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What do you do on a COLD and SNOWY day when you are not someone that likes to get out there and make snowmen??? Post poetry to your simple family life blog Grandma Davis (Elma Suzann Hancock Davis) She greeted us at her front door; Wearing her simple, cotton, hand made dress, A colorful apron tied around her waist with two BIG pockets just the right size for carrying a hanky and a small can of snuff. Her face BEAMED with joy-pure and sincere as she came out on her little front porch to give us a WARM heartfelt HUG! I remember her scent-- a wonderful mix of fresh-baked biscuits, wood smoke bacon and chickory coffee. No perfumery could ever formulate anything to compare! The fragrance still hangs in HER corner of my memories. The little house has never been shadowed by any mansion-no matter how GRAND! No event has ever been greater than those HUGS on that front porch So very long ago!!! I hope that you will enjoy reading my poetry when you stop by and visit. I try to write about things that are dear to me, especially family related memories and events. Hope that you are staying warm and cozy today wherever you are today. Big HUGS from WV, Charlotte
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Well, that is what I am doing, anyway...I am going to start using this little blog for my poetry in addition to favorite recipes and family stuff. This a poem that I had written about my dad's mother, the same sweet Grandma that lived in the little house from the photo that I posted a few months ago:|
THE YEAR 1909 This will boggle your mind, I know it did mine! The year is 1909. One hundred years ago. What a difference a century makes! Here are some statistics for the Year 1909 : ************ ********* ********* The average life expectancy was 47 years. fuel for this car was sold in drug stores only Only 14 percent of the homes had a bathtub. Only 8 percent of the homes had a telephone. There were only 8,000 cars and only 144 miles Of paved roads. The maximum speed limit in most cities was 10 mph. The tallest structure in the world was the Eiffel Tower! The average wage in 1909 was 22 cents per hour. The average worker made between $200 and $400 per year .. A competent accountant could expect to earn $2000 per year, A dentist $2,500 per year, a veterinarian between $1,500 and $4,000 per year, and a mechanical engineer about $5,000 per year. More than 95 percent of all births took place at HOME . Ninety percent of all doctors had NO COLLEGE EDUCATION! Instead, they attended so-called medical schools, many of which Were condemned in the press AND the government as 'substandard. ' Sugar cost four cents a pound. Eggs were fourteen cents a dozen. Coffee was fifteen cents a pound. Most women only washed their hair once a month, and used Borax or egg yolks for shampoo. Canada passed a law that prohibited poor people from Entering into their country for any reason. Five leading causes of death were: 1. Pneumonia and influenza 2. Tuberculosis 3. Diarrhea 4. Heart disease 5. Stroke The American flag had 45 stars... The population of Las Vegas, Nevada, was only 30!!!! Crossword puzzles, canned beer, and iced tea Hadn't been invented yet. There was no Mother's Day or Father's Day. Two out of every 10 adults couldn't read or write and Only 6 percent of all Americans had graduated from high school.. Marijuana, heroin, and morphine were all available over the counter at the local corner drugstores. Back then pharmacists said, 'Heroin clears the complexion, gives buoyancy to the mind,regulates the stomach and bowels, and is, in fact, a perfect guardian of health' ( Shocking? DUH! ) Eighteen percent of households had at least one full-time servant or domestic help.. There were about 230 reported murders in the ENTIRE ! U.S.A.! Plus one more sad thought; 95 percent of the taxes we have now did not exist in 1909 I am now going to forward this to someone else without typing it myself. From there, it will be sent to others all over the WORLD - all in a matter of seconds! Try to imagine what it may be like in another 100 years. IT STAGGERS THE MIND |
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I forgot that I wanted to post this picture for you to see. This is the little farmhouse in NC where my dad and his 5 brothers and 1 sister were raised. It is still standing and is in fair condition. Some of my happiest memories live in those walls. The building behind the house was the smoke house where some really good bacon was cured through the years. |
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I am back-did ya miss me??? Hope that all of you are doing well and that you had a wonderful summer season. I am so glad to see fall arive as it is, personally, my favorite season of all! We did not have a hot summer this year, so I did enjoy the long, sunny days a bit more than usual. Caleb was very glad for those wonderful sun-drenched days to spend outside just being a kid. Robin did not plant tomatoes this year, we had too many other concerns for that. I had to be taken to the hospital by ambulance on June 6th as I had fainted in our bathroom. They did my hysterectomy surgery the next morning at 11:00. I had been to see my mom in the hospital on the 6th and started hemoraging pretty heavy. I am so glad that it is all over and I am healing very well and getting back into all of my activities and housekeeping. My mom is still having trouble with a venous leg ulcer. That was what she was in the hospital for in June and she had to go back and spend another 10 days last month. She is going to a local wound care center, but we are just not seeing the kind of results we would like. She had 21 days of in-home nursing care to change the dressing every day, but that has run out for her. I have been taking turns with my cousins taking her to appointments. She prefers that we take her as she says that she is afraid to ride with daddy driving. Dad is getting to the point that he will not be driving for much longer-he is 87. This has been a very difficult time for them. They have always been so independent. Please keep she and my daddy in your prayers. I have a new motto about laundry: "a load a day keeps Mt. Laundry away!" I am trying to wash, dry, fold and put away at least one load of laundry. I try to do towels on one day and jeans or tee shirts on the next so that I have full loads. It does help keep things under control. Well, that is what is new around here. I am trying to get back to posting at least once a week. I will also try to stop by your pages to visit and leave comments. I do so enjoy "visiting" with you. Hugs from WV and Stay Cozy, Char |
