through their struggles instead of wasting energy trying to avoid them altogether.

 

The latest book I've had the pleasure of reading to review for Thomas Nelson Publishers, through the Book Sneeze program, is Finding Purpose Beyond Our Pain.

I truly enjoyed this book. It hit on every area of life that is likely to cause pain. The stories the authors, Paul Meier, MD and David Henderson, MD, shared were very relatable. 

We've all experienced pain to some degree in many of these areas. This book has opened my eyes to the "greater good" that can come from pain and suffering. While experiencing the pain of rejection or loss is awful, the after-effects can be incredible. But, this only happens when we allow God to have His way. He does truly work ALL things together for our good. We may not see the good in the midst of the pain, but He does.

Whether you are walking through a difficult time in your life or not, I'd highly recommend this book. It helps one to see that there is a reason for life's happenings and that we need to fully rely on God to see us through...the good times and the not so good times.







7 Things About Mary

{ 05:59, Tuesday, January 19, 2010 } { Posted in Thoughts } { 0 comments } { Link }
Can it really be true? Is my baby really 7 today?? We keep telling her she can't grow up, but she continues to do so. Daddy even told her that she can only be 5...yet, here she is turning 7.

While I'd love to keep her in a little box, alas, God has plans for my baby and she is indeed growing up. I marvel at the young lady she is becoming, even while missing the little girl she was....

7 Things About Mary

1. Mary was my shortest labor, easiest birth and so many prayer requests answered!

2. She is the smartest 7 year old I know...she uses words that many adults cannot...and uses them correctly.

3. She brings joy and laughter to our world.

4. She loves to sing and dance. I pray that she always keeps that song in her heart and spring in her step.

5. She is named after my Gram...a wonderful reminder of a wonderful woman.

6. She wants to learn to shoot a gun when she's older, but also loves playing with her dolls.

7. She's not afraid to be just who she is.

Anyone who has met Mary has been blessed, just to know her. She is a light in our lives. We are so thankful that God chose to bless our family with her life. What a treasure she is!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MARUGY!!!! I love you!!!!



First post of 2010?!

{ 06:08, Thursday, January 14, 2010 } { Posted in A day in the life } { 2 comments } { Link }
First....a very Happy Anniversary to my brother and SIL...Gary and Missy!! Hope you two have a wonderful day today celebrating your special day!!!! Love you both!!!

Aside from our anniversary post, I haven't posted this year?! Oops!!

Life, as usual, is busy, busy, busy. As our children get older, it seems to only get busier. And then, one day, they'll all be grown and married...THEN what will we do?!

We are back to school. It's been terribly cold out, so nothing to do outside...not even snow to play in. Bummer. There was snow here last week, and Natalie and Mary did enjoy what little we had...but not REAL snow. Not snow like I want to see!

Our Christmas was good. Different since we didn't have any visiting family. Very different for me...it was only my second Christmas ever to not have my folks with me. Not sure I liked that part too much...and I hope next year is different in that regard....hint, hint....

Mary's birthday will be here next week. The ripe old age of 7. Seems so much older than say, 5. I see her leaving little girl-dom behind. It's sad in a way, but exciting in another. Ahhh...one of the complexities of being a Mama....

Honey's truck has some sort of issue with the rear end. Not sure how bad it is. It's just too cold out for him to work on it now. Hopefully, the weather will warm up some this weekend and he can at least diagnose the problem.

The great logging adventure is over. Kinda sad, actually. It looks VERY different up there now. Sure would love to have a dozer come in and build a huge pond up there. It would be incredible. Never another water worry for the cows...and what a neat thing to have here. We pray that it happens...sooner rather than later.

Blogging time seems to be sucked up by FaceBook time. Anyone else have that feeling? It's just so easy to update your status and have a conversation right there.

It's time to wake my children. A busy day ahead. After 3 weeks off, it's our first day back to dance, among other things!

Have a great day!!!



19 Things About Marriage :)

{ 05:39, Tuesday, January 5, 2010 } { 0 comments } { Link }
Today marks 19 years of wedded bliss for Honey and me. The years have flown by too quickly...yet I can't remember life without him. They say time flies when you're having fun....well...that is definitely the case here!

In light of my birthday posts with a certain number of things about the birthday person and their age, I'd like to post

19 Things I've Learned About Marriage

1. Marrying your very best friend is the best way to begin married life.

2. There will be ups and downs, allow them to draw you closer, not pull you apart.

3. Making your spouse happy will give you untold happiness yourself.

4. Complaining and nagging does no good for anyone...how could it possibly help your marriage?

5. Seeing your Honey's smile when he comes in the door after a day of work is the best thing!

6. Treating others better than you treat your spouse is just plain wrong. If you wouldn't talk that way to a stranger or a friend, why on earth would you be rude to your best friend??

