Thunderwolf Ranch

Prayer needed please pray for us

My family and I need prayer.  Michelle is keeping the grand-babies away from us all.  She says it is because we do not respect here as a mother.  Well that is true, but she does not need to keep the babies away.  It all came a head last week when Shannon's mom come over to visit us.  We invited Michelle and Gill and the babies over to have dinner with us all.  They got there 1/2 late.   After dinner Michelle asked me if we would watch the babies while she goes to get a blood test done at 8am.  I said no we can't at that time.  That she needs to take the babies with her and have them in a stroller.  She says what stroller I said the one we bought her.  She said she loaned it to her friend and it got stolen, so buy me another one!  I told her to get a job!  She has not worked a day in the past 6 months and wants everyone else to support her. 

After all we have done for her she pulls this stuff!!  We feed her , the babies and her boyfriend.  We pay for her gas and help her out.  We are done helping Michelle.  She needs to stop playing these little games.  We will care for the babies and help support them .  But Michelle she needs to grow up and become a mom to her babies.  Not go from guy to guy trying to get pregnant and looking for the easy road by having each new guy care for her and the babies.  Gill is the 3rd daddy they had this year!

We do not respect Michelle as a mom.  Her sister have raised the babies as much as she has.  They cry when she takes them away from here.  Jeffie has a mother and son bond with Shayna not Michelle.  Maddy calls Kristi mommy.  When Michelle brings the babies over Maddy run to Kristi and says "Mommy I am home".  When Michelle and the babies are here Maddy calls Kristi mommy not Michelle.

We cloth and feed the babies.  We take care of them a lot of the time.  They have lived here over 1/2 of their lives.  How could we respect her as a mom.

A mom does everything for her children.  Not have everyone else do it.  Yes, mom's need help and family is a wonderful help. But the problem is Michelle does not help herself or help the babies.  It would be different if she did something for the babies.  How could you go for 6 months with out buy food for your children ?  Or with out giving them a home?  She will live place to place , with person to person.  At least until she got pregnant again, now she lives with Gill and his parents.  How can a grown woman with 2 babies and 1 on the way have him and his family pay for everything and not do anything to help them help her.

We would feel different if she was doing something.

I / we are hurt over her keeping the babies away from us.

She will want or need something and then she will be oh so sweet, but sorry we are going to play your game.

Please pray for us.

Godd bless, mj

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{ 08:15, 2008-Sep-17 } { Posted by gabbie427 }

I will be praying MJ. It sounds like Michelle still has some growing up to do. I am so sorry she keeps playing this game with you all in keeping the babies from you!!!

God's Blessings,
Amy Jo

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{ 12:24, 2008-Sep-17 } { Posted by Jonash2004 }

You are in my prayers. This sounds so difficult!

~hugs~
Ashley