Thunderwolf Ranch

Dying, grand babies.

So much in my title so I will break them down.

Dying:

My husbands grandma is dying. She is 80 years old and has been in bad health for years.  Grandma was in the hospital last Monday. Hubby went to see her because they did not think she would live past that day.  Last Tuesday the Dr.'s took out all the tubes that grandma had in her at the request.  The Dr.'s sent her home to die as for the say there is no more they can do for her.  We went to see grandma this Saturday, we took the grand babies with us, they are her great-great-grand babies.  The day was such a blessing to us all.  Only about half of the family was there that day, but it was so nice to just spend time with and to hear the stories she was telling about her past.  It made me miss my grand parents so much more than I all ready do.   We took a family picture and just spent the day as one huge family being there for her. (I will post the picture later).  As of today grandma is still here with us. She has not gone home with the Lord yet, but will soon.  I hope we get in more time seeing her before she is called home.  Grandma is the last of hubbies grandparents.  My last grandparent went home in 2001.

Grand babies & Daughter:

The grand babies are here again.  We have just loved the time we are having with them.  The girls played hooky from school one day and took them to Disneyland! But the day ended up a school day from what they learned (more later).  We have had them for over a week and really don't want to give them back.  As for our daughter Michelle is a pain in the tush! BIG TIME!!!  Due to grandma's health we told her that if she passes she would have to come get the babies.  She said no. She would have the father of Jeffie come get them both! I told her no I would find a sitter.  Jeffie's father is a drug addict and will be going to jail soon.  Yes Jeffie and Maddie have different fathers.  Why she wouldn't come get then money!  She just bought a real used SUV an 1981, she paid for it and put in both her and her boyfriends name!  Then she bought the babies new beds and fixed up their room. But she just sold her other car too.  And she is paying  some of the bills because her boyfriend can't afford too.  He bring in a thousand a week and their bills are about $2500.00 a month.  Michelle is not working and is still married to her hubby!  They go to court on the 19th, so we will see what happens.

But at least we have the grand babies. 

As for Michelle I/we are at a loss as what to do. She ask for advice we give it, but she does not like what we have to say. 

God Bless. mj