I keep trying to re-word this in my head, so it won't sound like I am jumping down any one's throat; as that is NOT the way I intend this...

This is just an opinion...just like the other was their opinion.  So, with that disclaimer, here I go.

I am a homeschooler.  I have been for three years now, and quite frankly I don't expect anyone to give me an explanation as to why or why not they home school....do I think it is the most wonderful way to rear our children, yes.

However; when I meet someone and they do not home school...I don't (and I don't think anyone else does either...) ask them why they don't. Usually, their "excuse" is just tagged on the end of their remark when the subject turns to home school,

"What school do your kids go to?" they ask.

"Oh, we home school" I remark.

"Wow, I could never do that........(insert 'excuse' here). they answer.

I just let it go and continue the conversation or answer their home school questions.  I feel like if I critique their 'excuse' or try to 'convince' them that I am right and they are 'wrong', then I am not being a very positive representative of homeschoolers. And sometimes it may be their way of delivering a very backhanded compliment...like they are impressed with you or are even envious of your dedication.....

Sometimes I liken it to when you pass someone in a doorway and say "Hi, how are you?"and they answer "fine"......  the remark sometimes just moves the conversation on or ends it politely......no harm no foul.

Just my 2 1/2 cents worth!