7. Life will throw you curves....flow with them!

8. If you always try to please each other, you'll both end up satisfied.

9. Always kiss good night.....ALWAYS!

10. Kind words are a soothing thing on a rough day.

11. Never speak ill of your spouse...never....would you want him to speak ill of you???

12. Learn to communicate. REALLY communicate.....and...see #1...if you can't communicate, don't get married until you can!

13. Growing older together is a wonderful thing.

14. Time spent growing as an individual is a good thing too, just don't spend too much time on you....you aren't just you any more....you are part of a we!

15. Realize that life can be hard and help each other through the hard times.

16. Sticking it out is incredibly important....for you, for your spouse, for your children and on down the line to your grandchildren.

17. Recognize folks who drag you down and don't allow them to do so.

18. Seek out friends that you both enjoy spending time with...not one sided friendships.

19. Do things as a family....spend TIME together. After all, that's all we really have, isn't it??

Some of these things have been learned through our experiences together, others have been learned by observing others. I realize that not every marriage is wonderful and not every spouse is perfect. But, it can be that way. It truly can. And, when it is.....oh....it's incredible!!

Happy Anniversary, Honey!!! I love you more than yesterday, but nowhere near as much as tomorrow!!!



Busy days, oh so busy days!

{ 10:15, Monday, December 7, 2009 } { Posted in A day in the life } { 2 comments } { Link }
Life sure has a way of keeping you busy, eh?!

Each week this month is filled with a place to go, a Dr appmt to keep or friends to see. Looking forward to our homeschool group's Christmas Craft Party this week. It's always alot of fun!

Next week holds a trip to the dentist for Honey to get his permanent crown put on. We'll make it a date day... ;)

This month will also see us taking the first cow born on our farm to be processed. I'm soooo ready to have a freezer full of home grown, grass-fed beef!!! We'll be buying more hay soon. The cows haven't begun to make us a profit yet, but at least they are starting to pay for their hay. It's a start, right?!

The weather is cold now. I say if it's going to be cold, we should have snow too. Who knows...there is a wintry mix in our forecast this week. Some areas west of us did get some snow over the weekend. Wish we had gotten some of the beautiful white stuff too!

The children and I will be making a 2 hour trip later this week to pick up wheat. I am hoping that she will also have an extra bucket of coconut oil. I didn't order any, thinking we wouldn't have the funds for it. Since the delivery was delayed a week, we have enough for a bucket of it now. I've written her and am hoping to hear good news when she writes back!

We've had a tummy bug here. Natalie and Mary started it last week. They were well for a few days and then Rebecca was up with it all night. She's still not quite up to snuff, so we put off a planned sleepover for Rebecca and Natalie until they are completely well.

I was a little late in sending out invites to my annual cookie swap. I hope all are able to attend. I always have a great time getting together with my friends...and having cookies to share makes it a yummy time too! :)

Time to get school work started. I think that once the holidays are over, we'll bunker down and get to work. There are just so many other things to do this time of year, it's hard to stay focused on the school work....



What a full week!

{ 07:14, Thursday, November 19, 2009 } { Posted in A day in the life } { 1 comments } { Link }
Silly me, I had thought since we weren't having family visit for Thanksgiving or Christmas, it would be a slower time for us. Wrong...

November's calendar is full, and December is filling up fast. It's time to plan my annual cookie swap, so I pulled out the calendar....whew! Busy, busy, busy! But, each year when January rolls around, life always slows down a bit. So, we soak up the extra activity now and will have some slower days later.

Rebecca's trip to Cozumel is coming soon. She's so very excited! We're excited for her return...and she hasn't even left yet!

We sold 4 steers and 2 heifer calves last night!!!! WAHOO!!!! A friend of ours and his friend came to pick out which animals they wanted...and ended up taking all of our young ones. They brought corral panels and loaded them up themselves. It was nice to see our animals go to someone who appreciates the grass fed way we raise our cows, as well as the ease of the sale. We have one cow slated for processing next month...then I believe we are finished with our down-sizing for this year. Next year will bring another dozen or so calves to sell. We need to reduce our input costs....the hay we feed costs too much. With the increased pasture we will have after the logging is finished, we should have enough land for the cows...now to figure out what to plant, how to plant it, and when to plant it. If we could grow enough grasses during each part of the year, we could get away from the feeding of hay...

