I clicked on Trixi's Blog and came across the entry on Hidden Feminism and Help meet... that she wrote back on Tuesday of this week. And in reading his entry it sent me to Deanna's blog at Abundant Blessings Homestead(can't seem to get the link to work right.) and to the entry on Hidden Feminism in the home.. which was an entry from Monay of this week. Boy was that an eye opener.

There were so many things in that entry and really made me see several if not all in myself. And to be honest I really don't like that. I thought I was getting better about things.

I come to ask Jesus into my heart about 3 1/2 years ago. And was on fire in the beginning, of course things came in the way and I'm not as on fire as I once was and am trying to get back to it.

But the entry made me see the several things that I am probably doing wrong or not obeying in someway or another. There's a part about her saying that women have said they are praying for their husband to become the spiritual leader in the household. Granted I've done that, but then again my dh hasn't taken the steps to ask Jesus into his heart and its been a slow process. I don't even ask him anymore to attend church with us, I figured this needs to be his descision. We don't attend as regularly as I'd like due to my car needing to be fixed.

Then I get down to the list of what not to do.

The first one was Doing things behind his back. Now I've done this many times, & I ended up paying for. And I realize I need to listen better. OF course the one thing I did was make camping reservations for Father's Day weekend without asking him. Only because I wanted it to be a surprise for him.

The list goes on as things I've done or currently do. I never realized the extemt of things that should not be done. Indeed and eye opener.

I just wanted to share these items and maybe open my eyes to be a better wife.

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