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I haven't really posted much here at the Journal about my health, I tend to be kind of private about that most of the time. I prefer to have something cheerful for you to read when you visit me. But this past week has been a doozey! My OB/GYN wants to do a hysterectomy before the end of summer this year. No, it is not cancer-PRAISE GOD!, but major surgery, nonetheless. She ordered a bunch of bloodwork, pelvic ultrasounds, EKG and has me working with a nurse practitioner to get my blood pressure down. My blood pressure has always been pretty normal, especially considering my size (lets just say I'm not tiny). This week it topped at 210/100- YIKES!!! They had me come back in a couple of days later and it was still at 180/100-sooooo, I am now on HBP meds... :-( I have never had to take any long-term perscription meds before and I am not a happy camper right now. I usually prefer to find alternative natural cures for everything. But the meds do seem to be helping. Yesterday I had a reading of 137/89 on the left arm and 147/98 on the right arm. My sweet MIL bought one of those wrist band BP cuffs for me to use daily to keep track of my progress for the nurse practitioner. I will go back to see her on Friday of this week. Will let you know how things are going. Until then, Stay Cozy, Charlotte |
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I have had this little prayer/poem by my sink since about 1985. I now have a nice dishwasher in this house, but there is still a good deal of things we use that require hand washing and drying. Also, my sweet hubby is now our chief "bottle washer"- a task he took over when I was going to college a few years ago. I am truly blessed! Hope you enjoy the little poem: Thank God for dirty dishes They have a tale to tell, While others are going hungry We are eating very well. With home and hearth and happiness I shouldn't want to fuss, For by this stack of evidence God's VERY good to us! |
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I took time this morning to fix my missing photo situation. I stopped by here one day last week and discovered that all of my pictures had mysteriously disappeared! I soon discovered that my dear son had unwittingly moved my photo files to the start up menu of the computer-Ooops! I did not have time to fix them at that time as we have been busy with school and cleaning and I have been working diligently with a friend on redecorating her townhouse. New carpet, new lighting and all, it has been very exciting! She is doing everything one step at a time and we are hoping to have it all done by Thanksgiving of this year. Anyway, this morning seemed like the perfect, quiet moment to get those wayward photos back on this humble, little blog of mine. Mission accomplished, hope son doesn't do anymore re-arranging. Hugs from WV, Charlotte |
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My mom says that from her earliest years she dreamed of being a homemaker and having a family of her own. She found it strange in the 1970s that there were people that would challenge her for choosing this way of life. One of her favorite poems on the subject was simply titled "Just a Housewife". She often quoted it as she did her cleaning if she thought that anyone was listening; it was also posted on our kitchen wall. She passed it on to me recently in a book of her memories and I want to share it with you wonderful ladies. I do not know the author of the poem, if any of you do, please let me know. Just a Housewife They call me "just a housewife" And I'm surely glad indeed That God thought I'd be successful In this work of love and need. As I polish floors and windows Stylish ladies pity me But I wouldn't trade them places If there mansions were all free! Some folks are quite successful Kings of finance, so they say And they seem to find their glory Gathering gold along the way. Let them have their golden moments I'm not jealous of their life For I feel just like a princess When my husband calls me WIFE! Yes, they call me "just a housewife" But I'm more--much more, you see I am keeper of a household Which is "Home Sweet Home" to me. I am rich in LOVE and loved ones And I'm free from strain and strife I'm so glad God thought me useful Being just a plain HOUSEWIFE. Mom states in her memory book that my little brother used to ask her to read him the poem to him. She had it almost memorized word for word. She was and still is one of the greatest homemakers that I have ever known. Hope you enjoyed the poem and that you are all having a BLESSED week. Hugs from WV, Charlotte
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Stop By and visit Peggy at The Simple Woman's Daybook FOR TODAY: January 21, 2009
This is a very dear couple at our Church that dress as Santa and Mrs. Santa for the Breakfast with Santa for the children. The purpose is to tell the children that Santa is NOT the reason we have Christmas. He reads the Christmas story from Luke and she tells the Children about Jesus and what He means to them. It is a wonderful time; Santa has a small gift for each of the little ones, they make ornaments, their is a wonderful breakfast fixed for them. The young man in the photo, of corse, is Caleb, my last little one at home. |
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Homemaking More Than Dishes and Laundry This is a wonderful Study that I ran across while visiting Peggy's Blog this afternoon. I don't know how I missed it before, but I am glad that I have found it now. What wonderful resource for those of us longing for simpler times with family and home. This study is not just about how to clean a floor or set a table; it is much more than that. Peggy has created a thought provoking journey that leads the reader to explore what home means to them. As we begin this New Year we all need a little reminder to stop and think about our goals for home and family. If you have some time, go to the link above and begin the study for yourself; you will be glad you did. |
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Visit Peggy at The Simple Woman's Daybook here. FOR TODAY January 5, 2009 Outside my window...Hazy WV skies just like the line from John Denver's song; "Dark and dusty painted on her skies..."