The Mama cows are not happy that we sold their offspring. But, such is life for a cow. They've been a bit loud all night..and all morning too...

Next week holds dental cleanings for the children and a dental crown appmt for my Honey. Not to mention Thanksgiving! A friend of ours whom we haven't seen in several years is coming to visit for Thanksgiving!! There's also Black Friday shopping to be done next week! I can't believe it's only a week and  a day away!

Off to get this day started!




Happy Birthdays to Martha and Penny

{ 08:25, Tuesday, November 17, 2009 } { Posted in Thoughts } { 0 comments } { Link }
Today is a special day!!!

My MIL and SIL share a birthday today!!!
What an incredible gift, to have a daughter born on your birthday!!!

Wishing you both a very special day!!! Wish we were together to celebrate!!

Love you both!!!



A small rant on birth certificates....

{ 08:02, Tuesday, November 17, 2009 } { Posted in A day in the life } { 2 comments } { Link }
Okay, so my driver's license needed to be renewed by my birthday.
Course, in that week was Veteran's Day, that was the day I had planned to stop by the office to renew my license. They were obviously closed.
Next day, we ride all the way over to the license office. Only to find that my birth certificate...which is the only birth certificate I have ever had....and was issued by the health department and had sufficed for ID for 39.99999 years of my life...was no longer valid for ID purposes. WHAT??!

I have to have a state issued birth certificate. Who came up with this craziness?? Why is my birth certificate no longer valid?? I looked at my bc versus my children's (issued by the State of FL)...the only thing missing from mine versus theirs? A certificate number! Actually, mine contains more info, such as day and time of birth.

So, I go to the State of NY's website. Something is wrong when NYC has its own website for vital statistics versus the rest of the state. As a former NY'er, I say cut off NYC from NY State and let it be its own state for crying out loud! Anyhow, there is no local vital statistics office that my Mom could visit and get me a copy. There's ONE vital statistics office for the whole state (minus NYC of course) and it's nowhere near my folks. Okay, plan b....order one and have it expedited to me. Nope, ordering takes 5-10 business days, then it will be sent out. WHAT?!

Called the driver's license office to see if there's anything they can do....perhaps put a note on my license that I am waiting for this ridiculous piece of paper or something. Nope...nothing...expired license is an expired license....

I wait....and will have to continue to wait...until my birth certificate finally arrives and I make the trip back to the driver's license office to renew it. This is soooo not cool.

Okay, rant over.....



Monday and vacation is over....

{ 08:01, Monday, November 16, 2009 } { Posted in A day in the life } { 0 comments } { Link }
It's Monday...a day I usually like....but not today. Today's Monday means vacation is over and Honey had to go back to work. Not cool, not cool at all!

We had a wonderful week. We didn't do anything out of the ordinary, just really enjoyed being together, all of us....

Today, it's back to work for Honey and back to school for us. A busy week, with quite a few busy weeks ahead.

We'll be having company for Thanksgiving. We had thought we wouldn't...but a friend we haven't seen in several years is coming to visit! How cool is that??

We had a busy weekend....Thomas did a job for a friend and cleaned a piece of equipment. Since we had rented a pressure washer for that job, we used it to clean the house too. It looks so much better!!

Guess I'm not in a chatty, bloggy mood right now....sure do miss my Honey. And I sure miss the extra sleep I have been getting! Thomas came downstairs about an hour ago. Yes, my son, up at 6am!! How cool is that?!

Time to start the day..Natalie and Mary are up now too....just need to rouse the sleeping Miss Rebecca....



Happy Birthday Baby

{ 11:32, Friday, November 13, 2009 } { 2 comments } { Link }
 Today marks one of the greatest events in world history....the birthdate of my beloved wife. Our children and I are infinitely blessed and continually encouraged by her positive,bright outlook.

   As a mother she sees to our children's every need all the while working to form them into independent, self sufficient, confident adults.

 As a teacher she works diligently to provide our children with the intellectual tools necessary to navigate whichever path in life they should choose.

 On our first post-introduction in-depth conversation I learned that while she possessed all she needed to pursue a truly professional occupational career, her desire was the higher calling of wife/mother done right.
She never disappoints, always satisfies, and often surprises. We are all spoiled I tell you.
 
 As a wife, well folks.... to say that I am satisfied, spoiled and sometimes overwhelmed in every dimension would not begin to adequately describe my life with this woman.

 My precious I thank God for you, I ask God to bless you. And I wish you a Happy Birthday!!!! I know I am glad you were born.

 Your husband and biggest fan
Toby


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