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Michelle and I do not agree on this
{ 09:01, 2008-Apr-2 }
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Michelle and I have a few things we disagree on (ok a lot), these are the ones. 1. is home schooling. Michelle feels that her sisters do not socialize enough. I told her that they just have different values than her. Michelle said it is not values. I explained to Michelle that due to her behavior at church , home schooling event, Friday school, 4h and such that the girls are mind full of the people they are around . That they do not want to be judged for Michelle's wrong doings. At 15 yrs old Michelle was caught at a Friday school class out in the parking lot making out with a 21 yrd old man. There is more and worse things. But the girls (her sisters) do watch their friends and the people they are around. I remember when our middle daughter went to the movies with a group of friends (not believers, or home schooled) and when it was over she called and asked if she could go hang out at her friends house for a while. I said yes , but she walked in the door 20 minutes later. She left because they started to drink and smoke. She is not a person who likes that and does not want to be around stuff like that so she came home. I think that is a good thing. Michelle asked why did she not stay? Michelle just does not get it. Our children do serve at church, their choice not ours, they do things with their friends, have friends over and stuff. They just are not into the kind of stuff that Michelle was at that age. Michelle was into boys, sex, drinking, etc... My daughters think it is fun to got to a park with a truck full of friends and sit on a block of ice and slide down a small hill #2. is we push our girls. We do push our girls. My middle daughter is 17 years old and is writing her 1st book, 2 magazines want her art work, and she is going to college and high school at the same time. She has 405 high school credits and is a senior. She only needs 220 credits to graduate high school. She wanted to be a equine vet so she doubled up on her math and science. Now she wants to do her art and be a vet tech. We are fine with that. We do not let them go to work at this time, the summer is ok. There are a few places we told them they can work. 1 is at our vets office, he has been like a member of the family for over 20 years and he loves the girls like they are his own. I remember when the baby (ok she is 16 yrs now, but still a baby) was up set about her pet that was going to pass. Our vet just picked her up and sat her in his lap and held her while she cried. 2 is our local book store and 3 is our local feed store where we know the guys and they would watch out for them as they would their sisters. And that is all at this time. The baby is in 10th grade and has 230 credits. She also is going to college and high school at the same time. She is going to be a certified service dog trainer. We have never forced our children to do this it was their choice. They love to go to college. They see it as getting some of it done early and spending less time in college after high school. Is it wrong to prepare our children for the world? They will be part of it , but not in it. Both are looking at jobs they can do while living at home under dads and mine care. And if it is need the can work from home after they are married. They both plan on staying home until they are married. Am I off and Michelle is right? Or am I right and Michelle is off? I will admit I am protective (over God Bless, mj
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