Thunderwolf Ranch

My Daughter

Daughter Free to good home, or no good home.      Michelle made me as mad as a wet hen today.   We had hubbies Christmas dinner on Friday night. We told her over a week  in advance that we could not have the babies.   If you read my last post she  took off to Pismo to go get her boyfriend and bring him back down here.  They both are from our city.   But, today she came over to get the babies to take them to her mother-in -law for a few hours.   Michelle told me when she came over at noon that Ryan (boyfriend) had told her he had to work!  So Michelle messed us up  for nothing!

She came back with a ring on her finger tooo!  Some people have asked why we do not get custody of the grand babies?  Well here is the answer:  Well Michelle would give the kids to her husband in another state and we would not get to see them, they would keep them away from us.  Also her grandma on her fathers side (my 1st husband) would lie and say she is living with her and they are caring for the babies and we would not see the babies, Michelle would keep them away.  Michelle father would also lie and say she is living with him and he is caring for the babies, Michelle would keep the babies away from us.   We are between a dog and a tree , we are the pee.

Michelle got verrrry mad this afternoon. Maddie wanted a cookie and she asked her "mommy" for one. The person she asked is my baby daughter who is 15 yrs old, she is her mommy.  Michelle got  mad and said she is Maddie's mommy , that her auntie is not.  The truth comes out of the mouth of babies.  Michelle also got mad because Jeffie did not want to go with her he wanted his taya , my middle daughter 17 yrs old, who is the one with the mommy roll.  Jeffie will listen to taya and not his mom.  They have a real mother / son bond , even though she is his auntie.  Jeffie sleep in taya bed with his head on her chest and holding her hand. He wont sleep in his own bed at this time. We think he feels insecure because of what Michelle does to him. Our home is the only stable home he has ever had.

Michelle told me in a few months she will be moving in a few months back to Pismo to live with her boyfriend Ryan.  I told her she is NOT going to take the babies until they have a stable home.  She said they will right from the start.  I told her NO they need to figure and work everything out before they add the babies.   I hope she knows we mean it.    Ryan told us he is not ready to be a daddy and is not sure about the babies being there full time. 

Michelle and Ryan need to grow up. They need to see that these babies are the most important people in their lives.  That they must be stable, but not perfect adults for the babies.  We all make mistakes and grow from them , but it should not be at the cost of the blessing (babies) that God has given us.

Michelle will be bringing the babies home later tonight and then we all will go to my mom's for open house. But I hate the drive! It is a whole 12 houses away . Michelle will be staying the night with us so she is with the babies Christmas morning.

Please keep the advice coming it real helps to see so many different point we all have.  Please keep it coming. 

God Bless all

Have a blessed Christmas to all.      mj

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{ 02:35, 2007-Dec-24 } { Posted by TheWedhornFamily }

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_______________Merry Christmas
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{ 09:26, 2007-Dec-25 } { Posted by 4timesblessed }

Merry Christmas! I'm saying a prayer for the babies.

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{ 08:05, 2007-Dec-26 } { Posted by GodsMaidenAuthor }

Hi! Thank you and Merry Christmas to you too! I hope you had a lovely day!
I am very sorry your daughter will not be resposable and care for her babies as she should. I am very glad they have you and your other daughters at least part time. I will pray for you all every time I think of you and I will pray that your daughter will raise her babies as she should!
Heather

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{ 02:59, 2008-Jan-2 } { Posted by rildapeel1 }

I know how it feels to have God's comfort and peace as you described. What a way to live each day. That peace sure is beyond our understanding when it comes as yours did in a time of much need. What a wonderful free gift to have all He has just because He loves us. Father heal this precious one in all the areas needing healing. Give her balance and love in all that comes her way. As she overcomes you bring her to the place where she needs to be with nothing missing and nothing broken. In Jesus' Holy Name!
lovingly, rilda