This is a photo of me in my living room. It was taken for an article that was featured in our local newspaper last week. This was a pleasant surprise and the first time that I have ever had anything written about me in the newspaper (and it wasn't in the "funny-paper" =-).
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FOR TODAY December 15, 2008
This is my dining room and my collection of Jolly Snowmen Thank you for stopping by to visit my little blog. I pray that you are having a Blessed Christmas season at your home, too. Please don't forget to stop by and visit Peggy at The Simple Woman's Daybook to see what's happening this week. Hugs for now, Charlotte |
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Yesterday was one of those days when it seems that things change from minute to minute. I was anticipating a quiet, purposeful day where things got done in an orderly fashion and things did start off that way. My husband finished putting up the Christmas village and I was able to start some of my laundry, but that is about as far as things got. My mom called later in the morning after her Doctor's visit. He wanted her to go to the hospital because her blood presure had DROPPED to 80/20. This is a woman that has battled HIGH blood pressure for as long as I can remember. She begged him not to make her go (can you believe this) and he told her that she could go home and rest, but she was to come back on WEDNESDAY so that he could check her BP again :-o When I talked to her she was still crying because she did not want to go to the hospital-she had to do her monthly bills. I talked to her and expressed my concern about the matter. "Mom, this is VERY serious! your life is in real danger". Nonetheless, she did do her bills and then my Dad called to say that he was now talking to her doctor to make arrangements for her to have a room ready at the hospital. Their neighbor was at their house visiting (a dear Christian sister and a former HS mom- she is like an angel to our family) and she took mom as soon as the doctor called to say her room was waiting. I met them over there and spent the evening with mom and got her settled in. Her BP had come back to a more acceptable 120/70 but her doctor is very concerned and may want to change her meds. We will know more today. She has been on one new med that we think is causing her problem along with nausea and loss of appetite-I hope that they take her off of that one. Please say a prayer for my mom and dad as they are both in their 80s and have always been very independent (they are used to being the Helpers, not the Help-ees) and this is very hard on them. They still live in the same house that they bought in 1956 and they are both still able to drive (safely) and to take care of each other for the most part. We do have our days, however, and yesterday was one of them. I will be going to the hospital after while and also calling to see if Dad needs for me to help him with anything. I love my parents and wish that I could do more for them. Keep us in your prayers. Hugs, Charlotte |
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FOR TODAY: December 8, 2008 From the kitchen...The smell of coffee right now. Later today Chicken and rice casserole.
This is an ornamental crabapple tree loaded with berries that is right across from my house. We had snow on Saturday and the white flakes looked so lovely falling on the red berries. The little bench was placed by our town's garden club for people to use while waiting for the city bus. I think it is just kind of picturesque.
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Sometimes my life can seem so complicated; so much to do, so many people, so little time. I sometimes think that I am just going to collaps from it all. Those are the times that I step back and remind myself of just how much has changed over the last couple of years. It is hard to believe that I used to have to go to a job outside our home where I took care of up to 100 people per week, ordered furnishings for them and kept track of deliveries, went out on outside design calls, raced with other commuters to work, had only 1/2 hour for lunch and then raced again with even grumpier commuters back home from work. When I got home, I helped my dear hubby with our dinner, helped our very disgruntled little one with his homework, took care of evening chores and bathtime routines, prepared for the next day to do it all over again. At the same time I was also active in our church choir and helped with my parents as much as posible and managed to fit in some time for friends--WHEW! I realize as I reflect on these hectic days just how wonderfully simple my days have become. I have been thinking about joining in on Peggy's The Simple Woman's Daybook for some time now, but just have not taken the leap. I guess my greatest fear is that I will not keep up with the commitment to post every Monday. I am now ready to take the challenge and join in on the fun. I love to read the blogs of these sisters in simplicity and I want to share my days, too. Stop by this coming Monday as I start my jouney. Hugs, Charlotte |
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I just realized how long it is has been since I stopped by to post anything.
