Thunderwolf Ranch

Touble with daughter

Trouble with my daughter ( the one how was molested). She was over tonight to give us a list

of things she wanted for her baby shower. She is married with 1 baby and 1 more due 4/4/06.

She is so full of anger still. she wants to have her sisters over at her house to visit her and the baby. I  tried to tell her that we do not want the girls want up there because her brother -in-law lives with her and her hubby and he does drugs in the house. He has also hit my daughter,

and her mom-in-law lives there too drinks to much. This is a 2 bedroom apt!. She has had some one killed in her walk way.  We told her she can see her sisters at our house, she was not up to that. Help we do not know what to do?. She is also trying to undo the training we have done. We have trained our girls that when they go to college that we will fully support them, they are not work while in school, they are to stay live at home until married. She  was

telling her sister that when they are 18 they can move out and become "worldly".   The bible talks about a man and women are to leave thier parent and become one. I can't say that they

might not stay at home until they are married  , but this is what they are trained to. If she wants to be in her sisters life she needs to positive person not some one to undo what we worked

so hard to train them for. I am turning this over to the Lord. I  have been giving him so much lately , my anger for the people who molested and kiddnaped her and know the problems with my daughter. I want this anger to go away, the pain, the it's not fair, the Lord is the only one who can do this. I can not carry this any more, it has made my health bad ( the allergy problems). I have so much to work on. God Bless, mj

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{ 04:51, 2006-Feb-23 } { Posted by kayinpa }

I am so sorry about this trouble you are having and am praying for your situation! Pray, Pray, Pray for her and love her, but stick to your guns about your other daughters!

Tears

{ 05:03, 2006-Feb-23 } { Posted by jinyeah3 }

When I read your post it moved me so much that I wanted to cry, but I couldn't. I get that way sometimes when things seem to huge. I can't imagine how overwhelming this must be to you. I am praying for you and God's comfort for you and your daughter.

I pray that God will give you wisdom, strength and courage. It seems to me that you love all of your daughters very much.

There have been wierd things that have happened in my kids lives that I never bargained for when I was daydreaming about being a mom, things that frustrated and greived me. I can bet that your mommy dreams for your girls did not include having your daughter kidnapped, molested, and returned halfway to you. My heart breaks with yours. I am praying for your comfort and for your precious daughter to "come all of the way home" in her heart. Jenette.

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{ 12:56, 2006-Feb-24 } { Posted by glenda }

My heart goes out to you..I will pray for you and your family.. I am with the other here in saying pray pray pray.. God can and does move mountians...

glenda