Thunderwolf Ranch

Daughter and Grandbabies up-date

Today has been a bad day.  I only got about 2 hours sleep last night!  It seems to be normal at this time .  I can only sleep a few minutes out of each hour.  So I am/was very sleepy.  

Michelle called and said Ryan, the babies and her are coming down because Ryan's brother died and to pick up his kids, his brothers kids. 

My ddm (middle daughter) woke up sick as can be today. She has been fighting it for a few days.  I gave her some Motrin for her head and body that was hurting.  For her cough I gave her some of her sisters medicine for cough and congestion.  She went back to bed for a bit.  When she woke up again her fever was 104.9 WITH Motrin.  I called our Dr he said to bring her in right away.  While we were getting dressed to go (out of our pjs) Michelle called to drop off the babies.  A few hours before Michelle called and asked dad if we could baby sit, he said yes but told her the rules and how bad ddm and I doing and that she needs to respect us and our time.

  She calls later telling me she will be dropping off the babies in about 1/2 hour, it was a round 2 ish.  I told her she asked for the night not for the day too.  I also told her that her sisters fever would not break and the Dr wanted her in to him now. She had such a nice fit, saying who would watch them? what will she do now?  She was so concerned about her sister , my nose is growing way big on that one.  She was only worried about Michelle band what Michelle wanted.  She ended up calling her grandma to sit for a bit.  I told we will not , can not pick up the babies, she will have to do it herself.  When she dropped the babies off we told her we needed a time that she will come to get the babies because her younger sister has school (Friday school) and that ddm and I could not care for the babies ourselves as we are very sick. She said she will let us know by 9:00pm.  No call , so I called her.

She was sooo rude! I told her what we needed and why.  Need: for her to get the babies before ddb went to school at 11am,  Why: is because ddm is verry sick has  a fever that wont break, can give this to the babies and I am couch ridin.  She had another nice fit 9(what a big girl) she said she had to be there for Ryans and his family, because they are her family too. I told her we are her family we will help her out , but she had to help us out too.  I told her how we have helped her in the past so she could go to events and how she was to watch the babies so we could do our events  and that it never happened, she said she had to meet Ryans needs not ours. I told her we will not help her by watching the babies so she can go to events anymore , because she will not step up and watch her own babies when we need her to or when we have events of our own.  Then dad got on the phone with her .

We hubby and I called her this morning to get the babies . Michelle showed up after 12 pm to get the babies, she wanted us to fill her diaper bag so she would not have to spend the money getting baby supplies! Hello they are her babies!  We told her no, so she left.

Ddm and I got a few hours of over needed sleep.  Michelle had to step up and be a mom, she was/ is mad, welcome to mommy hood, you give life to the babies , you do the job God gave you , you mommy them , not go out enjoy the world and party like you have no babies.

God Bless.    mj