The time just seems to fly around here by the time we make it through
classes and everyday chores as well as whatever project that I have going
at the time. I hope that each of you had a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday
with your families and that you are well on the way to getting all of your
preparations finished for the Christmas Season. I wanted to pass along the
latest news from Cozy Home Designs as we are dedicated to helping you
create your own Cozy Home for your family to enjoy. I have exciting news
as I have discovered a new candle company: Diamond Creek Candles and I
now have my own web page set up with them at:
They are just GORGEOUS and you can purchase them online directly from
my web page and they will be shipped right to your door. Stop by the page
and check them out.
There are many new and wonderful things coming from them for the New Year also, so I will have lots to tell you in the next couple of months.
The catalog can be viewed online at www.homeinteriors.com by clicking
the link at the bottom of the main home page after you select your
language at the top of the opening page.
One more piece of information that I am just ecstatic about!!! I am now
an authorized dealer of If Walls Could Talk Vinyl Words for Walls. This
is a Christian company and there are a good variety of Scriptures and
sayings to choose from so that you can express your family's thoughts and
beliefs for others to see. They are easy to apply and easy to remove so
that you can change them when you are ready. Contact me to view their selection.
Thank each of you for supporting me with your thoughts, and your prayers
and your business. You are the driving force behind Cozy Home Designs and
the reason that I continue to look for new items to bring to you for your home.
I am hoping that you have the BEST Christmas ever that the Lord will continue
to bless you through the New Year.
Hugs for now,
Charlotte
"Betsy Ross was a WAHM"-Charlotte Spears
(comment on our American Heritage of cottage industry)
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Posted in Prayer and Praise
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Good morning to all and I hope that you are having a wonderful Blessed day. I have not posted this week as it has been one of those whirlwind weeks where I have had something to do away from the house almost every day. Today, my sweet hubby, son and myself are going to his mom's to spend the day. I will be taking her to her hair appointment and Robin is going to do some errends around her house and cook a wonderful crock pot meal for us all to enjoy this evening. She has become weaker over the last couple of years and recently hurt her knee. Please remember this dear lady in your prayers. She is our family "prayer warrior" and has a deep love for the Lord. It is hard seeing our parents grow older and my hubby and I have decided that we need to do more for them, now more than ever as they are not able to do as much as they used to. Pray that the Lord will continue to strengthen us both Spiritually and physically through this time of our lives. I also wanted to take a minute to direct you to a wonderful web site that a friend shared with me. It is called The Old Time Gospel and I have just spent the last half hour there, feeding on God's promises and enjoying there articles. If you have a few minutes go by and check it out at: http://www.theoldtimegospel.org/index.html I will close for now as the time is sneaking up on me and I have to start getting ready for our visit. Hugs to all, Charlotte
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But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth [therein], he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed. -James 1:25 Happy Independence Day May you be guided by His Divine Law of Liberty Love in Christ, Charlotte |
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WOW, have I been one busy mama this afternoon. I got my housework done early this morning because I have a meeting planned with another WAHM in our area. We are going to have coffee and talk shop and exchange cards and books. I have such a heart for we moms that work from home. I feel that we are trying our best to keep our priorities in order according to what Our Heavenly Father would have us to do. I have put together little packets for my new WAHM friend to share with her friends. I included a brochure about my design services, a pen with my info on it, a business card and a Home Interior July book. After I finished getting everything ready for the meeting, I had a minute to web-hop for a minute. As I was going through some of my previously bookmarked I rediscovered an old favorite. The Organized Home at http://organizedhome.com/ has TONS of printable forms to help you get organized. I hope that you are having a GREAT day today!!! Until Later, Stay Cozy, Charlotte |
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If you are anything like me, you are a REAL fan of cheese, I mean real cheese, not that processed stuff that you have to peel a wrapper off of--ICK! My dear Aunt Louise lived in the little picturesque town of Minerva, OH for most of her adult life and was also a fan of good cheese and dairy products. This was good, because Minerva is right in the heart of Ohio dairy country. One of her great traditions in the last 20 years of her life (she lived to be a blessed 95 years old, had a wonderfully bright mind and good health up until the last 2 years) was to send family and friends gifts from the Minerva Dairy located near her home. Their dairy is family owned and the cheese is AWESOME!!! I sometimes get so hungry for it that I just have to order a bit. My favorite is their Baby Swiss, but I also like the Farmer's Cheese---YUM!! Their web address is http://www.minervacheese.com/ and they include a page with the family business history as well as an area for you to choose gift boxes for sending to friends and family as well. I just had them on my mind this morning, (feelin'cheese-y, I guess) and thought I would pass their info on to all of you as well. Hope you have an AWESOME week-end. Love and hugs, Char |