Thunderwolf Ranch

Up date on Michelle and the grand-babies

This is an up date on our daughter Michelle.  I am not bashing her just telling the truth about what is going on with her.

Michelle moved back down here a few months ago.  She got back together with Maddies dad.   After a few weeks she broke up with him.  She left Maddie with us (Jeffie was already here as he did not want to leave us, so she dropped off Maddie)  she took off up north to her boyfriend Ryan she just left a few weeks before.

History here:  Michelle left Matt Maddies dad to date Ryan, she left Ryan to date Matt.  When she broke up with Matt she went back to Ryan for the few days she was up there.

Michelle came home picked up Maddie and was long distance dating Ryan.  While doing this she met Gill staying at her friends house.   They started dating and 2 weeks after dating she moved in with him and his parents!   They have been together 3 weeks now.

She says she has a job at a bar and is getting another.  We will see. But she says Gill is going to watch the kids while she works.  She lost her car by not paying for it.  So she is using one of Gills.

Are 2 cents:   Michelle what are you doing????   To us we see her looking for the easy ride.  She puts all she has into each new guy.  We want her to put all she has into her and the kids.    She does not need a guy, she needs to be a good mom.  Not give the kids a new daddy every few weeks.    Michelle needs to go to school and the state will help her do it, to get her life on the right track.  

We have told her we will help her and the babies.   But we will only help her when she is on the right track, meaning trying on her own not with a new guy every few weeks!    We always take care of the kids, we clothe and feed them and baby sit them a lot.

I must say though we do not watch Maddie as much the last few weeks.  Jeffie has pretty much moved back in her, until Michelle took him to go visit his dad in Vegas.   Michelle is not training Maddie she lets her run WILD.  Maddie does not listen at all! she bites, hits, get into everything.   Maddie is only 2, but is a hand full.  Jeffie 3 is at home in our house, it is his home.  Michelle called and told me Jeffie wants to come home so she brought him back here.   We are going to start watching Maddie with Jeffie and training her.

It was just hard to watch her while we were getting ready for the horse and dogs shows we had last week.  At the ranch Maddie just runs wild and under , around all the animals horse included.  Jeffie he stays in the kids play area and gets naked and plays in a water bucket.   

So I guess we will see how long this boyfriend last.   Right now Gill is giving Michelle what she needs a place to live, a car, money and paying for her and the kids keep.

That all for now, it makes me sad.

God Bless, mj

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{ 01:42, 2008-Jul-12 } { Posted by rildapeel1 }

Sending a hug to you my dear for us mom's just feel so deeply for our children and grandchildren. Your daughter and my son have alot to learn and my prayer is that they become ALL God created them to be. What a miracle that will be when we see them freed and living a life worth living with Father God directing their steps and decisions. Awaiting to see it done, rilda *U*.

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{ 03:35, 2008-Jul-13 } { Posted by Anonymous }

How can you do that to your own duagther you tell people your daughters business. You are her mother and yet you bash her and disgrace her this way. To top it off you end with "God Bless". Do you think your any better then her by doing this?

You should love your children no matter what. Shame on you!!!!!!

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{ 09:35, 2008-Jul-13 } { Posted by Squeaker }

I don't think that she was bashing her daughter at all. It is called reaching for peoples help in this horrid time. I thank God daily that my kids are all grown up and on their own and doing well. I don't know what I would do, having to raise kids today that have no morals, let alone take care of their own children that they are determined to have. SHAME ON YOU, is not helping someone in distress. I too, send my blessings to you and pray that your daughter finds out quickly that it isn't the MEN that are going to make her happy and fulfilled. It is the Lord and her children. I commend you for trying to help your grandchildren at this time. THEY are the ones that are going through all of the trauma of not knowing where they belong. God bless you and your family

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{ 01:46, 2008-Jul-13 } { Posted by fultoncountymommie }

I have been wondering how the children were fairing since the last time you wrote. I was truly hoping that thing were getting better but at least it seems that with the children around more you can train them and love them. You are doing a great job being a good influence on them and loving them. I am afraid that poor Michelle needs to hit rock bottom. I am sure that is seems as though she could not fall any lower but everyone is different. You are doing all a mother can do.
PS I noticed that a "Anonymous" blogger tried to imply that what you were doing was wrong. You did what you thought best by telling others, "This is my problem, this is how we are dealing with it." Feel free to tell us what ever you want and we will continue to offer advice and encouragement.

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{ 02:10, 2008-Jul-20 } { Posted by GrandmaRosie }

Keep holding her up in prayer. God answers our prayers for our children. I have one who is really out on a limb right now. But I am putting her in God's hands. You are in my prayers dear friend.

I did notice the person who left an unkind remark failed to idenify themself. Old Anonymous poops up it's rude head again.